Negin Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 that's all. I know she's probably busy :tongue_smilie:, but I do so miss her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginevra Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 She's a good one. I hope everything is working out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8circles Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Gosh, me too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iona Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 me too ((Peela)) hope you are well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pretty in Pink Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Hope all is well, Peela. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Hope all is well, Peela. :grouphug: :iagree::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Yes, I remember missing her the last time she took a board break, which was about when we got this new board. Also, where is Ester Maria? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 I don't know about Ester Maria, but Peela is having a lot of significant life changes right now, I think. At least that's what I remember her sharing right before we stopped seeing her so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 She's such a kind woman. I miss her voice here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FO4UR Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 I hope she'll be back soon. She always has a gentle way of sharing her wisdom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Miss her too but understand, with all she's going through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Laura Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 I hope she'll be back soon. She always has a gentle way of sharing her wisdom. I'll ditto that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Audrey Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 She's such a kind and rational voice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 :iagree: Take care Peela. I always enjoy your posts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacia Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 I'm another one missing Peela's kind wisdom. Peela, :grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 She's doing well. I'll post this thread on her FB wall, shall I? ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deb in NZ Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Good idea, Rosie. I miss seeing her as well. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peela Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 I just caught your post on my FB wall , Rosie :) Gosh you guys, you are all so lovely! Wow. I have been flat out busy. I have moved home to a lovely, open place where I have my own living area in a loft and the teens have the area downstairs- much closer together than we are used to, but still a distinct separate space for me. I have my chickens here, the cat, and we are going to get a puppy after Christmas. Both kids have had a party this week. I don't like parties but I promised them a housewarming at the new house- each (what was I thinking?) .The neighbours complained at both. Not a good start to a new neighbourhood but hopefully they will forgive me- it really wasn't that bad. Ex-dh has been incredibly supportive and reasonable throughout the whole separation process. When he could have been difficult and obstructive, he chose not to be. We are communicating well, especially about the kids, and also around money. I feel lucky in that regard- we are still friends although it has been very hard for him. My son is handling the separation well. Dd is quite upset and resentful towards me, which is a new experience for me. I was always the good parent, now I am the bad one for upsetting her life and moving too far away from her dad's house ( 7 kms. 4 miles?). Of course it is touching her deeply...it is difficult for me to deal with her underlying pain while also dealing with the negative behaviours it is producing in a realistic way. In the big scheme of things...I guess it is not too bad and the best that can be expected. I am happy in my new space and my new life. I am relieved to be out of the compromised situation I was in. Dh understands it was hard for me. So.....thanks for thinking of me...I have only had the internet on for a week and have been avoiding coming here so I could finish making my home beautiful and work and catch up on things. But...looks like I am back :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyofsixreboot Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 (edited) Hugs and much peace. Edited October 22, 2011 by joyofsix Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfgivas Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Very Big Smile..... i've missed you and am glad you are back! it sounds like its going better than it might have, which is about all any of us can ask..... and you sound happy, which is good :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Imprimis Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 So glad to see you back here! I, too, have always enjoyed your well thought out posts. Wishing you lots of happiness and peace in this new chapter of your life :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Peregrine Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Rain Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 :001_smile: I'm glad you are back, and that you have a space of your own to make lovely. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginevra Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 So nice to see your pretty face. :grouphug: I hope you enjoy your new place and I'm glad to hear there's not too much turmoil with ex-h. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alessandra Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 Wishing you all the best in your new life... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sahamamama Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 Yes, I remember missing her the last time she took a board break, which was about when we got this new board. Also, where is Ester Maria? Yes, I miss Ester Maria, too. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sahamamama Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 :grouphug: Peela, and may the sun shine on the rest of your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 :grouphug: Peela, and may the sun shine on the rest of your life. :iagree: you sound like you have peace and joy. I'm so glad!!! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Inna* Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 Laura Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Negin Posted October 23, 2011 Author Share Posted October 23, 2011 She's such a kind woman. I miss her voice here. I hope she'll be back soon. She always has a gentle way of sharing her wisdom. She's such a kind and rational voice. :iagree: Peela is an absolute angel. I'll post this thread on her FB wall, shall I? Rosie, thank you for doing so. :grouphug: I wish I was friends with both of you on FB ... not pressuring you, however. So nice to see your pretty face. :grouphug: I hope you enjoy your new place and I'm glad to hear there's not too much turmoil with ex-h. :iagree: Very relieved to hear that things are being handled maturely and wisely. Thinking of your dd and hoping that she stays strong, feels less resentful, and is happy once more. :grouphug: Change is not always easy. Thinking of you both. So glad that your ds is handling it well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauraGB Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 I just caught your post on my FB wall , Rosie :) Gosh you guys, you are all so lovely! Wow. I have been flat out busy. I have moved home to a lovely, open place where I have my own living area in a loft and the teens have the area downstairs- much closer together than we are used to, but still a distinct separate space for me. I have my chickens here, the cat, and we are going to get a puppy after Christmas. Both kids have had a party this week. I don't like parties but I promised them a housewarming at the new house- each (what was I thinking?) .The neighbours complained at both. Not a good start to a new neighbourhood but hopefully they will forgive me- it really wasn't that bad. Ex-dh has been incredibly supportive and reasonable throughout the whole separation process. When he could have been difficult and obstructive, he chose not to be. We are communicating well, especially about the kids, and also around money. I feel lucky in that regard- we are still friends although it has been very hard for him. My son is handling the separation well. Dd is quite upset and resentful towards me, which is a new experience for me. I was always the good parent, now I am the bad one for upsetting her life and moving too far away from her dad's house ( 7 kms. 4 miles?). Of course it is touching her deeply...it is difficult for me to deal with her underlying pain while also dealing with the negative behaviours it is producing in a realistic way. In the big scheme of things...I guess it is not too bad and the best that can be expected. I am happy in my new space and my new life. I am relieved to be out of the compromised situation I was in. Dh understands it was hard for me. So.....thanks for thinking of me...I have only had the internet on for a week and have been avoiding coming here so I could finish making my home beautiful and work and catch up on things. But...looks like I am back :) :grouphug: I saw you over on the Dog on the Couch thread and thought I'd come over here to see if you updated. Glad you are back :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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