JadeOrchidSong Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 I am in my mid 40s and I have been feeling depressed lately. In fact, every March I feel down. I need prayers. Please pray for me. I will read my Bible and pray for God to help me. Thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 :grouphug: and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TXMomof4 Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 I don't know where you are, but I pray that spring gets in your spirit soon. I am amazed at the visceral response I have to good weather, beautiful, breathtaking flowers, and green trees. February beats me down, but once the green comes out I literally can feel my spirit lifting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadeOrchidSong Posted March 21, 2012 Author Share Posted March 21, 2012 I don't know where you are, but I pray that spring gets in your spirit soon. I am amazed at the visceral response I have to good weather, beautiful, breathtaking flowers, and green trees. February beats me down, but once the green comes out I literally can feel my spirit lifting. Thank you! I will try to work in the yard and garden and focus on the beauty of nature. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthwestMom Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 :grouphug: Don't be afraid to look for outside help when you need it. Sometimes nature isn't enough. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kebo Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 (edited) March (and February) is often a weird time at our house, for everyone. I imagine there are fluctuating hormone levels that do a number on our moods. I also feel better if I spend lots of time outside, and it helps me if I focus on making something better (e.g. clean out closets, learn to cook a few new meals, plant a few flowers, walk every day, etc.) Of course, that's hard to do once you start to feel down :grouphug: Edited March 22, 2012 by Kebo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 In fact, every March I feel down. This could be a clue to something causing the depression. If it starts in March, I would strongly suspect allergies. If you have them and they are untreated, they can make you miserable in a host of ways that I would never have suspected. :grouphug: I hope you feel better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 This could be a clue to something causing the depression. If it starts in March, I would strongly suspect allergies. If you have them and they are untreated, they can make you miserable in a host of ways that I would never have suspected. :grouphug: I hope you feel better. I agree. It could also be a vitamin D deficiency from being stuck inside all winter. It could be any number of things. God can provide great comfort and solace. However, God has also provided us with lots of modern medicine to help us when we might need it. I would urge you to seek more tangible help, in addition to seeking spiritual solace. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sahamamama Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 :grouphug: and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyWImom Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 I will pray; I have been there myself. One thing that helped me, was the book "One Thousand Gifts" http://www.amazon.com/One-Thousand-Gifts-Fully-Right/dp/0310321913 I started my blessing journal, and even on really tough days, I was able to think of even the simplest blessings. Prayers will help, too.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Mama Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 Praying. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Praying for you! I'm so sorry you're going through such a rough time. If there's anything specific you need to vent about, please don't hesitate to do it here. And of course, if there's any way we can help you through this, just ask. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HejKatt Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 :grouphug: Praying, and agree with PP about feeling free to sound out what is on your mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaT Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StaceyinLA Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 Good ole sunshine CAN help after a long winter! I have gone through these types of things though, and will pray for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadeOrchidSong Posted March 21, 2012 Author Share Posted March 21, 2012 Thank you so much for your support and warm words. My FIL just drove us to our dental appointment after teaching chemistry to the boys. I made an appointment to see a doctor. I had my first depression, a very bad one, when I was 24, that led me to study the Bible and become a follower of Christ. Over the years I have been struggling with D and 4 years ago I had a bad one and was on modes for a few months. I think I need to take meds more long term. Thank you and I will try to update. Keep praying please. Itis comforting to know people are praying and God is working. I started to read Nancy Lee Demoss's 30 day gratitude Challenge yesterday and am trying to look up to Jesus for hope and strength. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cjgrubbs Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 Said a prayer for you now! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mytwomonkeys Posted March 21, 2012 Share Posted March 21, 2012 i will stop and pray for you right now:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadeOrchidSong Posted March 22, 2012 Author Share Posted March 22, 2012 I told dh about my depression. He is very supportive and loving. I am very thankful that the Lord put me in such a wonderful family. I immigrated to the u. S. to marry dh, who taught English inmy home country for two years and was my co-worker. I came a month after I lost my sister, who was like a mother to me since my mom died when I was 16. My parents in law are more dear to me than my own parents. They are very loving and supportive. I still feel no interest in doing anything and am very anxious. If feel as if l was wrapped in a dark cloud. My mom had depression for a year when she lost her first dh in prison and she had to care for four young kids on her own. Since I had several bouts of it, I am now willing to take antidepressant long term. I just need to find the right kind for me. Thank you for listening. If you have any antidepressant recommendation, please let me know. Ian also going to meet a woman from my church who is a biblical counsellor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MtnTeaching Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 I am also praying for you. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*~Tina~* Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug: Prayers that you find joy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen in PA Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkle Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug: Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug:Praying:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JumpyTheFrog Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 I second the recommendation to look into a vitamin D deficiency and allergies. It seems odd that your depression would regularly happen in March. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peaceful Isle Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 Depression is such a horrible place to be. :( Praying you find something to help you very soon. Remember, Christians get depressed too, and it has nothing to do with your walk with God or how valuable you are as a person. We get ill in other parts of our body, and our brain is just a part that sometimes gets ill. I will pray for you right now as you are going through this hard time. Hopefully the DR will have some answers to your problems. When you talk to him about meds, just make sure the med has been around for a while, true and tested. That way you do not have to worry about "Unknown" side effects that happen down the road. Just remember, you are very valuable to your family. :grouphug: and prayers to you!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ereks mom Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 I am amazed at the visceral response I have to good weather, beautiful, breathtaking flowers, and green trees. February beats me down, but once the green comes out I literally can feel my spirit lifting. :iagree: I don't know where you are, but I pray that spring gets in your spirit soon. :grouphug: Me too! :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug:prayers:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 I would recommend asking your doctor to test your vitamin D levels. :grouphug: Praying here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeidiKC Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :iagree: and am praying! :grouphug: Don't be afraid to look for outside help when you need it. Sometimes nature isn't enough. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PollyOR Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug: I'm in a similar place every Feb./Mar. We live in the Pacific Northwest and it is very gloomy here during the winter. I appreciate the advice that everyone here is giving as it is helping me too. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Inna* Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadeOrchidSong Posted March 22, 2012 Author Share Posted March 22, 2012 (edited) Depression is such a horrible place to be. :( Praying you find something to help you very soon. Remember, Christians get depressed too, and it has nothing to do with your walk with God or how valuable you are as a person. We get ill in other parts of our body, and our brain is just a part that sometimes gets ill. I will pray for you right now as you are going through this hard time. Hopefully the DR will have some answers to your problems. When you talk to him about meds, just make sure the med has been around for a while, true and tested. That way you do not have to worry about "Unknown" side effects that happen down the road. Just remember, you are very valuable to your family. :grouphug: and prayers to you!! I am greatly encouraged by what you and the other kind ladies said. All your prayers are working! God is faithful. Today I am feeling quite light and capable and normal and better than the last two weeks! I will see a doctor tomorrow about medication. I do encounter Christians who never have depression who think it is all spiritual and think it is caused by unbelief. Some also don't believe in medication for depression. Some who do have depression choose to tough it out, believing if God allows it to happen, they should just bear it willingly. So what you said is really reassuring. I no longer feel pressured to do what others do about certain things because what works for one person doesn't work for another. Thank you all! Edited March 22, 2012 by aomom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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