Pink Fairy Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 Had my first OBGYN appointment today. I'm officially 7 weeks and 1 day along. Because of past complications he did a transvaginal ultrasound, and all that could be seen was a small (6mm) gestational sac with nothing visible inside. He wants to get some HCG levels, and do a second ultrasound in 10 days. But since he also told me that with such a small sac I wouldn't need a d&c, he obviously thinks I'm going to miscarry. :crying: I've had losses before, and you'd think that would make it easier to bear. The truth is my heart is breaking. I haven't given up on this baby, but I'm trying to prepare myself for the worst. Does anyone have words of wisdom, stories, or comfort to share? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tohru Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngelBee Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug: Praying for you. I think it would be best to wait and see if your body starts to miscarry naturally. I do know people (myself) who were told no baby developed and he is today a 11yr old boy. They wanted me to have a D and C that day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 Aw. . . . :grouphug: No advice, just some virtual hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Random Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I suppose you will know more it 10 days. What a long wait that will be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaillardia Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virg Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fhjmom Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug: :grouphug: and more :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missesd Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 I believe I was told the same about Olivia at 8 weeks gestation... and here she is at a happy, healthy 6 yrs old!! So hang in there.... prayer and positive thoughts!! And for the record Dr's have been wrong before. I m/c'd my 3rd child and didn't wait the prescribed year to conceive. My Dr was such an @$$, when he couldn't find anything, said it was my fault and that it would happen again. She is now 13 :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Vixen Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 I hope in 10 days you will see a beautiful baby with a strong heartbeat!!! :grouphug: Marisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ibbygirl Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 I hope in 10 days you will see a beautiful baby with a strong heartbeat!!! :grouphug: Marisa Me too! Praying for you honey. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 I'm so sorry. I hope that you DO get good news after all, you never know! But if you don't, I hope that you conceive again quickly and have a wonderful pregnancy resulting in a baby that you are meant to have. I had an empty sac, or "blighted ovum," just before getting pregnant with my now 10 y/o. Nothing ever developed in the sac and I did have to have a D&C. It is very disappointing and sad of course, although for me it was not as 'sad' as if a baby HAD developed and then miscarried. And as soon as I was given the go ahead to try again, I did, and was able to conceive again very quickly, and went on to have a wonderful pregnancy and a beautiful, healthy baby who is now 10 years old and who I couldn't imagine life without. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2cents Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlsdMama Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 (edited) Had my first OBGYN appointment today. I'm officially 7 weeks and 1 day along. Because of past complications he did a transvaginal ultrasound, and all that could be seen was a small (6mm) gestational sac with nothing visible inside. I have heard of women who have absorbed and then gotten pregnant the next month so they were four-six weeks behind what they thought was their due date. If this was the case you'd only see a sac. I'm relieved he isn't pressuring you into anything and that he wants to wait a little while and do another ultrasound. Thank God for conscientious doctors. I've had two miscarriages and I don't know why I was surprised by the deep sadness and loss I felt either??? I should have expected to be heartbroken but I was still surprised at how much you mourn the loss of a tiny person you've never met or known. ((((HUGS)))) Edited February 8, 2011 by BlsdMama Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whereneverever Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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amy g. Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 I had an empty sac at 11 weeks, but was able to miscarry at home. The next month I had another early miscarriage, and 2 weeks after that I conceived my 4 year old. She is the love of my life, and I would not change one hair on her sassy little head. I'm sorry you are going through this. It is just heartbreaking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorMom Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 My dear friend in CA was told this a month ago, by two doctors - one being at the ultrasound at 8 weeks. Both docs offerred her a D&C. She saw a different OB last week, who said he thought the pregnancy looked to be progressing normally. She goes back in today for confirmation - but from what we have both read - it is really too early to tell until 10 weeks - many people have said that they were told this and had a normal delivery. I would wait it out a bit, and get rechecked. I don't want to get your hopes up - but I do think docs jump on the diagnosis a bit fast. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3lilreds in NC Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug: Praying here too, Sweetie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendi Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 :grouphug: I've been in your shoes. Twice, actually. The first time, the HCG levels didn't go up, and it was a blighted ovum. I did miscarry. The second time, I went back a week later for another ultrasound, and there was my ds! The doctor was surprised. My due date was eventually moved back a week, as it seemed I conceived later than expected. So I think it can still go either way for you. I'll be praying. Wendi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendi Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I've been thinking about you. Any updates? How are you doing? Wendi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beansprouts Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 Are you sure about when you conceived? I am afraid 6mm is small for 7 weeks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Pink Fairy Posted February 10, 2011 Author Share Posted February 10, 2011 It's looking more and more like I'm having a miscarriage. I started spotting yesterday, and I also found out my hcg levels are on the extremely low end of normal. I go in for another levels check tomorrow, but I'm not optimistic, especially since I am certain of my dates. Just trying to be thankful for another little soul in heaven. Thank you for your prayers and kind words. They mean a lot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jennynd Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I am sorry, at 7 weeks, u should able to see the heart beat. I had exactly same thing at 7 weeks and 3 days. n empty sac:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beansprouts Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melmichigan Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 (edited) <<<hugs>>> Your blood levels, over time, will be the best indication of the health of a pregnancy at this stage. I'm glad your OB is being conservative and giving it time, you are still in that gray area from everything I have experienced. I'm hoping your dates are just off. We were posting at the same time...I am very sorry. Edited February 10, 2011 by melmichigan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myfatherslily Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 :grouphug: I haven't had your situation, but I've miscarried three times and know the ache. It only takes a moment to fall deeply in love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngelBee Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 It's looking more and more like I'm having a miscarriage. I started spotting yesterday, and I also found out my hcg levels are on the extremely low end of normal. I go in for another levels check tomorrow, but I'm not optimistic, especially since I am certain of my dates. Just trying to be thankful for another little soul in heaven. Thank you for your prayers and kind words. They mean a lot! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Random Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 :grouphug: :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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BlessedMom Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 :grouphug: Prayers :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendi Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 I'm so sorry! I'll be praying! Wendi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalphs Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 :grouphug: Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delaney Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 I had the same thing. It isn't any easier knowing there was no baby but 10 months later we had #5 and I can't imagine life without him!:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SevenDaisies Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 :grouphug: We'll pray the news is good. Hang in there. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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