kwickimom Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I miscarried a few months ago at 12 weeks (my 2nd mc) and I was due 2 weeks after my friend. She just went to doc today and they found no heartbeat. She is 20 weeks along. There were 2 other women at my church in the last year and a half that miscarried at 17 weeks. So many losses on this board too. My poor friend just announced her baby girls name last night and was so excited and now she has to deliver her deceased baby. :crying: I cannot take it anymore :crying: I am glad to know all these babies went to heaven where there is no pain, but my goodness the pain here with the mommas is just almost too much to take. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MotherMayI Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 ((((Hugs))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meriwether Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Another Jen Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Upward Journey Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwickimom Posted December 4, 2012 Author Share Posted December 4, 2012 I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( :grouphug: :crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenL Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Many hugs are with you and Rivendell as you cope with these losses. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Hugs to all of you who are dealing with losses. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faithr Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I am so sorry. It is so very hard. I had 3 miscarriages and the disappointment and grief really shook me each time. I will keep you and all these grieving mothers in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reflections Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Many hugs are with you and Rivendell as you cope with these losses. I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TranquilMind Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KRG Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RebeccaS Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristineW Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I'm so sorry. And I agree, I was active on boards with my other babies and I don't remember so many losses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyinTN Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 You both will be in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I am so sorry for the losses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I miscarried a few months ago at 12 weeks (my 2nd mc) and I was due 2 weeks after my friend. She just went to doc today and they found no heartbeat. She is 20 weeks along. There were 2 other women at my church in the last year and a half that miscarried at 17 weeks. So many losses on this board too. My poor friend just announced her baby girls name last night and was so excited and now she has to deliver her deceased baby. :crying: I cannot take it anymore :crying: I am glad to know all these babies went to heaven where there is no pain, but my goodness the pain here with the mommas is just almost too much to take. I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( Many hugs and prayers for both of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( I am so very, very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I miscarried a few months ago at 12 weeks (my 2nd mc) and I was due 2 weeks after my friend. She just went to doc today and they found no heartbeat. She is 20 weeks along. There were 2 other women at my church in the last year and a half that miscarried at 17 weeks. So many losses on this board too. My poor friend just announced her baby girls name last night and was so excited and now she has to deliver her deceased baby. :crying: I cannot take it anymore :crying: I am glad to know all these babies went to heaven where there is no pain, but my goodness the pain here with the mommas is just almost too much to take. :grouphug: Your poor friend! At 20 weeks, you feel pretty safe, so she must have been beyond shocked to find out that there was no heartbeat. :( This must be so hard for you, too, because losing your own baby was so difficult, and then it couldn't have been easy watching your friend feel so happy about her own baby after your loss, and now finding out that she lost her baby, too -- what an awful roller coaster of emotions for you! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Oh, you guys, I'm so sorry for your losses. Many, many hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 It's really reallly hard. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sherri in MI Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I miscarried a few months ago at 12 weeks (my 2nd mc) and I was due 2 weeks after my friend. She just went to doc today and they found no heartbeat. She is 20 weeks along. There were 2 other women at my church in the last year and a half that miscarried at 17 weeks. So many losses on this board too. My poor friend just announced her baby girls name last night and was so excited and now she has to deliver her deceased baby. :crying: I cannot take it anymore :crying: I am glad to know all these babies went to heaven where there is no pain, but my goodness the pain here with the mommas is just almost too much to take. :grouphug: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and your friends loss and the other moms you mentioned. That happened one year at our church - there were so many miscarriages. Then a bunch of us got pregnant the following year and I was afraid to be excited because of all the losses! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sherri in MI Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( :grouphug: So sorry for your loss. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elinor Everywhere Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Im so, so sorry for both of you, and the OP's friend. I can't imagine. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I can't say I'm sorry enough... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwickimom Posted December 4, 2012 Author Share Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: Your poor friend! At 20 weeks, you feel pretty safe, so she must have been beyond shocked to find out that there was no heartbeat. :( This must be so hard for you, too, because losing your own baby was so difficult, and then it couldn't have been easy watching your friend feel so happy about her own baby after your loss, and now finding out that she lost her baby, too -- what an awful roller coaster of emotions for you! :grouphug: Exactly! What a mess. I actually thought that when I had my mc that I kind of upped her odds of a healthy pregnancy and that she was not going to have any problems because theres no way both of us would mc. Boy was I wrong. And so close to Christmas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewe Mama Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Hugs to everyone missing their longed for babies. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Exactly! What a mess. I actually thought that when I had my mc that I kind of upped her odds of a healthy pregnancy and that she was not going to have any problems because theres no way both of us would mc. Boy was I wrong. And so close to Christmas. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Things always seem magnified when they happen at Christmastime. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Kwickimom and Rivendell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GWOB Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Miscarriages suck. Period. Hugs to Kwickmom, Rivendellmom, and everyone else dealing with this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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