Jenn in Mo Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I don't correct speech. I really don't. Never. Ever. Unless it's coming out of my child's mouth. I'm not a grammar snob. I make plenty of mistakes myself and few things even bother me (though print is a different story for some reason,) but THIS stabs through me every time I hear it. "I seen it." I have to resist replying, "No. No you didn't. You saw it." I'm in southern Missouri and am assuming it's a local thing. Anyone else suffer through this in your neck of the woods? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GWOB Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I seen (sorry, couldn't resist) people from all regions... I cannot even complete this. It is so grammatically incorrect. Trust me, it is not localized to this region. I've seen people from all over make this error. I am no grammar queen, but at least I try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ereks mom Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pretty in Pink Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I have also heard and seen people from all regions make this mistake, though I used to believe it was just a southern colloquialism. I have a girlfriend from Connecticut who updates her Facebook status frequently and makes this mistake several times a week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I'm in southern Missouri and am assuming it's a local thing. Anyone else suffer through this in your neck of the woods? I hear it every blasted day. A good portion of my co-workers live in what we call "Banjo Land" about 40 miles east, and "I seen it" is not so much Missouri as rural poor, or so it seems to me. Drives me wild, along with "don't got none", "don't see none", and "I done got me a..". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parias1126 Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I know what you mean! "I seen it" just makes my skin crawl! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crissy Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 A good portion of my co-workers live in what we call "Banjo Land" about 40 miles east :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crissy Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 My biggest issue is not with the general public, but with the highly educated people who send me awful email messages. I have always been hard on myself for not having a formal education past high school, and it frustrates me to read messages from those who apparently didn't take advantage of the classes they had the ability to attend. This morning I received a note from the CEO of a major local company letting me know that, "Me and Jay can't go to baseball practice tonight." :001_huh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 (edited) "I seen it." From the most highly educated to the least, most of the people in my father's family say this and so do lots of people from their neck of the woods (KY, TN, MO, AR). I think it is part of a dialect. I'm so used to it that it doesn't bother me. I sometimes think I sound like a prissy prig when I'm around my extended family. The highly educated ones have that one grammar idiosyncrasy; the rest of them butcher the language fairly frequently. But you know what, I don't care. They are wonderful, loving people and I adore them all. What does bother me is hearing an educated person say ain't, even in jest, even when they are quoting someone or something. Around here, ain't is a word in common usage. I feel like a prissy prig, sometimes, because I don't use it. Our family has a live-in Grammar Nazi (DS1). It is hard to get away with any grammar mistakes around here. Edited September 10, 2010 by RoughCollie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 :iagree: "Should have went" also makes my ears bleed. :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs.m Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I don't correct speech. I really don't. Never. Ever. Unless it's coming out of my child's mouth. I'm not a grammar snob. I make plenty of mistakes myself and few things even bother me (though print is a different story for some reason,) but THIS stabs through me every time I hear it. "I seen it." I have to resist replying, "No. No you didn't. You saw it." I'm in southern Missouri and am assuming it's a local thing. Anyone else suffer through this in your neck of the woods? Mid-MO too! "I seen it. It was real bad." "Real" for "really" drives me nuts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dooley Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 We moved from San Diego to Raleigh NC 4 years ago. I hear a LOT of awful grammar. My husband is starting to take on the local colloquialisms - he is saying "I'm all tore up". I have also caught myself saying y'all. :001_huh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 :iagree: "Should have went" also makes my ears bleed. :tongue_smilie: GAH!!! Me, too! Cinder Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BikeBookBread Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 A good portion of my co-workers live in what we call "Banjo Land" about 40 miles east... :lol: "I seen it!" makes my teeth itch. Yergh. My (highly educated husband) is from Minnesota. Even 30 years after moving away from his home state, he still uses the local colloquialism, "I borrowed him my (lawn mower, book, etc...)" or "Will you borrow me your (shovel, DVD, etc...)" I didn't believe that anyone else in the world "borrowed stuff" until we travelled to Minnesota to visit his family and heard other people use these expressions. It just doesn't make any sense! In homage to Mrs. Mungo, these examples have always driven me crazy: Boeing's, Nordstrom's, Target's... :smash: Are these expressions a Seattle thing??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haiku Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 My oldest (now 16) learned this when she went to school in 7th grade. After several months of correcting her, I told her that every time she said "I seen," she had to wrote the correct sentence, in its entirety, 25 times. After doing that twice she was miraculously cured. I will not have my oldest corrupting my youngest, who already had speech and language problems and was starting to pick up "I seen." ;) Oh, and btw, making your child call the children's librarian on the phone and apologize for saying, "My bad" instead of "I'm sorry" or "Excuse me" when she crashes into him is a good cure for the "My bad" habit. :D Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remudamom Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 What about "gone missing" and "we was"? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haiku Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 "Me and Jay can't go to baseball practice tonight." I used to say "Me 'n Angela" about myself and my sister. My dad cured me of this by repeatedly saying, "But Angela's not mean!" I have been corrected by people for using "me" as an object. People insist it should be "I." They get a grammar lesson. :) Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauraGB Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Drives me wild, along with "don't got none", "don't see none", and "I done got me a..". Oh yeah. "I seen it" is all over the place, along with these monsters above. I think there are only 2 members of my extended family (and I mean both parents' very large families and all their kids and their kids etc) who know better :001_huh:; a cousin and me. I'm kind of glad about this thread. My family's grammar has always embarrassed me (I care a lot less now than I did when I was a kid/teen). It's nice to know it common everywhere ;). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsinkable Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I hear it every blasted day. A good portion of my co-workers live in what we call "Banjo Land" about 40 miles east, and "I seen it" is not so much Missouri as rural poor, or so it seems to me. Drives me wild, along with "don't got none", "don't see none", and "I done got me a..". As a joke, my parents used to say to each other, "You ain't got no couth.":lol: They'd just giggle themselves silly over it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C_l_e_0..Q_c Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I've always assumed that people were saying "I've seen it" and just swallowing the 've Or that my French ears were just not picking it up (the 've) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haiku Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I've always assumed that people were saying "I've seen it" and just swallowing the 've Or that my French ears were just not picking it up (the 've) Oh, no, they are just slaughtering proper grammar. :D Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Oh, no, they are just slaughtering proper grammar. :D Tara :iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southcarolinamom Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Yep, we hear "hacked to pieces" grammar a lot in SC ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perry Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 My inlaws say this. They were teachers. :eek: My dh, who knows better, often says "(ds) and me are going for a bike ride". I think he thinks it sounds folksy. To me, it sounds uneducated. I've pointed it out before, and he still does it, so I just keep my mouth shut. But it really irritates me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Yeah, we hear it, I cringe, my face twitches, and then I try to smile.....grrrr.....but here is another one that just makes my brain seize up and explode! "Them are good...." Them are good Them are good UHM.........AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA...the scream heard around the world. Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Tara~ Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I've always assumed that people were saying "I've seen it" and just swallowing the 've Or that my French ears were just not picking it up (the 've) This is what I think about my dd. I *think* she's saying "I seen..." or "I done..." but we don't talk like that, nor is she around people who do. So, I think she's just not *hearing* the 've part to apply it to her own sentences. Either that, or *I* am not hearing *hers* LOL Either way, I correct/remind each time she says it. This whole thread has made me cringe. I have a rather dear online/board friend who frequently says "I seen..." actually, come to think of it, there are 2 or 3, anyway, oh. my. goodness does it ever drive me batty!! Then the next thing to pop into my head is .... and you're home schooling your child? And I know, that's bad of me to say. We all make mistakes and have gaps of our own, yet we teach our children and fill in the gaps as we go. Or at least, that's the plan, right? But I can't help but feel like these people aren't doing that part. These people have old enough children and should be far enough along in their grammar studies to have learned better, to have caught this mistake. Again, I know that probably sounds horrible and many could point out similar mistakes in me, but, I had to get that out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perry Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Then the next thing to pop into my head is .... and you're home schooling your child? And I know, that's bad of me to say. We all make mistakes and have gaps of our own, yet we teach our children and fill in the gaps as we go. Or at least, that's the plan, right? But I can't help but feel like these people aren't doing that part. These people have old enough children and should be far enough along in their grammar studies to have learned better, to have caught this mistake. I can't speak for everyone, but I know that my dh and in-laws KNOW it's incorrect, they just use it as if it's slang or a colloquialism or something. Not sure if that makes it worse, or better. :glare: I wonder if my in-laws just want to blend in, as they live in a rural area where everyone speaks that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babysparkler Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Poor grammar drives me batty. My children were all perfect in their grammar until I sent my dd off to public school for Kinder & 1st... her teacher and all of the kids continuously slaughtered English and she picked up bad habits :banghead: that I am STILL fixing. It drives me crazy. :rant: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lllll Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 (edited) .. Edited January 2, 2013 by ksva Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I used to say "Me 'n Angela" about myself and my sister. My dad cured me of this by repeatedly saying, "But Angela's not mean!" I have been corrected by people for using "me" as an object. People insist it should be "I." They get a grammar lesson. :) Tara "Angela and me," or "me and Angela," doesn't bother me nearly as bad as "Angela and myself," or "myself and Angela." When I first started hearing it, it was all the rage among public servants - cops, EMT/paramedics, and firefighters. Now it seems to have infiltrated the speech of the general population. But I still hear if mostly from my dh who is in law enforcement. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamanthaBea Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Since English is a living language, I don't mind colloquialisms, slang, etc. I think regional and ethnic differences add to the flavor and the texture of the language. What I do mind, is people not being able to speak and write proper English when the situation calls for it. A job interview is not the time to be saying that "y'all ain't got none" (or whatever your particular dialect is). Everyone needs to learn proper English and know when to use it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m0mmaBuck Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 The use of the non-word "irregardless" in place of "regardless" makes my ears and eyes burn. "Irregardless" of the situation, that is not the correct word. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathleen in VA Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 I have a friend who says "sawl" for "saw." She pronounces several similar words like this. Where does that extra "l" come from??? I also do not like it when I hear "I am going to lay down." I invariably ask, "Lay what down?":D Oh, and one more that gets to me is using her/him instead he/she. An example: "Tom is stronger than him." If you add the verb "is" to complete the thought it becomes apparent that "him" is the wrong word choice. Granted, saying "Tom is stronger than he," does sound rather pretentious, but all you have to do is add the verb and it sounds fine. BTW: Isn't it scary to post a comment on a grammar thread? I'm completely paranoid about using incorrect grammar while trying to rant about some else's incorrect grammar.:lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 BTW: Isn't it scary to post a comment on a grammar thread? I'm completely paranoid about using incorrect grammar while trying to rant about some else's incorrect grammar.:lol: I think as long as myself does not make the mistake myself is ranting about myself is okay. :lol: But irregardless... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Oh, and one more that gets to me is using her/him instead he/she. An example: "Tom is stronger than him." If you add the verb "is" to complete the thought it becomes apparent that "him" is the wrong word choice. Granted, saying "Tom is stronger than he," does sound rather pretentious, but all you have to do is add the verb and it sounds fine. BTW: Isn't it scary to post a comment on a grammar thread? I'm completely paranoid about using incorrect grammar while trying to rant about some else's incorrect grammar.:lol: That gets me, too. As in: Him and me are going to the store. ACK!!! I'm not only paranoid about my grammar, I'm also paranoid about using proper punctuation on these threads! :D Cinder (ha ha--I've already caught an error. I hope there aren't more!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColoradoMom Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Since English is a living language, I don't mind colloquialisms, slang, etc. I think regional and ethnic differences add to the flavor and the texture of the language. What I do mind, is people not being able to speak and write proper English when the situation calls for it. A job interview is not the time to be saying that "y'all ain't got none" (or whatever your particular dialect is). Everyone needs to learn proper English and know when to use it. That's kind of my take on it too. I better things to do than pick apart people's grammar. I do notice it - but it doesn't really bother me. DS 13 declared on Tuesday (our first day of school) that he didn't need to do language arts anymore because he "speaks English perfectly and he'll never have to write in life anyway." I think I can remember saying that in junior high myself - "Why do I need an ENGLISH class - I SPEAK English!" I do believe many kids actually think this is for real though. Needless to say he didn't make any headway with me on the issue. :glare: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurie4b Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Not local. It's common among lower socio-economic groups of different ethnicities and regions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Tara~ Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Ha! To add to this thread, just earlier today, a gal who commonly says stuff such as "I seen" "I done" "Me and so n so done such n such" etc. posted a gripe on FB about gramatical (her spelling, just to further drive home my point/irritation) mistakes in signs. She asks if people really are that stupid. Wow was it hard to not respond. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shanvan Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 (edited) "Should have went" also makes my ears bleed. :tongue_smilie: :iagree:That is one of my all time favorites! I cannot seem to cure my husband of this. He learned it from his parents (who would annoy everyone in this thread with their grammatical mistakes and amusing folksy expressions---like the word 'yous'). He thinks I'm picking on him---but the kids are listening and one of them is beginning to use this lovely expression. One I see on this board a lot is people asking for 'advise' instead of 'advice'. Depending on my mood I sometimes assume it's a hasty typo. But then I wonder..... Shannon Edited to clarify the level of error in the home: My husband does not use the word 'yous' (as his parents do). I don't think I could live with that in the house! He does use the expression 'shoulda went' or even 'shoulda did'. Drives me nuts! Edited September 10, 2010 by shanvan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsinkable Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 "Angela and me," or "me and Angela," doesn't bother me nearly as bad as "Angela and myself," or "myself and Angela." When I first started hearing it, it was all the rage among public servants - cops, EMT/paramedics, and firefighters. Now it seems to have infiltrated the speech of the general population. But I still hear if mostly from my dh who is in law enforcement. my firefighter brother says it, too!!! :lol: I think people are afraid to use "me." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom-ninja. Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 My in-laws, all of them, speak that way. In fact the whole area does. It's worse than fingernails on a chalk board. I. can't. stand. it. "I seen it." "You was there yesterday." "I were at the store." My mom has started to pick it up from living here and I correct her every time. I do not correct the in-laws. However, I do correct my children if they use incorrect grammar in front of my in-laws. Maybe they'll pick up on it? The worst part is that I hear *teachers* speaking that way. shudder. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaillardia Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 How about "I seent it" ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dobela Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Since English is a living language, I don't mind colloquialisms, slang, etc. I think regional and ethnic differences add to the flavor and the texture of the language. What I do mind, is people not being able to speak and write proper English when the situation calls for it. A job interview is not the time to be saying that "y'all ain't got none" (or whatever your particular dialect is). Everyone needs to learn proper English and know when to use it. :iagree: Some of my most educated family members can use dialect that makes me cringe but when doing business use their 'business dialect' LOL. I live in AR, grew up in SE MO, have family from very rural West Tennessee so I hear more than my share. However, the one that makes my ears bleed is when someone says to me, "I'll learn ya that if ya wanna know how tuh do it." :banghead: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Frankweiler Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 Since English is a living language, I don't mind colloquialisms, slang, etc. I think regional and ethnic differences add to the flavor and the texture of the language. What I do mind, is people not being able to speak and write proper English when the situation calls for it. A job interview is not the time to be saying that "y'all ain't got none" (or whatever your particular dialect is). Everyone needs to learn proper English and know when to use it. I agree. I do think it's neat that we can go to a different part of the country and find English spoken in a whole new way. We lived in New England for a while, and one day I came home from church to tell my husband (who was sick that day,) "Well, did you know there's a new character in Bible? Marther? You know....Mary's friend?" Where did they get that "er" from? It would also crack me up everytime I'd hear the commercial for Toyoter of Newport. However, I did not laugh when I'd hear "might could." As in, "We might could do that." Nails on the chalkboard for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted September 10, 2010 Share Posted September 10, 2010 My inlaws say this. They were teachers. :eek: This is what really makes my stomach turn. I get a tight chest when I hear teachers using bad grammar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted September 11, 2010 Share Posted September 11, 2010 I don't correct speech. I really don't. Never. Ever. Unless it's coming out of my child's mouth. I'm not a grammar snob. I make plenty of mistakes myself and few things even bother me (though print is a different story for some reason,) but THIS stabs through me every time I hear it. "I seen it." I have to resist replying, "No. No you didn't. You saw it." I'm in southern Missouri and am assuming it's a local thing. Anyone else suffer through this in your neck of the woods? You do realize, don't you, that even though I have good English grammar I will have to use that on you if I EVER get to meet you? ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenn in Mo Posted September 12, 2010 Author Share Posted September 12, 2010 Okay, Chelle, but I'll drop all of my "to be's". :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrixieB Posted September 12, 2010 Share Posted September 12, 2010 (edited) In homage to Mrs. Mungo, these examples have always driven me crazy: Boeing's, Nordstrom's, Target's... :smash: Are these expressions a Seattle thing??? Boeing's and Nordstrom's, yes... but Target's is from Minnesota I think. :lol: Edited September 12, 2010 by TrixieB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted September 12, 2010 Share Posted September 12, 2010 Okay, Chelle, but I'll drop all of my "to be's". :D NOOOOOOOOOOOO! I changed my mind! I won't do it! I won't! I promise! The way my memory is failing these days, I wouldn't have remembered anyway! :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted September 12, 2010 Share Posted September 12, 2010 Not grammar, but in written communication like on this forum or e-mails, the absence of capital letters or punctuation. Unless you are e.e. cummings, you can't get away without using capitals! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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