Tap Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 DD5 goes through this every winter. This is the worst I have seen. She is to the point, that cries if she has to eat anything. I use Burts Bees lip balm on her lips and skin about 4 times a day. I alternate that with coconut oil (she will let me use this more than the BB but I don't think it works as well). I will even sneak in her room at night and put it on her. She says it stings, so she is reluctant to let me use it more than I already force her to let me use it on her. She isn't licking the balm off, she really doesn't like it. About 2 minutes after I put it on her, I let her wipe off any excess with a towel, so she doesn't lick at the excess. She drinks/pees quite a bit, so I don't think she is dehydrated. She hasn't been in the sun/wind so it isn't chaffed from either of those. It doesn't look like an allergy or fungus infection. It always starts with lip licking (starts with healthy skin-red irritated lips), not the other way around. Our house has been a bit dry the past few days, so I think I will run the humidifier to see if that helps. Any other suggestions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StephanieZ Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 (edited) It's a habit. My youngest did that on and off for a year or so around that age. 1) Vaseline, old fashioned, is the only thing that really works. Swab it on all over the affected area many times a day, and apply generously at bed time. It really will help it heal 10x better than anything else. 2) It is a behavioral habit. Remind her not to lick. Reward her for not licking, and for applying the vaseline frequently. 3) The irritated skin wants to be licked -- just like the temptation to lick chapped lips. You need it to heal in order to reduce that temptation! Worked for us. Once the habit is broken, the skin can heal, and the habit can end. ETA: DO NOT use anything that smells or tastes good. The last thing you want to do is encourage licking, and the cherry smelling or otherwise flavored balms do exactly that. BTDT. Trust me, use the plain vaseline. Edited December 7, 2011 by StephanieZ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarlaS Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 Maybe try cocoa butter? It has the advantage of tasting a bit like chocolate. :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mynyel Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 My son has done this since he was 3 (he is 9 now). My sister has pictures of him at her wedding with that red ring around his mouth! He uses neosporin. I give him a tube and he keeps it on his headboard and uses it before he goes to bed. He then uses it as needed during the day. I use burts bees or chapstick but ds9 doesn't like the minty "sting" of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinag Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 My son would do this when he was younger. We would put Desitin on his lips at bedtime and it helped tremendously! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest submarines Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 DD had this issue when she was 4-5 years old. I used lansinoh, the cream designed for breasfeeding mothers to apply on their chapped nipples. It is safe to swallow and was very effective. A tube will last you forever. I ended up rationing small portions to many a friend, who had chapped skin due to colds, like under their noses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dcjlkplus3 Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 My oldest dd did this sometimes when she was younger. Lanolin worked great and I didn't worry about her ingesting it (since it was from licking or as a baby rubbing her sucking thumb around her face). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 I put Eucerin cream on their lips when they were asleep. Burt's Bees stings my lips too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 We put Renew (Melaleuca's lotion) on it twice a day for two days clears it right now. When Victoria came, she was addicted to lip balm. I completely disagree with that stuff and don't see that it works anyway. The reason she has an issue is licking. I simply tell her not to. She's only had an issue twice since we cleared up the initial problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest submarines Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 My son has done this since he was 3 (he is 9 now). My sister has pictures of him at her wedding with that red ring around his mouth! He uses neosporin. I give him a tube and he keeps it on his headboard and uses it before he goes to bed. He then uses it as needed during the day. I use burts bees or chapstick but ds9 doesn't like the minty "sting" of it. Neosporin is not safe to ingest! And if he licks his lips, he IS ingesting it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helena Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 We've had the same problem. E-Stick works great: http://www.amazon.com/Reviva-Vitamin-Stick-3-5-sticks/dp/B00014D8U4/ref=sr_1_9?ie=UTF8&qid=1323228265&sr=8-9, I buy them at the health food store. We've also used Vaseline in a pinch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sophia Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 My 5 y.o. does this, too. Vaseline before bedtime works great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denise in IN Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 Ds10 does the same thing. We have had success with A&D, and he doesn't seem to mind it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pippen Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 A & D ointment...I'm serious. Stay away from Carmex-type products: http://www.examiner.com/beauty-in-jackson/chapped-lips-could-your-lip-balm-be-making-them-worse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
regentrude Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 DS had trouble with this, for several years. During the day: chapstick, or the little vaseline tubes, and reminding not to lick. Over night, and sometimes during the day if it was really bad: white diaper rash cream. Worked very well to restore inflamed skin. (We prefer the Weleda Calendula cream, but the main ingredient is zinc oxide which is the ingredient in any generic diaper rash cream) He still needs to have a chapstick all the time, but is not licking so much anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pretty in Pink Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 I can't use Burt's Bees. It chaps my lips and stings a lot. I prefer Chapstick but will, in a pinch, use some Vaseline, A&D, or lanolin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyLittleBears Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 (edited) My ds does the same thing. He his a "pink mustache" in the winter. I agree with PP. Lanolin, specifically the one you use on yourself when you are nursing a baby.:001_smile: Also, pure coconut oil. Edited December 7, 2011 by MyLittleBears Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myeightkiddies Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 We just used a lot of Chapstick. I imagine that using Lansinoh at night would work well too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyCamper Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 I get so much resistance during the day. Great tip to apply at night to give the lips a chance to heal. Just applied. Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LBS Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 Waxy chapstick stays put the longest....vaseline, A&D are both excellent for not tasting very good. I'd sneak into the one son's room a couple times at night, and put A&D on his under-the-nose area, plus around lips. He'd twitch around a lot, funny. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serenade Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 Neosporin is not safe to ingest! And if he licks his lips, he IS ingesting it. There is a Neosporin product just for lips, and it is marketed as such. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 Triple paste diaper cream! It works beyond amazing. Feel free to pm me and I'll give you a link to some pictures of my son. He looked terrible last year. One night of diaper cream and it's gone! We use 3-4 times per week over the winter as soon as his mouth starts to look bad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daisy Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 (edited) My daughter gets eczema on her lips and face and it is especially bad during the winter months. It looks chapped and her lips will peel badly. The dermatologist suggested Eucerin for her lips and it has helped tremendously. Personally I'd steer away from anything that tasted GOOD or it may encourage more licking. And oddly enough most made-for-lips products like Chapstick actually make her lips worse. I don't know if it is the perfumes or what. Edited December 7, 2011 by Daisy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalicoKat Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 All my kids did this around that age. The two that didn't stop were the two that eventually had braces. The "kool aid stain" went away after the braces worked to pull their front teeth down (bucked). When I was told their teeth were bucked I didn't see it. Only with I saw the casts of their teeth was it visible. I guess I was so used to looking at them. If the habit continues beyond one season it might be something to discuss with the dentist. Until then, get a chap stick they'll tolerate and apply vigorously. At night is key because when they fall asleep they're less likely to lick it off and it will heal some overnight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shalom22 Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 An old time remedy that my mil told me about works wonders. All you do is apply a small amount of chicken doo doo on the lips. Guaranteed to stop them from licking their lips. :D Just kidding, but couldn't resist. Hehehehe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msk Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 If you're not going anywhere, try putting band-aids over her lips-- not on the lip skin itself, but right on the edge of the red area. This works well overnight too. I cut them in half lengthwise to get two very skinny band-aids and then put them on so that the gauze part hangs over onto the lip skin. I know that sounds bizarre, but it stops my 5yo as soon as this habit begins to show up. When she starts to unconsciously lick, her tongue touches the band-aid and she remembers to stop. Vaseline has helped her skin heal up, too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BatmansWife Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 (edited) My 8 year old is having this problem, by the corners of her mouth. We've been putting vaseline on at night....but, it's been a slow healing process. I never thought of using diaper rash cream. I do still have a little A&E and Desitin. I'll try one (and then the other if it's not working). Thanks for posting this to get these good ideas. Triple paste diaper cream! It works beyond amazing. Feel free to pm me and I'll give you a link to some pictures of my son. He looked terrible last year. One night of diaper cream and it's gone! We use 3-4 times per week over the winter as soon as his mouth starts to look bad. Is the product actually called Triple Paste Diaper Cream? Edited December 7, 2011 by ~AprilMay~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happypamama Posted December 8, 2011 Share Posted December 8, 2011 We use coconut oil for moisturizing too, and I also like the Burt's Bees balm, but it does sting a bit on chapped skin. When I need a thick barrier of protection (not just moisturizer), Lansinoh is my first choice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlbuchina Posted December 8, 2011 Share Posted December 8, 2011 It's a habit. My youngest did that on and off for a year or so around that age. 1) Vaseline, old fashioned, is the only thing that really works. Swab it on all over the affected area many times a day, and apply generously at bed time. It really will help it heal 10x better than anything else. 2) It is a behavioral habit. Remind her not to lick. Reward her for not licking, and for applying the vaseline frequently. 3) The irritated skin wants to be licked -- just like the temptation to lick chapped lips. You need it to heal in order to reduce that temptation! Worked for us. Once the habit is broken, the skin can heal, and the habit can end. ETA: DO NOT use anything that smells or tastes good. The last thing you want to do is encourage licking, and the cherry smelling or otherwise flavored balms do exactly that. BTDT. Trust me, use the plain vaseline. :iagree::iagree::iagree: Vaseline is the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melodiya99 Posted December 8, 2011 Share Posted December 8, 2011 We've been using aquaphor. But it's comforting to hear that I don't have the only 5yo with this issue! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joules Posted December 8, 2011 Share Posted December 8, 2011 I also like the Burt's Bees balm, but it does sting a bit on chapped skin. When I need a thick barrier of protection (not just moisturizer), Lansinoh is my first choice. Most of the Burt's Bees products have peppermint oil in them. It is an irritant and can make the problem worse for sensitive people. I definitely second the Lansinoh. And if she is old enough for logic...remind her that the job of our saliva is to begin food digestion. When she is licking constantly, she is beginning that digestion process on her poor lips. No wonder they hurt! Logical explanations always work here, YMMV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jane Elliot Posted December 8, 2011 Share Posted December 8, 2011 My kids get this in the wintertime. I've used Weleda Calendula Baby Cream for many years. It works great and does not sting. Recently we've had success with coconut oil, too. It doesn't sting either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laundrycrisis Posted December 8, 2011 Share Posted December 8, 2011 (edited) I know some people are very anti petroleum jelly, but I'm not. I have the new Vaseline with cocoa butter and it's wonderful. I keep a tub of it out and put it on DS2's lips and all around them pretty much every hour. I also remind him not to lick or wipe them, but mostly I just keep them coated with Vaseline. This stuff is also great for lips: NUK Gentle Moisturizing Balm http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2736631&prodFindSrc=search Edited December 8, 2011 by laundrycrisis Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted December 8, 2011 Author Share Posted December 8, 2011 Thanks everyone, you have helped a lot! She is looking a lot better. I forgot about Lasignoh, I still had some so I used that and the coconut oil. She still fights me, but it seems to be healing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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