kwickimom Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I miscarried a few months ago at 12 weeks (my 2nd mc) and I was due 2 weeks after my friend. She just went to doc today and they found no heartbeat. She is 20 weeks along. There were 2 other women at my church in the last year and a half that miscarried at 17 weeks. So many losses on this board too. My poor friend just announced her baby girls name last night and was so excited and now she has to deliver her deceased baby. :crying: I cannot take it anymore :crying: I am glad to know all these babies went to heaven where there is no pain, but my goodness the pain here with the mommas is just almost too much to take. Quote
Just Another Jen Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( Quote
kwickimom Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( :grouphug: :crying: Quote
jenL Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Many hugs are with you and Rivendell as you cope with these losses. I'm so sorry. Quote
Heatherwith4 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Hugs to all of you who are dealing with losses. :grouphug: Quote
Faithr Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I am so sorry. It is so very hard. I had 3 miscarriages and the disappointment and grief really shook me each time. I will keep you and all these grieving mothers in my prayers. Quote
Reflections Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Many hugs are with you and Rivendell as you cope with these losses. I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote
ChristineW Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I'm so sorry. And I agree, I was active on boards with my other babies and I don't remember so many losses. Quote
besroma Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I miscarried a few months ago at 12 weeks (my 2nd mc) and I was due 2 weeks after my friend. She just went to doc today and they found no heartbeat. She is 20 weeks along. There were 2 other women at my church in the last year and a half that miscarried at 17 weeks. So many losses on this board too. My poor friend just announced her baby girls name last night and was so excited and now she has to deliver her deceased baby. :crying: I cannot take it anymore :crying: I am glad to know all these babies went to heaven where there is no pain, but my goodness the pain here with the mommas is just almost too much to take. I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( Many hugs and prayers for both of you. Quote
Catwoman Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( I am so very, very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote
Catwoman Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I miscarried a few months ago at 12 weeks (my 2nd mc) and I was due 2 weeks after my friend. She just went to doc today and they found no heartbeat. She is 20 weeks along. There were 2 other women at my church in the last year and a half that miscarried at 17 weeks. So many losses on this board too. My poor friend just announced her baby girls name last night and was so excited and now she has to deliver her deceased baby. :crying: I cannot take it anymore :crying: I am glad to know all these babies went to heaven where there is no pain, but my goodness the pain here with the mommas is just almost too much to take. :grouphug: Your poor friend! At 20 weeks, you feel pretty safe, so she must have been beyond shocked to find out that there was no heartbeat. :( This must be so hard for you, too, because losing your own baby was so difficult, and then it couldn't have been easy watching your friend feel so happy about her own baby after your loss, and now finding out that she lost her baby, too -- what an awful roller coaster of emotions for you! :grouphug: Quote
Chris in VA Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Oh, you guys, I'm so sorry for your losses. Many, many hugs. Quote
justLisa Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 It's really reallly hard. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote
Sherri in MI Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I miscarried a few months ago at 12 weeks (my 2nd mc) and I was due 2 weeks after my friend. She just went to doc today and they found no heartbeat. She is 20 weeks along. There were 2 other women at my church in the last year and a half that miscarried at 17 weeks. So many losses on this board too. My poor friend just announced her baby girls name last night and was so excited and now she has to deliver her deceased baby. :crying: I cannot take it anymore :crying: I am glad to know all these babies went to heaven where there is no pain, but my goodness the pain here with the mommas is just almost too much to take. :grouphug: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and your friends loss and the other moms you mentioned. That happened one year at our church - there were so many miscarriages. Then a bunch of us got pregnant the following year and I was afraid to be excited because of all the losses! Quote
Sherri in MI Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I know what you mean. I found out today that I am having a miscarriage. It's hard no matter when it happens. But, it does seem all around lately. :( :grouphug: So sorry for your loss. :( Quote
Elinor Everywhere Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Im so, so sorry for both of you, and the OP's friend. I can't imagine. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote
justamouse Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I can't say I'm sorry enough... Quote
kwickimom Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: Your poor friend! At 20 weeks, you feel pretty safe, so she must have been beyond shocked to find out that there was no heartbeat. :( This must be so hard for you, too, because losing your own baby was so difficult, and then it couldn't have been easy watching your friend feel so happy about her own baby after your loss, and now finding out that she lost her baby, too -- what an awful roller coaster of emotions for you! :grouphug: Exactly! What a mess. I actually thought that when I had my mc that I kind of upped her odds of a healthy pregnancy and that she was not going to have any problems because theres no way both of us would mc. Boy was I wrong. And so close to Christmas. Quote
Ewe Mama Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Hugs to everyone missing their longed for babies. I'm so sorry. Quote
Catwoman Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Exactly! What a mess. I actually thought that when I had my mc that I kind of upped her odds of a healthy pregnancy and that she was not going to have any problems because theres no way both of us would mc. Boy was I wrong. And so close to Christmas. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Things always seem magnified when they happen at Christmastime. :( Quote
fraidycat Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Kwickimom and Rivendell. Quote
GWOB Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Miscarriages suck. Period. Hugs to Kwickmom, Rivendellmom, and everyone else dealing with this. Quote
Melissa in Australia Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote
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