delaney Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 just got the email-health concerns in the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiver0f10 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 oh no! I hope all is ok! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 :( Sad for her... Too bad about not hearing her this summer ;( 2014 is Soooo far away!! But, that might be perfect for me gearing up for Junior High with my son! Hope it's not too bad, whatever is happening! :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 This is the first I've heard about this. Does anyone have any details? I hope everything is ok and will pray for her and her family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgehog Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 This is the first I've heard about this. Does anyone have any details? I hope everything is ok and will pray for her and her family. :iagree: I'm very sorry to hear about that, SWB. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susan Wise Bauer Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thanks for the kind words, guys. Nothing extraordinary has happened. But it has become increasingly clear to me, after the amount of time I've spent in doctor's offices with both of my parents in the past six months, that I should try to limit the amount of time I spend away from home just now. My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. Really hoping to reschedule the tour for a future year, though. We haven't given up on the idea at all. It just came to us at the wrong time. SWB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquinas Academy Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgehog Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thanks for the kind words, guys. Nothing extraordinary has happened. But it has become increasingly clear to me, after the amount of time I've spent in doctor's offices with both of my parents in the past six months, that I should try to limit the amount of time I spend away from home just now. My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. Really hoping to reschedule the tour for a future year, though. We haven't given up on the idea at all. It just came to us at the wrong time. SWB I'm sorry to hear that your folks have been poorly. Would it be okay if we prayed for them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 I'm glad you can be there for your family, SWB. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thanks for the kind words, guys. Nothing extraordinary has happened. But it has become increasingly clear to me, after the amount of time I've spent in doctor's offices with both of my parents in the past six months, that I should try to limit the amount of time I spend away from home just now. My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. Really hoping to reschedule the tour for a future year, though. We haven't given up on the idea at all. It just came to us at the wrong time. SWB The caregiver road can be a difficult one, although the rewards and blessings are tremendous as well. Best wishes and good thoughts to you and your parents during this time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Susan, I am sorry and will be praying for strength for you and your family. They absolutely should take priority. What a blessing to be able to give back to them at this stage of their lives. :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colleen in NS Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 ...it has become increasingly clear to me, after the amount of time I've spent in doctor's offices with both of my parents in the past six months, that I should try to limit the amount of time I spend away from home just now. My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thanks for the kind words, guys. ..... Really hoping to reschedule the tour for a future year, though. We haven't given up on the idea at all. It just came to us at the wrong time. SWB Very Good :) The note said "2014" which might be part of why it was thought that something drastic had happened ;) We'll miss it... but hope good things for you... and look forward to having you in a couple of years :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vettechmomof2 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thanks for the kind words, guys. Nothing extraordinary has happened. But it has become increasingly clear to me, after the amount of time I've spent in doctor's offices with both of my parents in the past six months, that I should try to limit the amount of time I spend away from home just now. My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. Really hoping to reschedule the tour for a future year, though. We haven't given up on the idea at all. It just came to us at the wrong time. SWB :grouphug: Many of us are on the same caregiver path. Best wishes to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Sending good thoughts and prayers your way. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2_girls_mommy Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 I am sorry to hear this. I was looking forward to attending. I understand though. One can only do so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thanks for the kind words, guys. Nothing extraordinary has happened. But it has become increasingly clear to me, after the amount of time I've spent in doctor's offices with both of my parents in the past six months, that I should try to limit the amount of time I spend away from home just now. My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. Really hoping to reschedule the tour for a future year, though. We haven't given up on the idea at all. It just came to us at the wrong time. SWB I understand where you are at in this stage. I'm there too. Though my brother is near, he isn't available and my sister lives out-of-state, so I'm the go-to gal for my parents as well. Here is some unsolicited advice - I've recently discovered that dark-chocolate covered roasted almonds helps my perspective on the more hectic days; I can highly recommend them! :D (Chocolate covered macademia nuts are especially soothing, but the calorie count is, well, eyebrow raising.) Blessings to you and I will remember you in prayer. Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nan in Mass Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 SWB - Lots of hugs and best wishes. Homeschooling never ends, does it? Now our parents are teaching us how to be old. Our parents must be about the same age. I came to the same conclusion this summer. I have been doing a massive cleaning/sorting job in the house, since I am going to be more home oriented now and it was neglected dreadfully while I was homeschooling. Not that I am not still homeschooling, but youngest is in 11th grade and has math and science at the cc. I'm hoping that if I fix the house up, it will be a serene, comforting place to recoup between visits to the doctor's office. I learned how to put library books on my ipod, too, so I can escape into another world while I am doing the dishes or driving or waiting. It isn't as complete an escape as reading a book, but it is better than nothing. And I am going to try to take a nurse's assistant course. This time around, I want to learn the basics on somebody other than my nearest and dearest, unlike learning to teach by homeschooling my children. I know so many people here have taken care of elderly parents. What things have you all done to make this stage easier for everyone, both physically and emotionally? I am happy to do this for my parents and inlaws. I just hope I am strong enough. Nan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simka2 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: I am watching my Mom go through a similar situation with my grandmother (not trying to make you feel old ;) ) Seeing how my mother has rearranged her life to take care of Grandma, hearing her talking about how protective of her she is becoming, has really touched me. I applaud you and the many others who are taking such great care of their aging parents. Take care! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excelsior! Academy Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 We will be praying for your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauraGB Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thanks for the kind words, guys. Nothing extraordinary has happened. But it has become increasingly clear to me, after the amount of time I've spent in doctor's offices with both of my parents in the past six months, that I should try to limit the amount of time I spend away from home just now. My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. Really hoping to reschedule the tour for a future year, though. We haven't given up on the idea at all. It just came to us at the wrong time. SWB :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thanks for the kind words, guys. Nothing extraordinary has happened. But it has become increasingly clear to me, after the amount of time I've spent in doctor's offices with both of my parents in the past six months, that I should try to limit the amount of time I spend away from home just now. My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. Really hoping to reschedule the tour for a future year, though. We haven't given up on the idea at all. It just came to us at the wrong time. SWB :grouphug: Best wishes, and hope your parents health improves. It's a balancing act. I've been there too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 You have your priorities in the right place Susan. Praying for your parents, and for you as you care for them. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeacherZee Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 SWB - Lots of hugs and best wishes. Homeschooling never ends, does it? Now our parents are teaching us how to be old. Our parents must be about the same age. I came to the same conclusion this summer. I have been doing a massive cleaning/sorting job in the house, since I am going to be more home oriented now and it was neglected dreadfully while I was homeschooling. Not that I am not still homeschooling, but youngest is in 11th grade and has math and science at the cc. I'm hoping that if I fix the house up, it will be a serene, comforting place to recoup between visits to the doctor's office. I learned how to put library books on my ipod, too, so I can escape into another world while I am doing the dishes or driving or waiting. It isn't as complete an escape as reading a book, but it is better than nothing. And I am going to try to take a nurse's assistant course. This time around, I want to learn the basics on somebody other than my nearest and dearest, unlike learning to teach by homeschooling my children. I know so many people here have taken care of elderly parents. What things have you all done to make this stage easier for everyone, both physically and emotionally? I am happy to do this for my parents and inlaws. I just hope I am strong enough. Nan Don't be afraid to ask for outside help. I've worked in palliative care and my mother still does. She has seen many many caregivers burn out because they were not able/willing to ask for outside help. Make sure you make use of all available technology. Don't break your back trying to lift someone, get a proper lift. Make sure you know what services are available. And above all, remember that you are not a bad daughter/daughter-in-law because you need help. You are not superwoman. Make sure you have enough energy to have fun with your elderly relative AND you husband and children. Susan I will keep your family in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommy22alyns Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 I'm glad it's not too serious, but you will be missed!! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linguistmama Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 I'm glad it's not too serious, but you will be missed!! :grouphug: SWB, lots of hugs and prayers for you and your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blueridge Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaT Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Praying for you and your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhonda in TX Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 We are going through this ourselves right now. I know you are a real help and comfort to your parents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delaney Posted October 18, 2011 Author Share Posted October 18, 2011 Thank you for the update. Best wishes and sending you all the positive vibes I can muster!:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 My brother and sister don't live nearby, so I'm the go-to girl. :) This is an honor and a privilege, but it also takes time and emotional energy. So I'm trying to use that wisely. We all understand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Sending thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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cathmom Posted October 19, 2011 Share Posted October 19, 2011 Sending thoughts and prayers. Ditto! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mothersweets Posted October 19, 2011 Share Posted October 19, 2011 I'm so sorry to hear this! Will be praying for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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