dangermom Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 My husband is on his way home with a severance check. EXACTLY one year ago, he was laid off, so happy anniversary to us. I hope he finds a job quicker this time; last time it was January before he found something. Dude. My husband is an eminently employable software engineer. This is our third bout of unemployment in 3 years. I think I'm still in shock, but I have to hold it together. Time to fix some dinner. Unbelievable. Yet again, it's two steps forward, then three steps back. Prayers welcome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaT Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: I hope he finds something quickly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChiMomNP Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: I am sorry. I so understand. It is really crazy out there job wise. I hope he finds something really quick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
serene Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: so sorry. prayers for a new job - quickly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KRG Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 prayers that he finds something quickly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I'm so sorry. I hope he can get something soon. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barb_ Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I'm so sorry. We've done that four times over the past 10 years or so. He always finds a great job eventually, so I know his skills aren't in question, but it's always such a sucker punch. Hang in there. Will you be moving or trying to stay put? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaillardia Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: Incredible. We went through periods of unemployment too, but never that close. We will pray for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blueridge Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: and prayers. What a stressful time. BTDT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 So sorry! There is a lot of hiring excitement here in Silicon Valley for software engineers. However, there are layoffs as well. Cisco, BAE, and I think SAP have had layoffs fairly recently. Google and Facebook are hiring like crazy. Google takes forever to pick a new employee. I don't know about Facebook. I see that you're in Chico--has he looked at the state U up there? I've heard that that's often an area of turnover because they don't pay as well as private industry, but that the jobs are fairly stable with good benefits. I hope that he can jump quickly into something else! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smillard00 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 So sorry! A relative of mine is in that field and kept having to find the next job. It was crazy. The best thing that ever happened was going to work for a contract company that would hire him out for contract work. He spent about the same amount of time at a job, but the good news was when he did come to the time to move on, his company found his next contract for him quickly. Much better, although it means moving around which would be hard for someone with kids... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeekingSimplicity Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so sorry, that is just unreal. I hope he finds something fast. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I'm really sorry. :sad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrissymama Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I'm so sorry. We have been there as well. Praying for a great new job and strength for you and your dh in the meantime. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xuzi Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simka2 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I'm so sorry. My husband has a software engineering background too. It's a scary time! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eewaggie99 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Times are so tough! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dangermom Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 Thanks everybody. Luckily he has been sending his resume out (though not because we saw this coming; he's the mainstay of the software team and I don't know how they'll survive), and he has a potential bite. I don't want to get my hopes up, but it does look like a good chance. We do want to stay here. We feel that this is where God wants us to be--though apparently God thinks I'm a lot tougher than I think I am. :tongue_smilie: And our family is here too. He says that this time he won't hold out long; if this potential opportunity doesn't work out, pretty soon he'll go to a local company where he's sure he can get in--he'll just hate it and not earn very much. I hope it doesn't come to that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauraGB Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Veritaserum Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: I'm sorry. :( I hope something better is around the corner! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 My husband is on his way home with a severance check. EXACTLY one year ago, he was laid off, so happy anniversary to us. I hope he finds a job quicker this time; last time it was January before he found something. Dude. My husband is an eminently employable software engineer. This is our third bout of unemployment in 3 years. I think I'm still in shock, but I have to hold it together. Time to fix some dinner. Unbelievable. Yet again, it's two steps forward, then three steps back. Prayers welcome. :grouphug: In the same boat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommaduck Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :( :grouphug: and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen in PA Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: My Dh just started back to work after nearly two years of searching. He finally made it to the 90-day mark, which meant we finally got benefits, then came home yesterday saying positions have been cut and long-time employees are worried about the entire business going under. He's planning to start sending resumes out again. Sigh. And more :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 My husband is on his way home with a severance check. . :grouphug: My job only promises 2 weeks notice, and I read every article about the economy in our state. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tex-mex Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milovany Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlessedMom Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: ~Praying~ :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kht2006 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Praying for wisdom and peace for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Runningmom80 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Oh, I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Sorry.... we've done it, too :( Sorry :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrogMom5 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry. Yes, we will be praying that your dh finds a good job quickly. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Ugh. :grouphug: We're there. It stinks. Will pray. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amira Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I'll be praying for you too. I hope something works out soon. And maybe you really are a lot tougher than you thought. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CourtneyMI Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Hugs and prayers for you and your family. This economy sucks. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sevilla Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 (((((((hugs)))))))) Software Engineering is a very rough field to be in these days... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dangermom Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 I'll be praying for you too. I hope something works out soon. And maybe you really are a lot tougher than you thought. Good luck! Let's hope so! :001_smile: I really do appreciate all the support, everybody. I don't quite want to tell everyone IRL yet. One bout of unemployment is sympathetic. Two, still sympathetic. Three starts to look a bit suspicious... I'm feeling a bit defensive about it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danestress Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Let's hope so! :001_smile: I really do appreciate all the support, everybody. I don't quite want to tell everyone IRL yet. One bout of unemployment is sympathetic. Two, still sympathetic. Three starts to look a bit suspicious... I'm feeling a bit defensive about it! I hate that you have to feel that way. You need the love and the support of those around you, and I hope you will get it. In this economy, there is nothing suspicious about a bout of unemployment, and the fact that he's been through it a few times says more about the industry than it does about him personally. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sevilla Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Let's hope so! :001_smile: I really do appreciate all the support, everybody. I don't quite want to tell everyone IRL yet. One bout of unemployment is sympathetic. Two, still sympathetic. Three starts to look a bit suspicious... I'm feeling a bit defensive about it! Please don't feel embarrassed/defensive - it's likely not your DH's skills but the industry he's in (software engineering is a rough place to be right now b/c they have to compete with India). If your DH is able to get retrained in a different tech field it might make a big difference long-term. [ETA: Something like Applications Support might be more viable] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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