Trivium Academy Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Oh well. I posted today that we're going to put ds4 in preschool (go read the post if you're curious). Anyways, an Anonymous person says You've just lost a blog reader. I don't believe it is a wise decision and it refects a double standard for your daughter and your son. I'd rather not read your posts anymore. Lol :lol: Okay, so I'm supposed to care about someone unwilling to identify themselves who may stop reading our blog because of a life decision that affects our family only?? Not to mention my dd8 went to preschool. This cracked me up, the absurdity of it- maybe those with the same sense of humor will laugh too. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camibami Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 I'll bet you're *really* going to miss that blog reader, huh? :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 That is kind of funny. It's not like you're going to lose a dime because someone's not going to read your blog. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Oh well. I posted today that we're going to put ds4 in preschool (go read the post if you're curious). Anyways, an Anonymous person says You've just lost a blog reader. I don't believe it is a wise decision and it refects a double standard for your daughter and your son. I'd rather not read your posts anymore. Lol :lol: Okay, so I'm supposed to care about someone unwilling to identify themselves who may stop reading our blog because of a life decision that affects our family only?? Not to mention my dd8 went to preschool. This cracked me up, the absurdity of it- maybe those with the same sense of humor will laugh too. :D :lol::lol::lol: Don't tell, my ds went to preschool too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeacherZee Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 You are crushed I can tell:lol::lol::lol::D:D:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clwcain Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 LOL I got that once on my blog, when I still kept one. I ran down the IP address and discovered that that person had never visited my blog before. :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DB in NJ Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 :lol::lol::lol: Don't tell, my ds went to preschool too. Mine did too. My dd and my youngest ds didn't. Jessica, I think part of the "problem" may be that you've been very public in your curriculum choices, plans, school room doing and re-doing, etc. Many have followed your story of curriculum switches, etc. And after all that, you're putting your 4 yo in school. Yes, it's a personal matter that only AFFECTS your family, but the entire process has been public. I have no idea if that's on target or not; just trying to figure out WHY someone would feel the way this person does. I personally have no feelings on the issue whatsoever. It's your choice to make, and you've made it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faithr Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Some people are so self-important. Really the arrogance is quite absurd. . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teamturner Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 I just read your blog post about it and all the comments. What a harsh response from a total stranger, no less! Really incredible. I hope you let it roll off. Everyone has to do what's best for their own family at any given time. I think for a 4 yo boy to be able to spend some time just with friends, crafts, and play time is a win-win. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H.S. Burrow Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 :lol: Both of my kids went to pre-school.....and public school until 3 years ago! Of course, I don't have a blog that someone - and an anonymous someone at that - is not going to be reading now!:lol: I mean, what works for YOUR family is what works for YOUR family... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Huh. Well, as one of your "blog groupies" :lol: I have followed your blog about how you have gone back and forth about putting D in preschool and your reasons for/for not doing it. It's appeared to be a hard decision and one that I don't believe you or your husband to have taken lightly. I applaud you guys for doing what you believe to be best for your family. (I better go read your blog post from today now, huh?) My pastor always uses this example: he says he gets a lot of negative emails from people and he really does take to heart people's complaints and suggestions. However, when people don't care to acknowledge themselves, he has a hard time taking them seriously. Don't worry, there's a lot of us who still do look to you for inspiration. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5knights3maidens Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Gee, I guess I'm really bad. 5 of mine were in pre-k plus 2 of them and #6 were in daycare for awhile. I was working there for necessary reasons. Oh well, I guess I'm bad. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trivium Academy Posted September 16, 2008 Author Share Posted September 16, 2008 I'm not upset at all, I do think it is hilarious. I'm not 100% on board with ds4 going to preschool but it might what is best for him right now so I'm willing to step out of my comfort zone to try it. Personally, I think he'll love it and I can use this year to get dd8 to transition to working a little more independently. We'll see, like the post says, I can take him out at any time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRAAB Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 My oldest went to pre-school and kindergarten. Guess I was setting a double standard. Some people have too much time on their hands. Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CookieMonster Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Oh dear Jessica, you really need to revaluate your life decisions based on the feedback of an anonymous stranger. Whatever will you do if someone disagrees with you!! :lol: I know, right?! :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharon in SC Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 We, veteran homeschoolers in our *10th* year of homeschooling, sent *both* dds to preschool. Gasp!! Older dd has been homeschooled since 1st grade, younger since Kindergarten. Preschool (two mornings a week for us) was but a blip on the screen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom to Aly Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Oh, Man!!!! Do you think if you cancel preschool they will come back? If you cancel preschool and beg? Pretty please? I think you should rethink your whole life, what if there is something else this person doesn't like? Huh???? ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trivium Academy Posted September 16, 2008 Author Share Posted September 16, 2008 :smilielol5::smilielol5::smilielol5: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andie Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 I'm not upset at all, I do think it is hilarious. I'm not 100% on board with ds4 going to preschool but it might what is best for him right now so I'm willing to step out of my comfort zone to try it. Personally, I think he'll love it and I can use this year to get dd8 to transition to working a little more independently. We'll see, like the post says, I can take him out at any time. Jessica, I'm sorry you got such a dumb comment. Thank goodness I'm not blogging anymore! I'd be in big trouble this week - The Littles are BOTH in preschool this year. 3AMs for Leo and 2AMs for Eleanor. Since we started hs'ing, we've still sent all our littles to nursery school and hs'd them for K and on. Last year, when I blogged about Leo starting preschool, a good online "friend" reamed me out. Questioned my judgment and my mothering and my legitimacy as a homeschooler. I have to admit, it was hurtful. You do what works for you! (They'll be by in a week or so to tear up your Really Really R E A L L Y A Homeschooler Card, though.;)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magistramom Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Argh. Don't let it eat at you. It's like this with a lot of groups (your not a true or good Christian, Republican, parent if you_____). There are some die hard homeschoolers who will adhere to the notion that if you are in a PS, co-op, online school, vote or take a tax credit from the state (where available), dual enroll, afterschool, take online classes, attend educational seminars outside of the home... Well, if you do any of that, you will never be a homeschooler in their eyes. These same people will also say that school in a box is okay (as long as it is from a particular school with a particular philosophy) and are sometimes the same people they don't blink when they are asked to check in with their distance teacher or take a test through that particular school, or fill out multiple forms to prove they've been homeschooling. These same people do not count unschoolers as homeschoolers. Sometimes the logic just isn't all there... Reaching now, for chocolate... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayle in Guatemala Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 :lol::lol::lol: Jessica, as a faithful blog reader I know that this has been something you've been really giving some thought to. It's funny to me that people would feel that way. I'm looking forward to reading about your ds's experience in school! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magistramom Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 sorry, double post... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magistramom Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 That didn't sound too illogical did it? Anyway, I'm glad you're able to move beyond that comment and laugh!!!I think you will both have fun with this new venture. (we did it...) Enjoy! Reaching now for the bag of M&Ms... and moving onto another thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 *All* of my kids attended one year of preschool, twice a week for 3 hours. It was playtime more than anything. *I* taught them their numbers, *I* taught them to read. My eldest is in seventh grade and I'm still homeschooling. So, you're in good company, Jessica. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Governess Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 *All* of my kids attended one year of preschool, twice a week for 3 hours. It was playtime more than anything. *I* taught them their numbers, *I* taught them to read. My eldest is in seventh grade and I'm still homeschooling. So, you're in good company, Jessica. :iagree:This is what I'm doing with dd4 and I will do it with dd2 also. I don't really consider preschool "school." It's more just somewhere they can play hard, get dirty and messy with art projects, etc. and I don't have to clean it up. =D Anonymous comments crack me up. If you're too embarrassed about what you're saying to declare yourself, why bother?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Mama Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Well, I don't really read any blogs on a daily basis (ok, maybe Ree), but I'm going to make it a point to read you daily now. Must make up for the one you've lost, right? Give me a break. It's preschool. By the way, add me to the bad mommy list of those who sent their children to preschool (and public school). Not only did my oldest go to preschool, but then to public K and 1st. Now she's at home and - get this - I've sent her little sister to ps K. I know, I know... I'll never forgive myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam "SFSOM" in TN Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Oh well. I posted today that we're going to put ds4 in preschool (go read the post if you're curious). Anyways, an Anonymous person says I'll mail you a box of kleenex, Jessica. :D You know, my big kids loved preschool. Adored preschool. They weren't full time, but they would have loved going every day. Both begged (in separate conversations) me not to home school kindergarten with their baby sister because of what a special time kindergarten was for them. And the now 4 y/o loves, *oh* how she loves kindergarten. We still do Horizons Math and science and geography and reading and snuggling and giggling at home. It's just fun, and we fit it into the time that surrounds her happy days away from us. We, like you, will figure this out a year at a time. And I know for certain that you are a concerned and conscientious mom and a bona fide grown-up who can make good decisions for your kids. As for the drop in your blog traffic? Ah well. You can't please all of the people all of the time. :nopity: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5wolfcubs Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 I was just at your blog and saw that comment...and had to comment! :lol: I think I'll go back and join your readership now. Doing the best for each child is one of the great things about homeschooling...and it doesn't necessarily mean doing the same thing for each child! Families grow and change, children grow and change, moms grow and change...but you already know that! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovemyboys Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Argh. Don't let it eat at you. Ds here all went to preschool. I always thought it gave them time to be alone with friends and not be "the little brother" all the time. Can be kind of a nice time for them. I'm sure you've done lots of research on what's best. Try not to let it bug you too much. Maybe it's someone who wanted to follow your lead on things and was surprised or discouraged by this change in your plans. She'll get over it, as will you. Hope the little guy absolutely loves it and you and your daughter get some nice time together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VaKim Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Now, if you got lots of money for everybody who read your blog, just maybe...:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sophia Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 With the exception of my 6 y.o., ALL of my dc have enjoyed 3 y.o. preschool class. Especially my boys. We never had a problem transitioning them back to homeschool either. You are still a first class mom ;). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melissel Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Oh, for pete's sake. If DD3 would go, I'd enroll her in a heartbeat. And what's more, if there was a similar 6-hour-a-week version for DD6, I'd enroll her too!!! DD6 went to camp over 3 days a week over the summer, and their relationship benefited immensely from a little time apart. Plus, DD3 is still in the stage where she can't stand for too much direct attention to be paid to her sister without involving her, but she doesn't want to be involved in schoolwork, so she makes life difficult. Our local play-based preschool is the equivalent of a Mother's Day Out program. It's not exactly Harvard for Tots. Some people just need to lighten up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runningirl71 Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Sorry Jessica that someone was so judgemental on something that doesn't even affect them! But, you're not the first! I was subscribed to a ladies blog a few years ago that had her kids in public school. It wasn't a homeschooling blog but a recipe/how to save money one. And, yes, she did sell things. Anyways, she got an influx of nasty e-mail when some of her subscribers found out she didn't home school! Anyways, look at the bright side. You actually have faithful blog readers! :)Well, minus that anonymous one!:lol: Going to go and sign up as a "follower" right now . . . :) Oh. I already did that! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beth in SW WA Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Oh well. I posted today that we're going to put ds4 in preschool Great news, Jessica. My dd 4 is in preschool and we all are loving it! Its quiet here in the AM for the big kids to work on Algebra and Latin. Its a win-win :) Your ds will have a ball -- and he won't be damaged for life. All my kids had the luxury of attending a really well-run, loving, clean, safe Christian preschool. No short-term OR long-term negative side affects. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kris Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 I think this is hilarious so I'm sharing but if it's not... Oh well. Well, it is. What are they afraid of? Contamination? Good grief. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom2legomaniacs Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Hmm, mine both went to nursery school as well. Even knowing I was going to home school. It was a good thing for us. Good luck with your ds for this! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crissy Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 This cracked me up, the absurdity of it- maybe those with the same sense of humor will laugh too. :D Oh, Jessica. I am so glad you have a great sense of humor about it. Where do these lunatics come from? And do you really want them reading you blog in the first place? :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Why would you care who reads your blog?? I don't get the blogging thing but that's just odd. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crissy Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Why would you care who reads your blog?? I don't get the blogging thing but that's just odd. Jen I don't think Jessica cares, but the anonymous poster seems to think she should. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danestress Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 How much did you struggle with the feeling of, "but if I send him to preschool, FIL will feel like he "won" and I don't want to give him the satisfaction?" I know I would feel that way. You are probably a bigger person, lol. My boys both went to a Montessori preschool and *loved* it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 I don't think Jessica cares, but the anonymous poster seems to think she should. Which is the part I don't get. Jessica would probably care if a friend or someone she respected questioned her decision but who cares what "anonymous" thinks? And I'm not a blogger but do you lose points or something if people stop reading your blog? Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3lilreds in NC Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 It cracks me up that someone would write that! As if you would take an anonymous post seriously enough, or any comments like that, to change your decision. WHATEVER. Both my girls went to preschool. It was long before I considered homeschooling, but you know, I don't regret it a bit. They had a ball and I had a little break. Schmooey is most likely going to go, too. I don't think preschool is of the devil, for Pete's sake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riada Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 ... when people don't care to acknowledge themselves, he has a hard time taking them seriously. :iagree: If you feel strongly enough about something to want to write to them and express yourself then you should be willing to sign your name to it. It means much more when you know who wrote it. If it is unsigned then I would toss the comment out and move on. In such a personal matter in the end all that matters is your family's thoughts on it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jumping In Puddles Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 My daughter goes to a wonderful montessori preschool 3 mornings a week and she loves it and so do I! The anonymous poster seems to think that just because you are supporter of homeschooling that you are AGAINST traditional schooling. With school, it doesn't have to be You're With Us, Or You're Against Us kind of mentality. :confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ticklbee Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 I find this whole thread funny. I guess when you blog, you open yourself up to all kinds of people. Oh well, you can't take their comment seriously if they didn't believe enough in what they said to leave their name. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trivium Academy Posted September 17, 2008 Author Share Posted September 17, 2008 Yeah, I'm trying to do what is best for ds4 not FIL or me. We're touring a Montessori preschool Friday, I think it'll be perfect from what the director said on the phone. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom2legomaniacs Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Yeah, I'm trying to do what is best for ds4 not FIL or me. We're touring a Montessori preschool Friday, I think it'll be perfect from what the director said on the phone. :D Good luck! It was a good experience for us to do that. Like a 2 morning a week play date with a lot of other kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beansprouts Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Where do these lunatics come from? And do you really want them reading you blog in the first place? :D Okay... I confess... It was me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcconnellboys Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 I've heard this before, on our old boards. When someone would put one or the other (or all) their children into school for whatever reason, no matter what great reasoning they provided (as if it were any of our business), there would always be someone who would just castigate them for it. Weird. Anyway, good luck to you on your journey! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kelli in TN Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 Echoing the others regarding your decision to enroll him in preschool; I NEEDED my now 13 year old to go to mother's day out just to have some time for the tougher school subjects. He never did, there was no money for that, but it would have been so good for our family. We survived, but still. ETA: I needed my now 13 year old to go to mother's day out when he was a toddler. Looking back at that, it seems like I might want to send my 13 year old to mother's day out. Wait, do you think I COULD send my 13 year old to mother's day out? That sounds pretty good now that I think about it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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