swimmermom3 Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 My 21 yo daughter has a dear group of friends that has suffered devastating losses in the last two years. There was a horrific car accident, a tragic death, and a resulting suicide. These are wonderful young people in their twenties with so much promise, but the circumstances have really taken their toll on the surviving friends. Last night, my dd received word that a very remarkable young man has been hospitalized under serious condition and we are awaiting word on his prognosis. Please keep him and his family and friends in your hearts. I am once again reminded of how vulnerable our young people can be. For those of you whose own children struggle with depression and other mental-health challenges, may the holiday season bring you comfort and healing. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Teachin'Mine Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 I'm praying. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdalley Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 :grouphug: and prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nan in Mass Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 ((( Lisa ))) And prayers. Prayers for all our young people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bugs Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 :grouphug: and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trulycrabby Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 Sending prayers to the young man, your daughter, and her friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheApprentice Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 sending prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathy in Richmond Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: & sending prayers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dicentra Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 Hugs and positive thoughts. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nan in Mass Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 Lisa - Just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you tonight and hoping things are ok. Hugs, Nan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TGHEALTHYMOM Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 I am praying for this group of young people too..... My own dd13 is currently on an anti depressant. DD16 is having what I think are mini seizures too, after a terrible time and hospital stay with no diagnosis. There have been 3 suicides among teens locally and 1 pre teen died of Cancer, as well as a few fatal car wrecks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 :grouphug: and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysteryJen Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Prayers here :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matryoshka Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Lisa, any update on the young man's situation? I think about him and your daughter and their friends and families often and am keeping all in my prayers. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimmermom3 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Share Posted December 3, 2013 Thank you everyone for your kind words, hugs, prayers and good wishes. My dd's friend is stabilized, but we are unsure of the level of damage at this point other than some liver damage. He graduated from high school a year early on scholarship to an Ivy. He has a fine mind and a great heart and was the backbone of the group through so much of the worst of the tragedies. The need for healing is huge on many levels. Please continue to hold him, his family and friends in your hearts For those of you with young people home on break from college during the holidays, remind them that if they party, a designated driver for the group is not enough. Stay off the roads. If you must party, stay put. This devastating chain of events started when an older brother did the right thing and picked up a younger brother from a party. They were t-boned at 80 mph by a car full of drunk teens. This was two years ago and it is an event that continues to cause destruction and pain that no one could have foreseen. Of course you all know I can't write on the topic of depression without a reminder that if you know a family that is struggling with this issue, please reach out. It can be difficult to maintain privacy, but still let people know that you are there for them; however, it means a great deal to those involved. To all of you on this board that have shown such kindness and understanding to my family through the years, thank you and :grouphug: . Please don't quote this; I will be removing parts that could identify those involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sebastian (a lady) Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 http://www.slate.com/articles/life/family/2013/11/families_dealing_with_mental_illness_need_support_too.html Your comment about coming alongside families dealing with depression reminded me of this article. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimmermom3 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Share Posted December 3, 2013 http://www.slate.com/articles/life/family/2013/11/families_dealing_with_mental_illness_need_support_too.html Your comment about coming alongside families dealing with depression reminded me of this article. Sebastian, thank you for sharing this. It is much more eloquent than anything I could write. Mental health issues are the elephant in the room and until we, as a nation, change the way we perceive and treat mental health issues, it will stay that unapproachable, taboo topic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kfamily Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 My thoughts are with you, your family and friends of the family.... :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimmermom3 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Share Posted December 3, 2013 I am praying for this group of young people too..... My own dd13 is currently on an anti depressant. DD16 is having what I think are mini seizures too, after a terrible time and hospital stay with no diagnosis. There have been 3 suicides among teens locally and 1 pre teen died of Cancer, as well as a few fatal car wrecks. :grouphug: I am so sorry. May there answers soon for your older dd and may your younger be on the path to recovery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 I just saw this, sending thoughts and hugs your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Many hugs to you and your lovely daughter, Lisa :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted December 5, 2013 Share Posted December 5, 2013 Sending positive thoughts to all concerned. Regards, Kareni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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