Pamela H in Texas Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 So after the last three months; but especially today's caseworker visit, I'm feeling okay with asking for baby name help. Obviously, anything could happen in fostercare, but I'm really to go with it and hope my heart doesn't get broken (again). I'm just about positive the baby's first name will be Benjamin. We've been trying for a Benjamin for 22 years! Other Kids' names: Kimberly Michelle Johnathan Wayne Victoria Evelyn Addison Jeremiah (but may be changing to Jeremiah Dale) - called AJ or Jeremiah Caden Anthony - Called Tony or Anthony Baby is strawberry blonde (both bio parents are). He's a big boy, wearing size 6-9 months old at 3 months old. He's sweet as all get out. Pretty quiet, not particularly needy or emotional. I like Josiah or Nathaniel, hubby doesn't. We thought about Michael for a middle name, but I have a bit of a block for that name. It is hubby's preferred name though. Elliot made a short list of names. Hubby also doesn't like Mason or Mateo <sigh> We actually USE middle names. Either interchangably or using full names (even when not in trouble). I need some ideas, I think :) BTW, if you think another first name would go great with my crew, I'm still a little bit open...I just really am into Benjamin and he seems like one to me. But then I still need a middle name we can agree upon. Here is a pic of a kid that looks similar :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flowing Brook Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 What about Joseph Benjamin? That picture put a smile on my face. So sweet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Wife Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 I would personally go with a shortish middle name in conjunction with a 3 syllable first name like Benjamin. Josiah, Nathaniel, and Elliott are all nice names but too much of a mouthful in conjunction with Benjamin IMHO. My DS has a long first name and his middle name is Karl. I would've preferred to spell it Carl but DH liked the Germanic/Nordic spelling with the K. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snickerdoodle Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Honest question, do you rename the kids you get in foster care if you are going to adopt them? (I'm assuming you mean that you will adopt this youngster.) I'm just curious and fascinated by this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 He's beautiful!!! :001_wub: I wanted Craig but dh nixed that one so I'm sending it to you . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Honest question, do you rename the kids you get in foster care if you are going to adopt them? (I'm assuming you mean that you will adopt this youngster.) I'm just curious and fascinated by this. I was wondering too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momto10blessings Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 I love the name Benjamin and think it would fit the baby you described. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted October 23, 2014 Author Share Posted October 23, 2014 Snicker, the adoptive parents can change part or all of the child's name if they choose. There are different beliefs about it. With our three, we kept the name they had been called as part of their names though none are currently called those names. With my 7yo, he has always maintained he didn't wish to keep his birth name and we have explored the possibility of a name change so he would have grandpa's middle name. With the baby, he has a perfectly fine name but he is a junior. I'm just not willing to keep that name. Also, we have had him since he was two days old with a high chance of adopting him all along. We do use his name though we use a pet name more. Well and frankly, I'm not against adoptive parents choosing names for their kids. Anyway, soooo.... Oh, and part of the reason for thinking a longer middle name is that our last name is one hard syllable (German). Think CHOP. Of course, Wayne and Dale are both short names so a shorter name may be a choice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 I love the name Benjamin, I say go for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMamaBird Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Aaaaahh! Those eyes! Those cheeks! Those arms! I was actually thinking about names until I saw that little angel, now I'm useless! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hornblower Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 How about a compromise on the Michael : Benjamin MishaMisha would be lovely for a solid, mellow boy.or Benjamin Bradley - then he could be BBNo middle names starting with a J after a first name with BAlso, dh advises against middle names starting with B. He has one (mother's maiden name) and when it's all printed out all he can think of always is "jack be nimble, jack be swift.." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyJoy Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Even with a 1-syllable last name I'd go with a 1 or 2 syllable middle with Benjamin. My birth name was 3-1-1 and it works. My mom always insisted that full names need an odd # of syllables to sound right :) Some middle names I'd pair with Benjamin: Aaron, Ryan, Lee, Allen, Thomas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Benjamin Andrew Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gil Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Alroy or Arthur. Of course, Arthur Benjamin is a hero in our household. Bartly, Davin, Finbar, Gregory, Kain Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elisabet1 Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 So after the last three months; but especially today's caseworker visit, I'm feeling okay with asking for baby name help. Obviously, anything could happen in fostercare, but I'm really to go with it and hope my heart doesn't get broken (again). I'm just about positive the baby's first name will be Benjamin. We've been trying for a Benjamin for 22 years! Other Kids' names: Kimberly Michelle Johnathan Wayne Victoria Evelyn Addison Jeremiah (but may be changing to Jeremiah Dale) - called AJ or Jeremiah Caden Anthony - Called Tony or Anthony Baby is strawberry blonde (both bio parents are). He's a big boy, wearing size 6-9 months old at 3 months old. He's sweet as all get out. Pretty quiet, not particularly needy or emotional. I like Josiah or Nathaniel, hubby doesn't. We thought about Michael for a middle name, but I have a bit of a block for that name. It is hubby's preferred name though. Elliot made a short list of names. Hubby also doesn't like Mason or Mateo <sigh> We actually USE middle names. Either interchangably or using full names (even when not in trouble). I need some ideas, I think :) BTW, if you think another first name would go great with my crew, I'm still a little bit open...I just really am into Benjamin and he seems like one to me. But then I still need a middle name we can agree upon. Here is a pic of a kid that looks similar :) He is incredible! How about Joseph or Matthew? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freesia Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 I like Michael, love it actually! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elisabet1 Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Benjamin Joseph or Benjamin Matthew. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Pam, I just saw this. :) So very happy for you! Love the name Benjamin. I think Benjamin Matthew is nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wendyroo Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Benjamin David Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsMommy Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 I love Benjamin and Joseph together. I'm so happy for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali in OR Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 I like a 2-syllable middle name with a 3-syllable first name and a 1-syllable last name. I like several that have been mentioned: Benjamin David Benjamin Matthew Benjamin Joseph I think I like pairing the biblical names. I wouldn't put a modern trendy name with Benjamin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happypamama Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 My Benjamin, my little son of sunshine, is Benjamin Luke. (And he looks a lot like the little cutie in that picture.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedmom4 Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 I have a Benjamin James. He looked a lot like the pic you posted as well. As a baby he was blond, chubby, and smiley. I like the way Benjamin and James sound together. Elise in NC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aurelia Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 I've always been partial to Benjamin Nathaniel. Maybe Benjamin Micah? Benjamin Gabriel? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolatechip Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 I know a Benjamin Thomas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perogi Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 I quite like Benjamin Elliot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted October 24, 2014 Author Share Posted October 24, 2014 Thomas is probably my favorite that hubby hasn't veto'd. Others on the short list so far: Elliot Caleb Steven/Stephen - another I have an issue with but didn't veto Michael I'm going to go look at some one syllable names. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted October 24, 2014 Author Share Posted October 24, 2014 Benjamin David is growing on me. ETA:David is my brother's name. We aren't close at all. I have his wife FB friended and I like his daughter (have only seen his son twice, I think). But there isn't animosity or anything. Just not close due to circumstances along the way. His son's name is Lucas so I probably wouldn't go that direction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Strawberry Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 I have a Benjamin Ian. He was named after a Benjamin David. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 How about a compromise on the Michael : Benjamin Misha Misha would be lovely for a solid, mellow boy. or Benjamin Bradley - then he could be BB No middle names starting with a J after a first name with B Also, dh advises against middle names starting with B. He has one (mother's maiden name) and when it's all printed out all he can think of always is "jack be nimble, jack be swift.." haha laughing at the bolded, that is my cousin's name (my maiden name was Bradley). It is a very good name he was called Benjalin forever due to my little brother not being able to say his name as a toddler. Now he just goes by Ben. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 I like Benjamin David and Benjamin Lukas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted October 24, 2014 Author Share Posted October 24, 2014 This morning, definitely still thinking David or Thomas. A friend brought up the lack of meaning with Thomas. Though that is true (it means "twin"), there still is the Biblical significance (friend is not Christian) as well as the fact that it is a strong man's name. I kinda think Thomas flows better. But David is very strong and meaningful. But a few names are sticking with me. Andrew is one. James is another. I still like Elliot but then it is three syllables again. Ryan is another one that keeps jumping out at me. It is my youngest brother's name. A few years ago, I don't think I would have considered it, but I think it flows well. I do think I prefer two syllables in general over one. So list right now:Benjamin Thomas Benjamin David Benjamin Andrew Benjamin James Benjamin Elliot Benjamin Ryan I *love* how Benjamin David looks with our last name. A friend wrote it out in text last night and I immediately was taken with it. Andrew and James look nice above. I like Ryan least in terms of how it looks typed out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 This morning, definitely still thinking David or Thomas. A friend brought up the lack of meaning with Thomas. Though that is true (it means "twin"), there still is the Biblical significance (friend is not Christian) as well as the fact that it is a strong man's name. I kinda think Thomas flows better. But David is very strong and meaningful. But a few names are sticking with me. Andrew is one. James is another. I still like Elliot but then it is three syllables again. Ryan is another one that keeps jumping out at me. It is my youngest brother's name. A few years ago, I don't think I would have considered it, but I think it flows well. I do think I prefer two syllables in general over one. So list right now: Benjamin Thomas Benjamin David Benjamin Andrew Benjamin James Benjamin Elliot Benjamin Ryan I *love* how Benjamin David looks with our last name. A friend wrote it out in text last night and I immediately was taken with it. Andrew and James look nice above. I like Ryan least in terms of how it looks typed out. Funny seeing Ryan up there too, that is my brother's name, the one that always called my cousin benjalin. lol Every THomas I have ever known has been a whiney wimp, it's weird but I have known 5-6 over my lifetime and every single one was the same. I like Benjamin Elliot (though I am also partial to Andrew as that is ds11's middle name :P ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dicentra Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 If my dd had been a boy, her name would have been Benjamin David. :) ETA: Our last name is also a hard, one syllable German surname. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlsdMama Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 We like biblical names as well. We have a Timothy, a Christian Joseph, and a William James. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wonderchica Posted October 25, 2014 Share Posted October 25, 2014 My brother was Andrew Benjamin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest awhite Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 My brother gave me the best advice for naming my son. He said to give him a name that if he ever has his own business someone will hire him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted November 20, 2014 Author Share Posted November 20, 2014 I think that is good advice. I seriously doubt any of the names we're considering would go against that though :) Only way someone wouldn't hire a man named Benjamin would be if they individually had some major hang up with the name. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wendyroo Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 I think that is good advice. I seriously doubt any of the names we're considering would go against that though :) Only way someone wouldn't hire a man named Benjamin would be if they individually had some major hang up with the name. Or to cut down on ink costs. Think how much cheaper it would be if every name on every memo and performance review and payroll stub was only 3 letters long. They could have a whole office full of Roys and Amys and Ians. Benjamin would have to promise that he would always go by Ben if he wanted to work there. :lol: Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mycalling Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Benjamin Tate sounds good together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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