Julie in CA Posted February 16, 2013 Share Posted February 16, 2013 I took the picture with my webcam thingy, but now the picture is too large? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 16, 2013 Author Share Posted February 16, 2013 Still can't figure out what to do. :rolleyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest inoubliable Posted February 16, 2013 Share Posted February 16, 2013 Try this site. http://www.picresize.com You can resize the picture there. Then save it to your desktop and upload from there. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 17, 2013 Author Share Posted February 17, 2013 Still trying... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 I think you did it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Your picture looks great! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 17, 2013 Author Share Posted February 17, 2013 Lol! It's still not showing up for me. :blink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Wow! You look BEAUTIFUL!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 What's showing up on your end? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 17, 2013 Author Share Posted February 17, 2013 Nothing, just the gray box with the white outline of a person to indicate no photo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Hmmm.... Have you tried logging out of WTM and then logging back in? Maybe that will make it "take" on your end. We definitely see you! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Nothing, just the gray box with the white outline of a person to indicate no photo. Try signing out of the forum and then signing back in again. Maybe that will work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Hmmm.... Have you tried logging out of WTM and then logging back in? Maybe that will make it "take" on your end. We definitely see you! :) We were posting at the same time! That probably means that neither of us is right, and Julie is sitting at home right now after signing out, trying desperately to remember what password she used when she joined the forum. ;) I have actually done stuff like that. I have signed out of different sites, only to want to get back on again... except I forgot my password, and it takes me about 100 tries to finally get it right. And of course, it's usually sites that I joined when I had a different email address, so I can't even do the "forgot your password?" thing. :glare: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 We were posting at the same time! That probably means that neither of us is right, and Julie is sitting at home right now after signing out, trying desperately to remember what password she used when she joined the forum. ;) LOL. I hope not! :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NicksMama-Zack's Mama Too Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Wow, she's really beautiful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 17, 2013 Author Share Posted February 17, 2013 Ha! Got it! My dds thought the picture wasn't very good, but I'm gonna go with it. Not happy and smiling, like I used to be, but not as super-sad as I look most of the time now. ETA: HERE IS THE PLACE WHERE I POSTED A PICTURE OF SOMEONE ELSE. IT WAS BENEATH ME, AND I REMOVED IT BECAUSE I'D LIKE TO BE A BETTER PERSON THAN THAT. MY DIGNITY SLIPPED FOR A MOMENT, BUT IT'S BACK--FOR NOW, LOL! ETA: Thanks for humoring me, friends. I had to run to the grocery today, and realized that I dread seeing people because I think they'll look at me and think, "Well no wonder he was interested in someone else. The one he's married to isn't very easy on the eyes, is she?". And yep, I'm really old in comparison, and really, really overweight, and, and, and.....etc. I just needed someone to tell me that this didn't happen because I'm a total dog. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Yay, you're back! Cat and I were worried about you. ;) And you look WAY better than the person in the picture. Seriously. You're beautiful. And if the person in the picture is who I'm guessing it probably is, I'm sorry that you even have to contend with this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 17, 2013 Author Share Posted February 17, 2013 And you look WAY better than the person in the picture. Seriously. You're beautiful. And if the person in the picture is who I'm guessing it probably is, I'm sorry that you even have to contend with this. :grouphug: Thanks, friend. I know it's a really twisted thing to do, but I just need a girlfriend to side with me for a moment, kwim? :blushing: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hilltop Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 You are beautiful! (and yes, much more so than the person in the other picture) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Honestly, you look way better than the person in the photo. My first thought when I saw your picture is how beautiful you are. Truly beautiful. Such a lovely face, and such pretty, pretty hair. Really and truly beautiful. May God comfort you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M&NMom Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 You are a true classic beauty!!! The other person doesn't hold a candle to you, I promise! Tina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 You're gorgeous, and have way better hair. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 17, 2013 Author Share Posted February 17, 2013 You're gorgeous, and have way better hair. Thank you. The hair part is what makes me feel better in the middle of the night, kwim? :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 I saw your status on the main page, clicked the link to your page, and the first thing I thought was, "GOOD LORD, she's GORGEOUS!" No kidding. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 ((Julie)) I love your avatar. I don't want to comment on the other part of your post, b/c I know you have such a fine inner spirit that you will be deleting that part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 17, 2013 Author Share Posted February 17, 2013 I don't want to comment on the other part of your post, b/c I know you have such a fine inner spirit that you will be deleting that part. {Sigh} I know, I know, it's really, really bad. -And out of character for me. I guess I'm caving to insecurity now, and I'm having trouble staying....well....I'm having trouble sticking to the high road. I'll snap out of it again in a few minutes, but right now, I'm craving reassurance. Sad, huh? :crying: What a small person... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyinTN Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Love your picture...beautiful! The other person...not so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flowing Brook Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 your hair is beautiful. I wish my hair was that pretty. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 You are beautiful, inside and out. Truly. If you weren't, I just wouldn't comment. But you are, so I did :grouphug: :001_smile:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest inoubliable Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 You are a true classic beauty!!! The other person doesn't hold a candle to you, I promise! Tina That's what I was thinking! "Classically gorgeous". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Oh honey, I didn't mean to sound like I was reprimanding you. I totally get it. I'm sorry you are hurting, I really am. Tons of hugs to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Not a small person, Julie; a person who is human and who is in a great deal of pain. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Peregrine Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 I've always thought you were beautiful. Truly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mabeline Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 You're very pretty. I love your hair. Hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 You look great! After I saw your picture I checked your siggy and can't believe you have a 21 year old child. You certainly don't look old enough! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhschool Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 I wish I had hair like that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Julie, truly, I didn't get your post, until I realized that you must have come back and edited out part of it. From your posts over the years, I know you to be kind, smart (!), loving, hard-working, and someone I would love to get to know if I only had time for real friendships. (It takes time to be a good friend, so right now I'm a lousy friend.) I remember the old avatar, and I thought you were beautiful then, but this new pic: OMG. All I can say, is "Was he out of his ever-lovin' mind?" The answer clearly had to be yes--something went way haywire there. Honey, you are beautiful inside and out. We'll be here and take a number to stand in line and remind you. Hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Julie, I missed the other part, but you? You, my dear, are absolutely beautiful. Stunning. He's outta his everlovin mind. The end. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Great picture, Julie! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Beautiful and I love your hair as well ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdalley Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Julie, you are gorgeous! Please remember that cheaters cheat. I don't think it has one thing to do with beauty - I think it's the thrill of getting away with it or something. Think of Tiger Woods for instance - his wife was a model and the women he cheated with were.... well... uh not. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Mousie Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 Peggy is right. The situation didn't happen because of anything you did or didn't do, or anything you are or aren't. It happened because your H chose it. I certainly understand the insecurity such a situation would breed, though, and I'm so sorry it is a raw wound right now. :grouphug: Count me in as another one who thinks your hair is awesome! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 I always thought your other picture was beautiful, but this one is even more stunning. You are gorgeous! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hikin' Mama Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 One more person who thinks your avatar picture is lovely! You are beautiful and I'm so jealous of your skin and hair! And in response to one of your remarks, cheaters don't care how beautiful, thin, or wonderful their spouse/SO is, they're gonna cheat anyway. Look at how many Hollywood stars (the truly beautiful, according to society, but I totally disagree) are cheated on. A husband cheating is not a reflection or who or what you are, but who and what he is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted February 18, 2013 Author Share Posted February 18, 2013 And in response to one of your remarks, cheaters don't care how beautiful, thin, or wonderful their spouse/SO is, they're gonna cheat anyway. Look at how many Hollywood stars (the truly beautiful, according to society, but I totally disagree) are cheated on. A husband cheating is not a reflection or who or what you are, but who and what he is. I know my dh didn't do this because of how I look. I also know he didn't do this because I was inattentive to him physically or emotionally (I have always been extremely attentive), or because I'm privately a hard person to live with (because I'm not), or because I'm a shrew in private (I'm decidedly not!). Still though, even some people who know me fairly well have made assumptions such as those, and I guess I needed a little reassurance that what people were thinking was probably not, "Well of course he went for _______________, have you seen how his wife looks?". I've found myself avoiding going out in public because I dread that comparison. I needed a little confirmation that people might be thinking a lot of things, but that they probably aren't thinking that I'm a total dog compared to the other...person. I feel better. Am I desperately in need of reassurance, and willing to compromise upon how I'd usually behave in order to get that reassurance? Unfortunately, yes. Do I need the ladies here to be girlfriends who allow me to be less-than-noble for a little while? Unfortunately, yes. Sometimes venting here allows me to go about my "real life" with a little more dignity than I might otherwise have had, and I'm very thankful that all of the sweet people here treat me like a friend. To be truthful, the ladies here have been so much more supportive than friends in real life...it's been one of the bright spots in a really dark time. THANK YOU ALL SO VERY MUCH! ETA: I'm going with this theory about why my dh might have done this: "All I can say, is "Was he out of his ever-lovin' mind?" The answer clearly had to be yes--something went way haywire there." Thanks so much, Valerie! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Fairy Posted February 18, 2013 Share Posted February 18, 2013 Julie, I love this picture! You are really, really pretty, and I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. (But of course, even if you looked like a troll it's wrong to cheat, it's just nicer for you that you're beautiful, lol.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted February 18, 2013 Share Posted February 18, 2013 ETA: I'm going with this theory about why my dh might have done this: "All I can say, is "Was he out of his ever-lovin' mind?" The answer clearly had to be yes--something went way haywire there." Thanks so much, Valerie! Julie, one more thing. I know it doesn't really help, but there's just something that seems to snap in some guys. I'll call it the Stoopid Gene, for lack of anything better, and hopefully it will make you grin for an eighth of a second. You are not alone: I've seen it happen in two couples that I know personally. And mind you, I don't get out a lot, and I'm usually the very last person to know things, so it's not saying much. But honestly, there is no good reason for it--that's why I used the word haywire. Sproinnnngggg! Here's what I do know: this breaks God's heart. He loves you. He, too, is weeping for what you are going through. He alone has the ability to comfort you even though you may have days and weeks when you feel like you are inconsolable. He alone is able to bind the pieces of your broken heart and to breathe life. And He will. You know he will, even though your emotions tell you it is impossible. Many hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Audrey Posted February 18, 2013 Share Posted February 18, 2013 Julie, you are so beautiful. Truly. Absolutely. If I saw you out and about, knowing that your dh did what he did, I would have to shake my head every time I saw you because your inward and outward beauty is a reminder of how very, very whackadoodledoo that man must be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T'smom Posted February 18, 2013 Share Posted February 18, 2013 Oh, Julie, you really are beautiful. When I clicked on the post, I didn't even know it was about your pic, but the first thing I noticed was your new avatar and I just thought "wow". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted February 18, 2013 Share Posted February 18, 2013 Julie, The very first thing I thought of when I saw your picture was this: good grief, her DH is crazy! You are beautiful! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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