Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 (edited) Just found out that one woman who has been trash talking my DD because she is pregnant and unmarried has an older (16-18yo, not sure of the exact age) DD born out of wedlock herself; she does not have custody of her DD. This woman is 34 so she was younger than my DD when she gave birth. Really lady? You are judging my daughter and you did the same thing? This woman wouldn't hire my son to mow her yard because of DD's pregnancy. Evidently, the association might set a bad example for her children. :confused: Edited June 8, 2011 by The Dragon Academy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 GRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!! and congrats on becoming A GRANDMA!!!!!! Faithe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karen in CO Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Maybe she still thinks that pregnancy is contagious. :) I'll hire your son to weed my garden. And congratulations on the grandbaby. Babies are always welcome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Grace Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 I'm so sorry. That lady obviously has unresolved issues and is not at peace with herself or her past. She deserves to be pitied... but I'm so sorry her issues have turned into venom towards your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 she sucks. Babies are ALWAYS a blessing. What is done is done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 Thank you, ladies. Karen- We will be in CO for a wedding in a couple of weeks. I'll drop him off. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ohdanigirl Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 I'm so sorry. That lady obviously has unresolved issues and is not at peace with herself or her past. She deserves to be pitied... but I'm so sorry her issues have turned into venom towards your family. :grouphug: :iagree: Sorry you are having to go through this. People can be so hurtful. It is great that you are supporting your dd. Congrats. Danielle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaT Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 People like that make me wish we had an Ignore button for real life. I'm sorry you have to deal with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 :grouphug:s, I would be seething too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lara in Colo Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Karen- We will be in CO for a wedding in a couple of weeks. I'll drop him off. :) Hey can I get in on this action? I live near I25, not that hard to drop him off. Lara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 People are...amazing. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EmilyinND Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 People like that make me wish we had an Ignore button for real life. :iagree:Wouldn't that be nice if there really was one?:001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 Hey can I get in on this action? I live near I25, not that hard to drop him off. Lara Sure. You anywhere near Loveland? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heidi Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 :grouphug: She reminds me of my dad: a man that has divorced 4 wives & 6 children, who is currently on his fifth family. When I told him my husband was going to be deployed (army) for a year, he was disgusted and said, "What kind of man would leave his family for a year?" :confused::cursing: I don't know if he caught the sick irony of his comment or not. I didn't wait around to find out. Sorry you've met a blankety-blank as well. Some people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belacqua Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 she sucks. Babies are ALWAYS a blessing. What is done is done. I can't put it any better than this. Thoroughly agree on all three counts. Congratulations, Grandma! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiana Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 What a jackass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Moments like you are going through bring out the worst in me. I would want to go talk to her about it , in front of her children, at church. lol but I don't follow through with my "great" ideas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MorganClassicalPrep Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Sadly, I've found that some people tend to have selective amnesia regarding their own past when judging others. We've all made choices that probably weren't the best choices to make. But children are a blessing- and should never be looked at as a "mistake" Congrats again to you and your DD. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WishboneDawn Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Sounds like it's all about her issues and her past. Congrats on the grandbaby! You must be excited. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkle Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Good grief. What a horrid person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 What a jackass. :lol: I lol'd. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 Congrats on the grandbaby! You must be excited. :D Thank you. I am excited for many reasons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T'smom Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 she sucks. Babies are ALWAYS a blessing. What is done is done. :iagree:Babies are always, always, ALWAYS a wonderful blessing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 There are words to describe my feelings but they are rather impolite for a public forum :ack2::ack2::ack2:. I hope your son finds mowing jobs and for decent people. I don't think I'd want my son around HER! Should probably say a word of prayer for this person in an effort to apease my desires to smack the back of her head! :D I hope your precious grandgir,l along with her mamma, comes through safely and in good health! Enjoy your bundle and don't let ignoramuses steal your joy. My niece had a little one under similar circumstances and dear Rosie is the family pride and joy. Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 There are words to describe my feelings but they are rather impolite for a public forum :ack2::ack2::ack2:. I hope your son finds mowing jobs and for decent people. I don't think I'd want my son around HER! Should probably say a word of prayer for this person in an effort to apease my desires to smack the back of her head! :D I hope your precious grandgir,l along with her mamma, comes through safely and in good health! Enjoy your bundle and don't let ignoramuses steal your joy. My niece had a little one under similar circumstances and dear Rosie is the family pride and joy. Faith Aw, thank you. Thank you all for the support. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeacherZee Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Oh was that the crashing I heard earlier today? Her glasshouse shattering around her. :grouphug: Congratulations to you* and your daughter. Babies rock. That is all. *I put you first 'cause grandbabies are, according to my parents, more awesome than your own children :tongue_smilie::D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 Oh was that the crashing I heard earlier today? Her glasshouse shattering around her. :grouphug: That may have been my jaw hitting the floor. Congratulations to you* and your daughter. Babies rock. That is all. *I put you first 'cause grandbabies are, according to my parents, more awesome than your own children :tongue_smilie::D Thank you. I'll let you know about that in November. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 :iagree: What a jackass. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiana Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Man, I went shopping and I was still thinking about this and irritated. Forget being exposed to someone who has a pregnant sister, your son shouldn't be around her because he might be exposed to someone with a raging case of asshattery. Asshattery is more contagious than pregnancy. Keep your son safe! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen500 Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsbaby Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Man, I went shopping and I was still thinking about this and irritated. Forget being exposed to someone who has a pregnant sister, your son shouldn't be around her because he might be exposed to someone with a raging case of asshattery. Asshattery is more contagious than pregnancy. Keep your son safe! :) :lol: Some people! I was once in your dd's shoes. I can't tell you how important having my moms support was! Good for you for supporting your dd and being excited for a new grandbaby!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 Man, I went shopping and I was still thinking about this and irritated. Forget being exposed to someone who has a pregnant sister, your son shouldn't be around her because he might be exposed to someone with a raging case of asshattery. Asshattery is more contagious than pregnancy. Keep your son safe! :) I hope your shopping trip was enjoyable despite your irritation. I am glad that he isn't doing it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 :lol: Some people! I was once in your dd's shoes. I can't tell you how important having my moms support was! Good for you for supporting your dd and being excited for a new grandbaby!!! Thank you. I have been surprised at how I have handled this. It is only through grace, believe me. There are many things I wish I could say about the past 18 weeks but I want to honor DD's privacy. I can tell you that this situation has blessed me in many ways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karen in CO Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Sure. You anywhere near Loveland? I am much further south than that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 *I put you first 'cause grandbabies are, according to my parents, more awesome than your own children :tongue_smilie::D I think my parents would agree. They come to see ds, not me. :lol::lol: that's kind of the good thing about mean people, you can recognize them when they open their mouths. Otherwise they can appear very normal, not at all like zombies, which DO appear un-normal most of the time. :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 I had to deal with the exact same thing when I was a single parent. All I can think of is how incredibly small and miserable this woman must be, to try and make others so unhappy. Taking that tactic kept me from storming up to the woman who pulled the same crud on me and stomping on her head. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 I am much further south than that. Sweet, I have family all along the I-25 corridor. Aurora, Northern CO Springs, Southern CO Springs, Pueblo... I got ya covered. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YLVD Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Just found out that one woman who has been trash talking my DD because she is pregnant and unmarried has an older (16-18yo, not sure of the exact age) DD born out of wedlock herself; she does not have custody of her DD. This woman is 34 so she was younger than my DD when she gave birth. Really lady? You are judging my daughter and you did the same thing? This woman wouldn't hire my son to mow her yard because of DD's pregnancy. Evidently, the association might set a bad example for her children. :confused: Ugh, I would be angry myself. I got pregnant with my DD out of wedlock. I was about to get married to her dad when I got pregnant. I ended up a single parent later on. I was 20 when I had her. We need to support young moms. They can do an amazing job and they need that support and love. My DD is an amazing girl! Your grandchild will be too! Also, my mom has told me she's actually really happy that I had her when I did, mostly for her, lol. She wasn't thrilled in the beginning but her relationship with my DD has been one of the closest of her life. My DD worships her, lol Congrats! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 Ugh, I would be angry myself. I got pregnant with my DD out of wedlock. I was about to get married to her dad when I got pregnant. I ended up a single parent later on. I was 20 when I had her. We need to support young moms. They can do an amazing job and they need that support and love. My DD is an amazing girl! Your grandchild will be too! Also, my mom has told me she's actually really happy that I had her when I did, mostly for her, lol. She wasn't thrilled in the beginning but her relationship with my DD has been one of the closest of her life. My DD worships her, lol Thank you for sharing this with me. This is what I am praying for. Congrats! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lara in Colo Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 (edited) I am much further south than that. Me too! But if you are in the neighborhood, stop by for Quiver's cinnamon rolls--Just Email first! LOL Edited June 8, 2011 by Lara in Colo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elizabeth Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Seems like she has her roles switched around. If she is an example of loving kindness heaven help us all. You would not want your child around a person who thinks like that anyway. A pox on her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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