Dobela Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 If you feel so moved, could you pray? My son is 10, his best friend Richard is also 10. I can't imagine my dad dying when I was 10 years old. The heart attack occurred earlier today and now his kidneys are failing and the prognosis is grim. The family just called and asked if Richard could come stay with us. Richard is on his way to our home now. I guess the only good thing is that with the snow we had over the weekend public schools are still closed and maybe Richard won't miss any school in addition to all this. The family is barely making it financially as it is. I am so cncerned for them all for so many reasons right now. :crying::crying::sad::sad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blakereese Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 :grouphug: Oh my goodness, that is terrible! Sending prayers for Richard and his family now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 If you feel so moved, could you pray? My son is 10, his best friend Richard is also 10. I can't imagine my dad dying when I was 10 years old. The heart attack occurred earlier today and now his kidneys are failing and the prognosis is grim. Poor little mite! It must be terrifying. He will always remember your kindness, as the day will loom in his mind til the end of his days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 That poor boy! I'll pray for his dad and for you as you are with him. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iona Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 :grouphug: just love on him as best you can. hard is hard, i can't even imagine. it is nice that he has somewhere to go during this time:grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 If you feel so moved, could you pray? My son is 10, his best friend Richard is also 10. I can't imagine my dad dying when I was 10 years old. The heart attack occurred earlier today and now his kidneys are failing and the prognosis is grim. The family just called and asked if Richard could come stay with us. Richard is on his way to our home now. I guess the only good thing is that with the snow we had over the weekend public schools are still closed and maybe Richard won't miss any school in addition to all this. The family is barely making it financially as it is. I am so cncerned for them all for so many reasons right now. :crying::crying::sad::sad: Yes, you got it...will pray! Keep us updated. Sheryl <>< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Richard is lucky to have a friend in your son and family. I'll be praying. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Yes, just prayed. I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Margo out of lurking Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Praying tonight for Richard's family and yours. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2myboys Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 What a terrible situation. I am so sorry. Praying for the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 How terrible! Of course I'll pray. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyFL Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Praying for the whole family! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dobela Posted January 12, 2011 Author Share Posted January 12, 2011 Thank you so much. Prayers are so needed. We just talked to Richard's mom and it seems to only be a matter of time now until his dad passes. He has developed a staph infection and pneumonia as well. I feel at such a loss. Richard is doing ok, about what we would expect. I know he is scared and hurting but trying really hard to be brave and strong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ibbygirl Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Oh this is so sad. :( Praying hard. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugarfoot Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Praying here.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Praying that Richard's dad's condition takes a turn for the better. Also praying for Richard, his family, and you, your son, and your family. :grouphug: I had missed your most recent update - I'm praying, praying, praying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lulubelle Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 :grouphug: That is so sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StaceyinLA Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 I can't imagine. Poor baby. I hope miraculous healing occurs so that this boy doesn't have to lose his father. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 I am so sorry, I cannot imagine what that poor boy is going through. I will keep them in my prayers. Has he been ill at all or did this all just hit at once? That's horrifying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Have been praying for Richard's dad and both families. Please give us an update when you are able. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 How is Richard's dad doing? Praying again here. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 :grouphug:prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 I have prayed. I'm so sorry for all involved. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dobela Posted January 12, 2011 Author Share Posted January 12, 2011 Richard's dad, Ed, lived thru the night even though the doctors did not expect him to do so. Right now Ed is still in CCU and the doctors say they have done all they can. They do not expect him to live but can't predict when his body will completely shut down. Richard asked to visit the hospital earlier today and because the prognosis is grim, the nurses allowed him back to spend time with this dad this morning. He asked to stay at the hospital and his other family has said they would take care of him knowing how important it is to Richard to be there. He may be back here tonight though depending on what happens later. Ed was a diabetic and recently had difficult controlling his levels but this has been totally unespected. He is in his mid 50s. Richard is one of the most frightened, saddest children I have ever seen. My heart is just breaking for him and his family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ibbygirl Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Richard's dad, Ed, lived thru the night even though the doctors did not expect him to do so. Right now Ed is still in CCU and the doctors say they have done all they can. They do not expect him to live but can't predict when his body will completely shut down. Richard asked to visit the hospital earlier today and because the prognosis is grim, the nurses allowed him back to spend time with this dad this morning. He asked to stay at the hospital and his other family has said they would take care of him knowing how important it is to Richard to be there. He may be back here tonight though depending on what happens later. Ed was a diabetic and recently had difficult controlling his levels but this has been totally unespected. He is in his mid 50s. Richard is one of the most frightened, saddest children I have ever seen. My heart is just breaking for him and his family. :crying: Oh the poor precious boy. My heart is breaking for him. Thank you for the update. Will continue praying for a miracle and for comfort. Thank you for being there to help that boy. God bless you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blakereese Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 :( :grouphug: That is so sad. Thank you for the update. I have been thinking of Richard and his family all day. I am so sorry that he is so sick. That poor little boy, my heart is just breaking to think about it. I'm glad he has your family to help him through this. It will be such a hard time, and he is so young. Still thinking of you all... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Margo out of lurking Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 This boy has been on my heart all night and day. I happened to wake up a few times during the night, and then prayed for him, and I've been praying today. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Thank you so much for letting us know the update. Like others, I've been praying for him and his family. I'm still praying for a miracle. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Continuing to pray for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Richard's dad, Ed, lived thru the night even though the doctors did not expect him to do so. Right now Ed is still in CCU and the doctors say they have done all they can. They do not expect him to live but can't predict when his body will completely shut down. Richard asked to visit the hospital earlier today and because the prognosis is grim, the nurses allowed him back to spend time with this dad this morning. He asked to stay at the hospital and his other family has said they would take care of him knowing how important it is to Richard to be there. He may be back here tonight though depending on what happens later. Ed was a diabetic and recently had difficult controlling his levels but this has been totally unespected. He is in his mid 50s. Richard is one of the most frightened, saddest children I have ever seen. My heart is just breaking for him and his family. I'm praying for Richard. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Prayers for Richard, his dad and family.:grouphug: Richard's dad, Ed, lived thru the night even though the doctors did not expect him to do so. Right now Ed is still in CCU and the doctors say they have done all they can. They do not expect him to live but can't predict when his body will completely shut down. Richard asked to visit the hospital earlier today and because the prognosis is grim, the nurses allowed him back to spend time with this dad this morning. He asked to stay at the hospital and his other family has said they would take care of him knowing how important it is to Richard to be there. He may be back here tonight though depending on what happens later. Ed was a diabetic and recently had difficult controlling his levels but this has been totally unespected. He is in his mid 50s. Richard is one of the most frightened, saddest children I have ever seen. My heart is just breaking for him and his family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 Any update Dobela? Prayers continue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diane in CO Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 I just saw this :grouphug: Richard, his father and the entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. The entire situation breaks my heart :grouphug: to you for being there for Richard at this time. Diane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dobela Posted January 18, 2011 Author Share Posted January 18, 2011 I am so sorry I have not replied. I have been hit hard with strep throat and am just now feeling like actually sitting up. I last spoke to Richard's family on Saturday afternoon. At that point his dad was occassionally breathing on his own and the doctors had begun kidney dialysis hoping to start his kidneys again. Richard is staying with extended family which seemed to give him more comfort than staying with us - which I thought was by far the best for him. I will remind my dh to call the hospital later tonight for an update. I still can't talk at all unfortunately. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 I'm so sorry you're sick! That's encouraging about Richard's dad. Poor family. What a trial. :grouphug: for everyone. Thank you for the update. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkle Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 Thank you for the update. I hope you're feeling better soon. Prayers continue. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mycalling Posted January 20, 2011 Share Posted January 20, 2011 That's great news! I was going to post that my DH's cousin had the same thing happen. It was a rough recovery, but he did pull through. I didn't want to post that if he wasn't going to make it, but it's so great to hear he's slowly coming around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted January 31, 2011 Share Posted January 31, 2011 Dobela, Have I missed an update on how you are feeling and how Richard's dad is doing? I hope you both are doing well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dobela Posted January 31, 2011 Author Share Posted January 31, 2011 Thanks so much for asking. Ed is still in the hospital, in the ICU still. He has a trach for breathingand cannot speak but his eyes are open and he can hear. His kidneys have failed and is receiving dialysis. He is jaundiced and has tubes all over his body. They are still just taking it day by day, moment by moment. Richard's mom has returned to work days and spends most evenings and weekends at the hospital with friends and a teenage sister caring for Richard. He stays most weekends with us although this weekend I had to say no. While I am feeling much better both of my kids now have strep and we as a family are just worn out. He spent part of yesterday and today with us though. I feel bad for not letting him stay all weekend, and I think it hurt his feelings that we didn't let him spend all afternoon with us today. Thanks so much for caring, and prayers are still appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted January 31, 2011 Share Posted January 31, 2011 Thank you for the update on Ed. You may want to call Richard's mom and make sure she knows he was around Strep. They'd want to be extra careful not to bring it into the hospital. Will continue to pray for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted January 31, 2011 Share Posted January 31, 2011 Boy, it sounds like things are still very challenging all around. I hope this week brings improvements for everyone. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted January 31, 2011 Share Posted January 31, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Cat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Dobela Posted January 31, 2011 Author Share Posted January 31, 2011 Thank you for the update on Ed. You may want to call Richard's mom and make sure she knows he was around Strep. They'd want to be extra careful not to bring it into the hospital. Will continue to pray for them. They know we have all had strep, but it hasn't seemed to bother them. I have been concerned about Richard getting sick but the family is just needing so much help that strep is a risk they are willing to take apparently. Thanks everyone for the hugs and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I was thinking of Richard's family today and wondered if I missed an update. I hope things have improved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dobela Posted February 24, 2011 Author Share Posted February 24, 2011 No, I forgot to update here. Ed has moved into a regular room at the hospital. The family thought he would return home last week but that has not happened. He has improved a great deal but faces some serious long term health issues still yet. Thanks so much for caring to ask. The family is still under great stress and Richard is showing it in his behavior unfortunately. He is though getting to spend more time with his dad and we are so happy for that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 Wow. That is encouraging news. I was kind of afraid to ask. I can't imagine how difficult the situation is on everyone. Thank you for the update. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UnsinkableKristen Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I'm so happy to hear the Dad is improving. Will be praying for the family and for Richard, that he can find some constructive outlet for his stress. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 Glad to hear he's doing better. Praying for him and the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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