specialmama Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 My goodness. I saw Imp tonight and she told me. I am so blown away that this happened again. What are the odds? Your poor, sweet dd... your whole family... oh man... praying for peace here. Peace and answers and hope. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thea Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh no. I went through that once and once is enough for anyone. I'm so sorry. :hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scrappyhappymama Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I am heartsick. :grouphug: and prayers to you and your daughter and all your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iona Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
classics4us Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giraffe Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I just saw this and gasped out loud. I am so sorry and send my sincerest condolences and heartfelt prayers to everyone in your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom-ninja. Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm stunned as well. I can't believe it. Poor Stacey. I can't imagine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amber in AUS Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh Mariann my heart breaks for your DD and family. I have no words, I am sorry sorry for her loss. Big hugs from the other side of the world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EthiopianFood Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 There are just no words. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bookfiend Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: May you find comfort in shared tears. So very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: I wish you two, and all the papas and grandpapas, courage and hope in these hards times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 OH my Mariann :grouphug:, I have am stunned...we've been praying here for Stacey, Mario, and baby and I'm just gobsmacked. We will continue to pray in earnest for them and for you, your dh, and children. I'm glad you are going to spend a week with her. If memory serves, her whacko, freak principal was evil about her leave last autumn, so I am just going to say that I'm heartbroken for her and Mario, but thankful that the summer break has arrived and she won't also be dealing with Mr. Nasty every day. I'll also pray for the doctors to have wisdom and tenacity in finding the problem. Again, I'm so sorry Mariann...I wish I lived in Virginia so I could do something practical for you. Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyinTN Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so very sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoPlaceLikeHome Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom in High Heels Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so sorry. How heartbreaking for your daughter and her family. You will all be in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristusG Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so sorry!! I couldn't believe it when I read it. I hope that the doctors can come up with something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BridgeTea Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so sorry. (((Stacey and all the family))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyFL Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieJ Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 (edited) :grouphug::grouphug: Edited June 10, 2011 by KatieinMich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gingersmom Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merry Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 What a loss of a precious life. Sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NicksMama-Zack's Mama Too Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2scouts Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so, so very sorry. Unfortunately I have been in her shoes many times and it is heartbreaking. It's so hard to carry a baby and never get to bring him home. *tears* My heart is breaking for your dd. I know you are still reeling from this news, but two late losses are not normal. If the babies don't have any genetic problems, PLEASE have your dd find the book "Is Your Body Baby Friendly?" by Dr Alan Beer. I had seven late losses and was able to have two healthy babies with treatment developed by this brilliant man and wonderful doctor(who sadly died during my last pregnancy). She may need to find a reproductive immunologist. Does she have any living children? It is common for women or already have one (or more) child(ren) to develop an immune problem. I hope this helps and she doesn't have to spend years and years looking for an answer the way I did. :( Give your dd plenty of hugs from me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
texasmama Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:PRayers and love to all of you.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm SO sorry, Mariann, so, so sorry. I don't know what else to day.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest momk2000 Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UnsinkableKristen Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I am so very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 10, 2011 Author Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so, so very sorry. Unfortunately I have been in her shoes many times and it is heartbreaking. It's so hard to carry a baby and never get to bring him home. *tears* My heart is breaking for your dd. I know you are still reeling from this news, but two late losses are not normal. If the babies don't have any genetic problems, PLEASE have your dd find the book "Is Your Body Baby Friendly?" by Dr Alan Beer. I had seven late losses and was able to have two healthy babies with treatment developed by this brilliant man and wonderful doctor(who sadly died during my last pregnancy). She may need to find a reproductive immunologist. Does she have any living children? It is common for women or already have one (or more) child(ren) to develop an immune problem. I hope this helps and she doesn't have to spend years and years looking for an answer the way I did. :( Give your dd plenty of hugs from me. OMH -- I was also a patient of Dr. Beer when I was having miscarriage after miscarriage -- one round of tx with him and we now have dd12 and the twins who are almost 11. He is such a wonderful man. Thank you for the book suggestion -- I will get it and see that Stacey reads it. Thanks for your kind words -- last night and today I was telling stacey that when I was pg with the three youngers, I took heparin injections twice a day in the abdomen, and had IVIg treatments through both pregnancies. Thirteen/Fourteen years ago, lots of people in the medical community thought that Dr. Beer was a clown - I thought he was a genius. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 10, 2011 Author Share Posted June 10, 2011 I just got online and thank you all again from the bottom of my heart. :grouphug: Today is the day that it has all 'sunk in' for me, but I am fine. Just exhausted. Stacey just wants to deliver the baby and find out what went wrong. I do think she is getting comfort from the thought that there is nothing she could have done to prevent this from happening and that there is something physiological going on. I will go to NJ on monday with one of my three and the other two will stay behind here with family friends. I just don't have the stamina to deal with my three and my sweet, precious grand-daughters who are just heartbroken. Your prayers and good thoughts and the wonderful advice we have received have been a blessing to me and Stacey and to her husband. Thank you all so much. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginevra Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 OMH -- I was also a patient of Dr. Beer when I was having miscarriage after miscarriage -- one round of tx with him and we now have dd12 and the twins who are almost 11. He is such a wonderful man. Thank you for the book suggestion -- I will get it and see that Stacey reads it. Thanks for your kind words -- last night and today I was telling stacey that when I was pg with the three youngers, I took heparin injections twice a day in the abdomen, and had IVIg treatments through both pregnancies. Thirteen/Fourteen years ago, lots of people in the medical community thought that Dr. Beer was a clown - I thought he was a genius. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Oh, those are so...fun. :glare: I had those with ds6, since he followed my daughter who died in labor and then an early miscarriage. It's just so sad that any of us have to chalk up multiple losses before things can be discovered. :( But I was entirely grateful to my perinatologists, who looked hard for the source. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyofthree Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 11, 2011 Author Share Posted June 11, 2011 Oh, those are so...fun. :glare: I had those with ds6, since he followed my daughter who died in labor and then an early miscarriage. It's just so sad that any of us have to chalk up multiple losses before things can be discovered. :(But I was entirely grateful to my perinatologists, who looked hard for the source. The first time I had to give myself the injection, it probably took me 20 minutes just to get the syringe close to my abdomen. But, I learned. Progesterone -- now that's another story. :glare: I think I spent months walking around with ice packs on my belly and my fanny. You are correct - it is all so sad -- they have, however, learned so much in just the past 15 years.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Satori Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so very sorry. I have also lost a baby suddenly at 20 weeks, and almost lost my daughter at that time too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 11, 2011 Author Share Posted June 11, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so very sorry. I have also lost a baby suddenly at 20 weeks, and almost lost my daughter at that time too. :crying: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wapiti Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 I'm so sorry about your daughter's loss. Another vote for recommending to her that she see someone at the late Dr. Beer's clinic. Besides that website (http://www.repro-med.net/repro-med-site2/) there's also a yahoo support group http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/immunologysupport/ . :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saujana Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 So sorry to hear that. Peace be with you all.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 I'm so very sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 11, 2011 Author Share Posted June 11, 2011 I'm so sorry about your daughter's loss. Another vote for recommending to her that she see someone at the late Dr. Beer's clinic. Besides that website (http://www.repro-med.net/repro-med-site2/) there's also a yahoo support group http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/immunologysupport/ . :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: So sorry to hear that. Peace be with you all.:grouphug: I'm so very sorry! :grouphug: Oh my -- Dr. Beer passed away? DH and I saw him 13-14 years ago when we were in IF tx with him. He was a wonderful man. I will put Stacey in touch. I know that Dr. Check in Marlton, NJ does things quite similarly to Dr. Beer. Thank you all so much for your kind thoughts and prayers and advice. I am going to NJ on Monday -- and returning next Friday. Coveting prayers for Stacey during delivery on Wednesday as the last time, it did not go well, and things became dicey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merry Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 sorry to hear about the last time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LearningGrace Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 So sorry to hear of your losses. Will be praying for you, Stacey, and her family. May the Lord grant you supernatural comfort ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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IlluminatedAttic Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. I'm sending prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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