hsmom27 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 (edited) UPDATE: I tested and it was ++++++! Guess that'll teach DH not ask for special birthday TEA after I tell him the timing's not good. And the circumstances aren't ideal, but we're still thrilled. We've got 8 more months to get used to the idea (and buy a bigger car!). Thanks for all the advice. You had only had 1 cycle, since the birth of your 14mo that was still bfing every 3-4 hours, but were now ~10 days overdue, crampy and starting to get really nauseous? I don't see how it's possible and we don't want it to be. DH is really worried though. So, would you waste the money to test or just wait it out? Ugg... I guess majority wins. It's not the money. I just didn't want to lug all the kids on an hour round trip on my Sunday. :P Oh well, I don't think it's possible, but it will make DH happy to know, so... off to the store we go! Edited July 10, 2011 by littlewigglebutts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HiddenJewel Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I would probably test if I could find the inexpensive tests. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Well since I own stock in POAS tests, yes! [Ok not really, but yeah I would.] You'd be surprised at how cheap they are at walmart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
texasmama Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I would test. I would probably buy one at the Dollar Store. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gailmegan Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 It would depend on if I had typical fertility signs with the one cycle (cervical mucous and breast tenderness, among others) and where in the cycle those symptoms occurred (later or earlier than usual). It is possible to have anovulatory cycles, especially when breastfeeding, and breastfeeding can keep the cycle length irregular too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abbeyej Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 If dh is "worried" and it would ease his mind (or allow him to process this), then I would do it. You *could* be pregnant, but your symptoms *could* also be just the hormonal fluctuations of a body trying to get back to cycling after pregnancy / nursing for many months. But if it would ease your mind, I think you should do it. If the cost is a serious concern, you can call a local crisis pregnancy center and they'll let you come in for a free test. You don't have to be an unmarried teenager. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I would test. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oraetstudia Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 The Dollar Tree sells tests for a buck. Big Lots sells 2-packs of tests for $1.90. I'd test. But then I practically test every time I pee. Okay, not really, but it does seem as if I've gone through an awful lot of tests in the past many years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 YES! I keep several cheap pg tests in the house when I am bfing to set my mind at ease when my hormones get whacked out. I've taken two or three already and ds is only 9 months, lol. It's worth it for the peace of mind (or to find out, if it ever ended up positive). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katiebug_1976 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Do you have a Dollar Tree? They have pg tests for only $1. That would help the $$ part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmschooling Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I'm laughing here...I just went through this! I'm still bf'ing my 19mo son, finally had my first cycle at 16 or 17mo, had 2nd right on time from pre-preggo time, and then I was almost 2 weeks late this last time! I'm not pregnant :) I'm having fertility signs right on time this month though so looks like I'm back on track already. Also happy to see another mom still bf'ing this much with an older baby! (guess mine is actually a toddler now...and showing no signs of letting me wean him though I have recently trying...before he's two is my goal!) I'll be POAS in a week and a half from now b/c I won't be able to wait any longer than that to see if I'm actually late... we'll just say we forgot to put the lid on the teA kettle. :lol: POAS and let us all know!!! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wapiti Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I would test, but then I am a HPT addict. I buy cheap ones in bulk on line. It's a long story, but in spite of longstanding fertility issues, I conceived a surprise baby when her nearest older sibling was only five months old. I never had a period in between. At 41 y.o. In the future, if you don't want to conceive, I would not rely on bfing as contraception. good luck with the test :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmom27 Posted July 10, 2011 Author Share Posted July 10, 2011 I'm laughing here...I just went through this! I'm still bf'ing my 19mo son, finally had my first cycle at 16 or 17mo, had 2nd right on time from pre-preggo time, and then I was almost 2 weeks late this last time! I'm not pregnant :) Hope if a couple days I can say the same!:D Of course we firmly believe all babies are a blessing, so in the end we'll be happy either way! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perry Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I got pregnant with ds when dd was 10 weeks old. I was exclusively bf'ing, and hadn't even had a period. Do the test. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I would test if I wanted to see that I was pregnant. :) Wishing you success with whichever way it turns out.... and that you feel "lucky" either way... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffeegal Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I got pregnant with ds when dd was 10 weeks old. I was exclusively bf'ing, and hadn't even had a period. Do the test. :iagree: Ds was a touch older, but similar situation. I'd test. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twoforjoy Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I got pregnant when DD was 6 months old and I hadn't established a regular cycle yet (I had had some bleeding, but nothing regular). She was still nursing, although not exclusively. And we were using condoms. So, I'd test. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PentecostalMom Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I would test as well. Tests are cheap. hck, buy three or four, then if it's negative, you can wait a week and test again. I bf'ed 5yd dd until she was 2.5, little dd until she was 19 mos (she wanted to stop not me). With older dd, cycles came back at 14mos, with little dd, they came back at 10 mos. Just to be sure! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NittanyJen Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Best way to bring on a cycle is to buy a pg test! Works for me every time even though I'd love nothing more than to fill up this house! Doesn't seem to be in the cards, though, so I guess I just get to be grateful for the two that I have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Ditto on Dollar Store Tests. I was in similar situation myself a few months ago, got a period at 15.5 months and then not again until 17.5-18 months- I tested a few times in between there. Now my period is back again for good and seems to be regular, which is nice(in its own way!). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carrie12345 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 My daughters are 13 months apart, and I never had a period in between. I test if dh sneezes in my general direction! ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Now we all want to know. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Wife Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I would take my basal temp. If it's low, then I wouldn't bother testing and would expect AF soon. If it's high, then I would definitely test. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Snicker, snicker...that was me for about five years after dh's "v". I had health problems and really, really needed to not get pregnant and if I did, make a beeline for a high risk practitioner and a hematologist mighty quick! So, I was nervous, always suspecting that somehow, someway, some little swimmer was heading towards me even if dh did nothing more than breathe in my ear! As for bf.ing...that did not stop me from being fertile at all. Always got my monthly back within 8 weeks of birth even though my kids were exclusively nursing at the time. I have a wicked, fertile body and I think it's out to get my mental health!!! LOL Test, test, test, ....it's the only thing that keeps your sanity alive and kicking. Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauraGB Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Well? :bigear: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlsdMama Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 You had only had 1 cycle, since the birth of your 14mo that was still bfing every 3-4 hours, but were now ~10 days overdue, crampy and starting to get really nauseous? I don't see how it's possible and we don't want it to be. DH is really worried though. So, would you waste the money to test or just wait it out? Well, *I* would, but look at my track record. :P :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa in the UP of MI Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 I would take my basal temp. If it's low, then I wouldn't bother testing and would expect AF soon. If it's high, then I would definitely test. That's what I would do, too, though it's also possible if your temp is low that you haven't even ovulated yet. My longest cycle after having a baby would have been 60 days had I not gotten pregnant! We chart so I knew when to expect af. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmom27 Posted July 10, 2011 Author Share Posted July 10, 2011 Updated original post! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpe Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 UPDATE: I tested and it was ++++++! Guess that'll teach DH not ask for special birthday TEA after I tell him the timing's not good. And the circumstances aren't ideal, but we're still thrilled. We've got 8 more months to get used to the idea (and buy a bigger car!). Thanks for all the advice. Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firestar Academy Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 congrats!!! Robin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Wife Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Congrats! And remember that if it wasn't God's plan, it wouldn't have happened regardless of the chance you took. :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Congratulations!!! :party: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Congrats! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsinkable Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Yay! Congrats on your next little wiggly butt! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 CONGRATS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Year Round Mom Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 How funny, and CONGRATULATIONS!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pretty in Pink Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Awww, congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nakia Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Congrats!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyhomemaker25 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Congratulations! I'm a little bit jealous. I sure don't need another baby right now, but with my little one toddling all over the house I miss baby snuggles. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlsdMama Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Congratulations! (We have a brand new little girl in our house right now and you are in for a treat... Nothing like a sweet new tiny person!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffeegal Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Congratulations! :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacie Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 UPDATE: I tested and it was ++++++! Guess that'll teach DH not ask for special birthday TEA after I tell him the timing's not good. And the circumstances aren't ideal, but we're still thrilled. We've got 8 more months to get used to the idea (and buy a bigger car!). Thanks for all the advice. Congrats!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmom27 Posted July 11, 2011 Author Share Posted July 11, 2011 Thanks everybody! We're still in a little bit a shock but in the good way. Now we just need recommendations for cars that seat 9.:lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amydavis Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Congratulations!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WistfulRidge Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Congrats! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisamarie Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Congrats! And a little jealous--my baby turns 4 next month:( Thanks everybody! We're still in a little bit a shock but in the good way. Now we just need recommendations for cars that seat 9.:lol: 12 passenger van? Not much else out there I don't think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EthiopianFood Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 Thanks everybody! We're still in a little bit a shock but in the good way. Now we just need recommendations for cars that seat 9.:lol: Chevy Traverse has some years that seat 9. Pretty sure you would have to have a kiddo up front with you, though. :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pfamilygal Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 Congrats. And I've conceived while breastfeeding 3 times. With babies who were still nursing at night. Once without even having a first post-partum period. Oh, and we drive a Chevy Express. Seats 12. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 Congrats! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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