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    Charleston, SC area
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  1. sidewalk chalk, jump ropes, FOOD. Kids in our neighborhood congregate at the kids' house with the trampoline.
  2. I need help navigating all the ADHD 'miracle' parenting helps out there. My dh is not a reader and would prefer a DVD to watch. Can you share what you've used successfully and what to avoid? We need help with the temper tantrums especially, the extreme behavior from my ds7/ADHD. My dh needs something... 1., 2., 3. He's a stay-at-home dad and I think he's starting to lose his mind as we have 4 children at home- his two just came to live us recently and they are 6 & 8 without much previous discipline other than being yelled/cursed at. We have chore charts and behavior charts (allow
  3. I'm going to take ds7 to counseling first and go from there. Jumping into court wouldn't benefit ds7. I need to get to the bottom of what is actually happening. Ex is not the most reliable communicator. Then if we need to go to court I'll have the counseling sessions as evidence instead of word vs. Word.
  4. another not yet grown child but... My dd11 was homeschooled for 3 years and it has made a tremendous difference in her vs. her public schooled peers. She has learned so much in the last 2 years of being in public school and she's still a bit innocent. Too many children are exposed to adult matters at astoundingly young ages- she may bit a tad naive but I'd rather that than what I see in other children her age. I had a 13 year old girl recently tell me that she plans to have others provide for her for the rest of her life. She has no needs for college plans, no need to think about what
  5. I agree, legally it's tricky. Ds7 has shown signs of protecting himself- he doesn't want to talk to ex (his dad) on the phone much anymore and last night step-mom called herself and ds7 pretty much hung up on her. I ask him why he doesn't want to talk to them on the phone anymore and he doesn't give a detail answer- most of the time it's "I want to do this instead." It's sad. I appreciate everyone's input. It isn't a clear cut answer and I'm a Golden Rule type but when it comes to my kids... :) I will continue to pray about this and will try again to speak to ex about my concerns.
  6. He just says they are having problems. He's not a take-action, be involved type. He takes the path of least resistance in parenting which infuriates stepmom (she's said it many times to me). I don't know if she is spanking him appropriately, I have a strong feeling she does it out of anger and frustration- which is never right. I'm in a pickle.
  7. It's not like I don't know what challenges my own son presents at times but as a step-parent myself...I cannot fathom why she thinks spanking her step-child is appropriate. It pains me to hear ds7 say that she yells at him and spanks him. Unfortunately, she will not be open to talking about this because it draws attention on her behavior. I'm asking whether to address this or leave it alone. If I leave it alone, I will keep my eye on ds7...I call him while he's there just for this very reason.
  8. I have a dilemma and either I need to change my thinking or things needs to change. I am a stepmom of 2 children who actually live with us plus my 2 children. My ds7 (adhd/dyslexia/speech) goes to his dad's for the weekend and he has a stepmom there. What is the hive's thoughts on this? I do not discipline my step-children other than time-outs, loss of privileges. There is no spanking, no yelling. My ds7 keeps telling me that his stepmom yells and spanks him when he visits on the weekend (a total of about 36 hours time spent there). My ex tells me that his wife hates my son- hi
  9. Well with AAR's full refund within a year guarantee and the fact we're afterschooling- I think we'll go this route first. My hope is that the public school is effective in placing him in resource class where they can use the expensive curriculum and we'll be doing added support activities at home. Barton looks fabulous, the price tag is steep for us at this point. If we feel there is a true need to have such a program at home, we'll go that route happily.
  10. Personal opinion. A pastor's heart and passion about teaching others about God is more important than any degree s/he will ever earn. Degrees are only important to his desired path for example, if he wants to teach divinity or other class. Look to see what his elders have?
  11. You too, don't want to hijack the thread- hope you're doing well!
  12. It's called letting go. There is curricula out there planned out for you and you just follow the instructions. Nothing is perfect, fairy dust is actually glitter you cannot vacuum up no matter how many times you vacuum and the magic wand is the hour hand of the clock hitting the bedtime hour. LOL :)
  13. I see affiliate for AAS, if I click the link will you get credit for my AAR purchase?
  14. THe titles that are used in most lessons- buy. I called them the spines. The rest are library books, fill-ins. Agree with coffeegal. I did get dioramas/treasure chests that were fabulous when I could, they were high-impact for my dd.
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