fairfarmhand Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 Remember my hunt for sandals? I really like these http://www.ebay.com/itm/Clarks-WENDY-RIVER-Womens-Tan-69519-Leather-Ankle-Strap-Heel-Sandal-Shoes-/201300551332?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&var=&hash=item2ede72a6a4 But my daughter insists that they look like something an old lady would wear. I think they are cute. (she is 17...so anyone older than 25 is old to her.) What says the hive? (Of course, I plan on wearing what I like, but I don't want to look like a Granny yet at the ripe old age of 35) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 I think they're cute and I love Clarks. I'd style them with capris or a snazzy skirt because they could look a little frumpy if the rest of your outfit is, but with something breezy, coupled with light and fun accessories? Perfect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plansrme Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 Yes. I am 47. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 6, 2015 Author Share Posted April 6, 2015 Yes. I am 47. And since you are young like me, I'll go with it! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnniePoo Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 I wouldn't call them granny shoes, but they aren't young & hip. Something about the styling of the heel. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 6, 2015 Author Share Posted April 6, 2015 I think they're cute and I love Clarks. I'd style them with capris or a snazzy skirt because they could look a little frumpy if the rest of your outfit is, but with something breezy, coupled with light and fun accessories? Perfect. right. No denim jumpers or skirts with these shoes. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8circles Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 Yes, I think they are. But if you like them, wear them. I think how you wear them can make a difference. But to my eyes, looking at them "cold", I see old lady. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HS Mom in NC Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 Yes. I'm 42. But you can wear whatever you want. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 right. No denim jumpers or skirts with these shoes. Exactly. I'm 28 and would wear those in a heartbeat, but I wouldn't wear them with a calf or ankle length calico skirt and a solid colored top, either. Always be aware of the 'uniform' ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 6, 2015 Author Share Posted April 6, 2015 Exactly. I'm 28 and would wear those in a heartbeat, but I wouldn't wear them with a calf or ankle length calico skirt and a solid colored top, either. Always be aware of the 'uniform' ;) See I was picturing them with an above the knee skirt, capris, or flare-legged jeans. Kind of a flower child vibe to me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8circles Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 See I was picturing them with an above the knee skirt, capris, or flare-legged jeans. Kind of a flower child vibe to me. Yes, that sounds like it would work. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Wife Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 Not old lady nor young but middle-aged if that makes any sense. Old lady shoes I think of those hideous orthopedic ones. 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 See I was picturing them with an above the knee skirt, capris, or flare-legged jeans. Kind of a flower child vibe to me. Go for it. I actually think the thing that makes 'old lady' the fastest is a lack of accessories. The right scarf or chunky necklace can transform an outfit instantly. To tie those shoes in I'd be doing a leather cuff or more detailed belt, and potentially a handbag that pulls out the colors and material, too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8circles Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Go for it. I actually think the thing that makes 'old lady' the fastest is a lack of accessories. The right scarf or chunky necklace can transform an outfit instantly. To tie those shoes in I'd be doing a leather cuff or more detailed belt, and potentially a handbag that pulls out the colors and material, too. Uhoh, I'm anti-accessory. Am I on the fast-track to old-lady? lol 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SproutMamaK Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Yes, I think they're old lady-ish. (I'm 33... I'm not sure why we're all saying how old we are, lol, but apparently we should be sharing that here. ;) ) 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bethben Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I think my 70 year old mom has a pair just like that. She's a grandma type of person, not a woman who just happens to be a grandma like my very hip mother-in-law. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 7, 2015 Author Share Posted April 7, 2015 Ohh I thought you meant for her at first. Look too "old lady" for a teen to me. I would have to see them with an outfit but on their own I agree with a pp about the heel. No, she wears flip flops all summer. This is for me. I will probably go ahead and get them. My dd is notorious for dissing my clothing/shoe choices and them being surprised at how well it all goes together when I put things together. We were at Goodwill one time and she said, " This blouse is RIDICULOUS!" and I said, "I love it!" and bought it. She was horrified. Then when I got it home and put it together with the whole outfit she was shocked that it looked great. In fact, she borrowed it from me 2 weeks ago for a 4H activity. It was solid blue button up with sort of a ruffly thing on the front that she thought looked weird on the hanger. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Uhoh, I'm anti-accessory. Am I on the fast-track to old-lady? lol I am right there with you Lol Me, too. My wedding rings and a Pandora bracelet are as accessorized as I ever get. Or ever plan to get. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiara.I Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 No, she wears flip flops all summer. This is for me. I will probably go ahead and get them. My dd is notorious for dissing my clothing/shoe choices and them being surprised at how well it all goes together when I put things together. We were at Goodwill one time and she said, " This blouse is RIDICULOUS!" and I said, "I love it!" and bought it. She was horrified. Then when I got it home and put it together with the whole outfit she was shocked that it looked great. In fact, she borrowed it from me 2 weeks ago for a 4H activity. It was solid blue button up with sort of a ruffly thing on the front that she thought looked weird on the hanger. :lol: And that's why, while it's okay to take fashion advice from the younger set, don't necessarily just rely on them 100%. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 7, 2015 Author Share Posted April 7, 2015 Apparently, my refusal to wear a strap between my toes puts me on the fast track to old lady shoes. It's hard to find cute shoes that don't have that annoying strap. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaxMom Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Go for it. I actually think the thing that makes 'old lady' the fastest is a lack of accessories. The right scarf or chunky necklace can transform an outfit instantly. To tie those shoes in I'd be doing a leather cuff or more detailed belt, and potentially a handbag that pulls out the colors and material, too.You sound like my 67 yo mother. ;) I don't think they have an old lady vibe about them. But, then, I'm 44 and as far as I can tell, young and hip means inexplicable things like platform wedges and open-toed boots so I may be confused. (Count me in as wouldn't be caught dead accessorized) 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 7, 2015 Author Share Posted April 7, 2015 I think I will freak my daughter out and tell her I am going to order these. http://www.6pm.com/rebecca-minkoff-summer-black :) 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8circles Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I think I will freak my daughter out and tell her I am going to order these. http://www.6pm.com/rebecca-minkoff-summer-black :) Well.... nothing between the toes, right? lol 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 7, 2015 Author Share Posted April 7, 2015 Well.... nothing between the toes, right? lol Definitely not Old Lady Orthopedic... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 They're not Sas. You're fine! Wear in good health. :) 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 7, 2015 Author Share Posted April 7, 2015 I think what I can do that she can't is that I see a piece of clothing or shoes and I can picture the whole outfit. I think it's partially because I sew. I can look at a piece of fabric and envision the possibilities. My dd tends to see the item right in front of her and that's it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 7, 2015 Author Share Posted April 7, 2015 They're not Sas. You're fine! Wear in good health. :) Had to Google that. Lord help me the day I have to buy Sas. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolatechip Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I don't think they're necessarily old lady shoes, and I'm younger than you are. I like closed-toe sandals, too. I'm so clumsy! :svengo: I found a photo of what I usually wear: http://www.sierratradingpost.com/keen-paradise-sandals-leather-for-women~p~4433d/ (mine are brown, though) 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 They're not Sas. You're fine! Wear in good health. :)This just brought me to tears. My sweet grandmother, who has since gone to be with the Lord, was born with severe club foot (in Appalachia. During the Depression.), and had about twelve pairs of Sas that she wore throughout her last decades. She was so grateful for them because they were the only shoes she could tolerate with her calcified, fused ankles and toes. My aunt and her daughter also inherited the trait but not as severely, however I know they are so grateful for such shoes existing and the custom fit they can achieve. So yes, super awesome to not need Sas shoes. I'm immensely grateful for both modern surgery and comfortable options that weren't around in previous generations. Nothing offensive about this post - but I miss her AND her old lady shoes :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 7, 2015 Author Share Posted April 7, 2015 This just brought me to tears. My sweet grandmother, who has since gone to be with the Lord, was born with severe club foot (in Appalachia. During the Depression.), and had about twelve pairs of Sas that she wore throughout her last decades. She was so grateful for them because they we're the only shoes she could tolerate with her calcified, fused ankles and toes. My aunt and her daughter also inherited the trait but not as severely, however I know they are so grateful for such shoes existing and the custom fit they can achieve. So yes, super awesome to not need Sas shoes. I'm immensely grateful for both modern surgery and comfortable options that weren't arohnd in previous generations. Nothing offensive about this post - but I miss her AND her old lady shoes :( awwww.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tess in the Burbs Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I am 42. I have an open toe sandal similar to this. Comfy. Don't care if people think it is old lady. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimmermom3 Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Remember my hunt for sandals? I really like these http://www.ebay.com/itm/Clarks-WENDY-RIVER-Womens-Tan-69519-Leather-Ankle-Strap-Heel-Sandal-Shoes-/201300551332?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&var=&hash=item2ede72a6a4 But my daughter insists that they look like something an old lady would wear. I think they are cute. (she is 17...so anyone older than 25 is old to her.) What says the hive? (Of course, I plan on wearing what I like, but I don't want to look like a Granny yet at the ripe old age of 35) Well, I am older than any participant so far and I would say that nobody is going to see your shoes and say that you are an old lady anymore than they are going to see them and say that you are hip. They look "sensible" and comfortable and I would agree that half the battle is what you wear them with. Good sandals that offer some support, that stay on your feet, and that are stylish can be very hard to find. But then I am the woman that recently went looking for a pair of Mephistos to take on a trip and was told by the store that usually carries them, that they had stopped buying them because the styling wasn't hip. Thankfully, they make a lot more styles of really good for you shoes than they did even a few years ago. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandylubug Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I went shopping with my mom the other week and she tried to buy some sandals very similar to that. I gently urged her to pick another pair because she wasn't THAT old yet. She is 60. I am 32. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poppy Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I clicked this thread because it made me chuckle that "Are these old lady shoes" got a HOT label. To answer you, yes, total old lady shoes. But that's Olsen Twins chic, right? They wear old lady stuff all the time. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 So, all of you who say that they are old-lady-ish ... what would you wear that is supportive for walking all day? Does it have to be either flimsy or have a high heel to be stylish? ETA: I am a reasonably fit 51 year old (hey, I rock climb with people 25 years younger than me) with the knee and ankle joints of someone much older. If I am not wearing my Brooks Adrenalins with the uber pronation control, I can't walk more than a half-mile without pain. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimmermom3 Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 So, all of you who say that they are old-lady-ish ... what would you wear that is supportive for walking all day? Does it have to be either flimsy or have a high heel to be stylish? I am curious too. I spent hours looking for shoes to wear for a week in San Francisco. Open-toed was not an option for several of the areas and I didn't want to wear tennis shoes. If you have ever had any foot issues, you know how important good shoes are. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisbeth Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Honestly, I see old lady too. I am in my 40s. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plansrme Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 So, all of you who say that they are old-lady-ish ... what would you wear that is supportive for walking all day? Does it have to be either flimsy or have a high heel to be stylish? This has merit. I also could get behind this one. These are cheaper, but I don't have any personal experience with the shoes. The footbed is made of yoga mats, though--how bad could they be?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I am curious too. I spent hours looking for shoes to wear for a week in San Francisco. Open-toed was not an option for several of the areas and I didn't want to wear tennis shoes. If you have ever had any foot issues, you know how important good shoes are. I go by the cut. The vamp height matters - low vamp shoes look younger than high vamp. The heel material matters - cork looks younger and fresher than stacked wood in many instances. The symmetry matters - asymmetrical shoe cuts, with interest in the ankle or vamp, are more youthful. Color matters - brighter and more bold looks younger. I think almost any show can be styled to look good, but some are more inherently on trend or stylish. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I vote old lady too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 It's the strap style that makes them look "old lady" to me......... but I normally do wear Clark's (at least 3/4 of my shoes are Clark's). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 This has merit. I also could get behind this one. These are cheaper, but I don't have any personal experience with the shoes. The footbed is made of yoga mats, though--how bad could they be?? I don't think the first two are very flattering. I think they would make my feet look like boats. The last one is not only not supportive (looks pretty flimsy), but it breaks the "no strap between the toes" rule. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 This just brought me to tears. My sweet grandmother, who has since gone to be with the Lord, was born with severe club foot (in Appalachia. During the Depression.), and had about twelve pairs of Sas that she wore throughout her last decades. She was so grateful for them because they were the only shoes she could tolerate with her calcified, fused ankles and toes. My aunt and her daughter also inherited the trait but not as severely, however I know they are so grateful for such shoes existing and the custom fit they can achieve. So yes, super awesome to not need Sas shoes. I'm immensely grateful for both modern surgery and comfortable options that weren't around in previous generations. Nothing offensive about this post - but I miss her AND her old lady shoes :( My granny wore Sas too. I miss her every day! But I donated her shoes even though we were the same size. ;) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I think they give off an old lady vibe. I'm 47. They remind me of the 80s a bit, the styling of the leather and the color. So maybe they were going with vintage - which is not old lady. :p ;) 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Perhaps it's the color? Picture the same shoe in a brighter color. Purple anyone? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimmermom3 Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I don't think the first two are very flattering. I think they would make my feet look like boats. The last one is not only not supportive (looks pretty flimsy), but it breaks the "no strap between the toes" rule. Ellen, what about something like these? Or is a heel problematic? Aetrex has made orthotics for years and is now doing shoes. I have been fairly pleased with the quality and the comfort. Also, I saw your note on your Brooks shoes. Be sure you replace them before they get too broken down. I have had super-built up shoes for years due to pronation and plantar faciatis. I recently noticed one foot was rolling out when I was hiking on uneven ground. Apparently, with wear the shoe's cushioning breaks down, but the part in your arch stays rigid. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I have a tan pair and a black pair that looks like that by Dansko. They are very comfy and when I wear them, I get a lot of compliments on them. I am your age so if that makes me an old lady........... ETA- I am not walking in these daily. These are for when I have to dress up. I prefer my sandals (keens or fitflops) or sneakers for daily wear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Peregrine Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I can just picture someone wearing them with 'tan' pantyhose. Old lady. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 Me, too. My wedding rings and a Pandora bracelet are as accessorized as I ever get. Or ever plan to get. Add me to the club. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NicksMama-Zack's Mama Too Posted April 7, 2015 Share Posted April 7, 2015 I can just picture someone wearing them with 'tan' pantyhose. Old lady. Well, my grandma had a very similar pair and she wore them with a thin bobby sock.... She was in her 80's the last time I saw her wear them. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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