Night Elf Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Do you look forward to going to bed? I used to love crawling into the cool sheets and letting my entire body relax. I liked to sleep. I haven't felt that way in years though. I'm sitting here and it's 12:30am and I know I need to go to bed but I just don't want to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Do you look forward to going to bed? I used to love crawling into the cool sheets and letting my entire body relax. I liked to sleep. I haven't felt that way in years though. I'm sitting here and it's 12:30am and I know I need to go to bed but I just don't want to. Why not? I love to get into bed. I didn't when I was young, but now I ache by 9 pm, and can't wait. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m0mmaBuck Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I've never liked going to bed. I've always said, "There will be plenty of time to sleep when I'm dead." It would be awesome if I had a different way to recharge. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I'm a night owl, and I can always find something better to do than to go to bed. :D I think for me, it's the only time the house is completely quiet and I can have that hour (or three) to myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VeganCupcake Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I love to sleep, but I also feel like there's so much to do when my kids aren't climbing all over me! So I always stay up way too late. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UnsinkableKristen Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Oh I looove going to sleep. My room is dark and cool and so very quiet. Just the whirling of the ceiling fan. The sheets are soft, the duvet is snuggly, the mattress is smooshy and DH is cozy :D. Come to think of it, I think it's time for bed now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I'm a night owl, and I can always find something better to do than to go to bed. :D I think for me, it's the only time the house is completely quiet and I can have that hour (or three) to myself. :iagree::iagree::iagree::iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted August 6, 2012 Author Share Posted August 6, 2012 Why not? The biggest problem is that I don't fall asleep quickly. I just lie there and think. The more I think, the more agitated I become. Agitation keeps me awake, leading to bad thoughts. It's a horrible cycle. I spent at least a year with a schedule of 4:00am to 1:00pm because by 4:00am my eyelids were heavy. Then the past few months I actually transitioned into an earlier bedtime though I didn't do anything special. And now I'm back to my old ways. I've had to take a sleeping pill every night for the past week. It's just stupid. And last night the pill didn't even work at all. So I'm not excited about trying again, but I will. I'm going to take it and go straight to bed. Hopefully I won't be up again in a couple of hours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghee Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Oh, that's no fun, Elf. I do that myself. I'm a night owl by nature, add to that fact that I have 3 super loud kids so after they go to bed is the only "down" time I get, and I'm up until 3 a lot of nights. But then I feel like poo the next day when I try to get up earlier, and I feel guilty if I sleep late. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klmama Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Night Elf, have you been getting any exercise? I find I sleep much better when I get 30 minutes or more of good exercise outside. Gardening, going for a walk, mowing, raking, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Oh I looove going to sleep. My room is dark and cool and so very quiet. Just the whirling of the ceiling fan. The sheets are soft, the duvet is snuggly, the mattress is smooshy and DH is cozy :D. Come to think of it, I think it's time for bed now! :iagree: BUT, we both stayed up for the Curiosity landing on Mars, didn't we? I just couldn't resist! :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Why not? I love to get into bed. I didn't when I was young, but now I ache by 9 pm, and can't wait. Sleep is painful. Good painless sleep would be nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EthiopianFood Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Night owl, like my space and quiet, anxiety about dealing with another day of expectations, and needing WAY too much sleep to feel rested anyway=staying up so late that I never get enough sleep. Ever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirch Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I'm a night owl, and I can always find something better to do than to go to bed. :D I think for me, it's the only time the house is completely quiet and I can have that hour (or three) to myself. Yep. But I looove going to bed for a nap! Probably because I'm so tired from staying up that it feels so good to lie down! Need to go to bed now!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted August 6, 2012 Author Share Posted August 6, 2012 Well, I lasted 2 hours of drifting in and out. I'll stay up for an hour and then go try again. I don't do cardio exercise like I should. I've been walking a few times a week but it's a light walk with my son. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommybee Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 The biggest problem is that I don't fall asleep quickly. I just lie there and think. The more I think, the more agitated I become. Agitation keeps me awake, leading to bad thoughts. It's a horrible cycle. I spent at least a year with a schedule of 4:00am to 1:00pm because by 4:00am my eyelids were heavy. Then the past few months I actually transitioned into an earlier bedtime though I didn't do anything special. And now I'm back to my old ways. I've had to take a sleeping pill every night for the past week. It's just stupid. And last night the pill didn't even work at all. So I'm not excited about trying again, but I will. I'm going to take it and go straight to bed. Hopefully I won't be up again in a couple of hours. You know I actually don't have too many sleep problems, but I tend to stay up way too late just cause I've always been a night owl. I am useless to do anything productive though and usually just read or watch tv. Which I find ridiculous but just can't break the habit. For me when I try and sleep and my mind wanders I have always listened to something on my mp3 player to help me fall asleep. Usually talk radio, or sometimes the 24 hour comedy channel on iheartradio. But the background noise really helps me relax and be able to tune out all those anxious thoughts about what needs to get done tomorrow and so on. Maybe you could give that a try. I've even done books and I may have to listen to the same passage night after night because I fall asleep but I find it helps. My mp3 has a timer so it will turn off after a certain time I set. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommybee Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Yep. But I looove going to bed for a nap! Probably because I'm so tired from staying up that it feels so good to lie down! Need to go to bed now!! That's my problem! I stay up so late I need a nap, but I love to nap! And then because I nap I am not tired until late. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoot Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I adore getting into bed at night. Crawling in, stretching out on my stomach and then just falling off the planet into lala land is the best feeling of the whole day. Napping, on the other hand, I hate. Sometimes it's necessary but I am SO grumpy when I wake up from a nap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucy in Australia Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Night Elf, have you been getting any exercise? I find I sleep much better when I get 30 minutes or more of good exercise outside. I was just about to say this, too. Also, at least an hour of no screens (incl. TV) before bed, and then reading in bed. I have never had any trouble sleeping (probably the opposite, rather :glare:) but my DS 16 went through this and the above, with exercise, is how we solved it. He gets tempted to use his phone before bed and always pays the price. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J-rap Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I love staying up late, but I love going to bed too. I usually fall right asleep. My problem comes around 4am, when I wake up and start thinking about everything... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaxMom Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 You know I actually don't have too many sleep problems, but I tend to stay up way too late just cause I've always been a night owl. I am useless to do anything productive though and usually just read or watch tv. Which I find ridiculous but just can't break the habit. For me when I try and sleep and my mind wanders I have always listened to something on my mp3 player to help me fall asleep. Usually talk radio, or sometimes the 24 hour comedy channel on iheartradio. But the background noise really helps me relax and be able to tune out all those anxious thoughts about what needs to get done tomorrow and so on. Maybe you could give that a try. I've even done books and I may have to listen to the same passage night after night because I fall asleep but I find it helps. My mp3 has a timer so it will turn off after a certain time I set. I do this, too. Or, rather, I have to have the tv on when I fall asleep. I put on something dialogue heavy, with no sudden action scenes, that I've seen before (so no need to see how it ends). For years, it was Law & Order reruns: just enough dialogue to keep my brain occupied so it doesn't spin like a hamster wheel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 The biggest problem is that I don't fall asleep quickly. I just lie there and think. The more I think, the more agitated I become. Agitation keeps me awake, leading to bad thoughts. It's a horrible cycle. I spent at least a year with a schedule of 4:00am to 1:00pm because by 4:00am my eyelids were heavy. Then the past few months I actually transitioned into an earlier bedtime though I didn't do anything special. And now I'm back to my old ways. I've had to take a sleeping pill every night for the past week. It's just stupid. And last night the pill didn't even work at all. So I'm not excited about trying again, but I will. I'm going to take it and go straight to bed. Hopefully I won't be up again in a couple of hours. I developed insomnia in my early 40s. I discovered that I no longer needed to sleep as much. I started getting up eariler, and it fixed it. But I had to wait for a work change to "force" me to get up. Now I fall asleep by 11, but often get up for a drink and a few minutes on the computer, so that I sleep in two "shifts" many nights. Still, I've lost the 8 hours a night ... I'm more like 6.5, and if I get tired late afternoon, I put my head down for quiet for 10 minutes. That "fixed" my insomnia. We need less sleep as we age, and many old people complain bitterly about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I like sleeping, but I usually feel guilty when I go to bed because I am behind on stuff. My internet habits both get me behind on my work and keep me awake too late at night. Though, considering that I've always been a night person, if it weren't the Internet keeping me awake it would probably be a book or quiet hobby. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 (edited) Could you read in bed to get yourself tired? It is hard to shut off the brain to sleep. I have to either read, go on my Ipad, or watch tv while in bed to make myself sleepy. And I don't even think of going to bed until I feel sleepy. I don't like to go to bed. I love having the house to myself. I struggle with sleep issues, though, and love, love, love a good night of peaceful sleep. Edited August 6, 2012 by Denisemomof4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathryn Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I love to sleep. It's a hobby. However, I've suffered bouts of insomnia since having children, and during those times I dread going to bed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NicksMama-Zack's Mama Too Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I've never liked going to bed. I've always said, "There will be plenty of time to sleep when I'm dead." It would be awesome if I had a different way to recharge. :iagree: I'm always the last to fall asleep. I've been this way my whole life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted August 6, 2012 Author Share Posted August 6, 2012 That "fixed" my insomnia. We need less sleep as we age, and many old people complain bitterly about it. Yeah, I wondered about that. I can get by on 6 hours and not feel tired. The nights that I sleep about 4 hours leaves me dragging my feet all day. Occasionally I sleep 10 hours and I feel like someone hit me with a truck. Last night I got about 6 so that will do. I do read before bed, but I have to do it in the living room. DH can't sleep with any lights on, not even my Kindle light. I don't have a good book going right now though. Maybe I should focus on that today so I can read tonight and not be on this board. :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarah1615 Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I used to have bouts of anxiety when I would try to fall asleep at night until I started listening to a meditation cd. It works like magic for me and I usually fall asleep within minutes of starting it. I think it helps me stop the cycle of anxious thoughts and I focus on something relaxing. As for natural sleep aids, I have also tried valerian root in the past with some success and while I haven't tried it, I know that melatonin can help with more restful sleep. Hope you figure something out that works for you! Lack of sleep stinks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I developed insomnia in my early 40s. I discovered that I no longer needed to sleep as much. I started getting up eariler, and it fixed it. But I had to wait for a work change to "force" me to get up. Now I fall asleep by 11, but often get up for a drink and a few minutes on the computer, so that I sleep in two "shifts" many nights. Still, I've lost the 8 hours a night ... I'm more like 6.5, and if I get tired late afternoon, I put my head down for quiet for 10 minutes.That "fixed" my insomnia. We need less sleep as we age, and many old people complain bitterly about it. :iagree: i feel GREAT with 8 hours of sleep per night but I usually get 5 or 6. My insomnia is so much better but I still go through regular cyclical/hormonal bouts of insomnia. Thankfully I CAN sleep now. I do need sound, whether music, sound machine, radio, tv, OR reading when I go to bed still unless I collapse in exhaustion. They say to read light material, lie magazines, when you go to bed. If you're reading a good book you may not want to put it down.;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I like to go to bed earlier to read, relax and unwind before going to sleep. When I was young, I didn't look forward to bed like I do now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alpidarkomama Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I've always been reluctant to go to bed. It's so deliciously quiet at 1:00, 2:00, 3:00... :) I need to reform myself to go to bed by 1:00 every night now, though, since we have more learning happening around here with kid #4 entering the official learning cadre. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LarlaB Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I'm in the midst of a wearying bout w/ insomnia right now- I can fall asleep without issue, but I wake up for 3 hours in the middle of the night....last night I made myself stay up until 11:30, slept until 3am, was awake until 6:00 and got up at 7:30am. So yes, I've been struggling with bed/sleep being a negative thing. :( Its more painful because sleep/bedtime USED to be a wonderful thing for me- all childhood & adult life...up until the past 6-8 months. I just finished reading "The Effortless Sleep Method" which was really helpful. He feels most insomniacs are constantly on the hunt for the right pill, blend, cd, routine to fix it- understandbly so, as the misery of exhaustion is a powerful motivator. ;) His take is that for many people the cause lies in poor 'sleep hygiene' & spending too much non-sleeping time in bed....(insomniacs, will feel the need to rest & try to sleep more than non-insomniacs). GOOD sleep hygiene is: do NOTHING but sleep and have tea in bed- no reading, computer, snacking etc; when you can't sleep get UP and OUT of bed; only go to bed when trully tired, never nap or sleep in etc... Supposedly- these major points, given time, will really help reset & retrain your brain & therefore behavior. Positive thinking is also a huge part of his approach- focusing on the success, being realistic etc In theory, I'm all in- but its really hard to be optimistic when you feel exhausted. :D All I know is that when my alarm went off this AM @7:30 I made it to the bathroom and just laid down on the floor and cried. :glare: My poor DH found me there and laid down with me. :001_huh: So yeah- I'm a work in progress. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I wish I never needed to sleep. I NEED my sleep but I don't know that I look forward to it. We are sort of passing out on the couch people. By the time I go up to bed I'm done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I'm a night owl, and I can always find something better to do than to go to bed. :D I think for me, it's the only time the house is completely quiet and I can have that hour (or three) to myself. :iagree: This is me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myeightkiddies Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I would love if I never had to sleep. For me, bedtime is pain. It hurts for me to lay down to sleep. I am constantly tossing and turning due to the pain. There is just nothing relaxing or restful about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I would love if I never had to sleep. For me, bedtime is pain. It hurts for me to lay down to sleep. I am constantly tossing and turning due to the pain. There is just nothing relaxing or restful about it. You and me both. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denise in Florida Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 The biggest problem is that I don't fall asleep quickly. I just lie there and think. The more I think, the more agitated I become. Agitation keeps me awake, leading to bad thoughts. It's a horrible cycle. I spent at least a year with a schedule of 4:00am to 1:00pm because by 4:00am my eyelids were heavy. Then the past few months I actually transitioned into an earlier bedtime though I didn't do anything special. And now I'm back to my old ways. I've had to take a sleeping pill every night for the past week. It's just stupid. And last night the pill didn't even work at all. So I'm not excited about trying again, but I will. I'm going to take it and go straight to bed. Hopefully I won't be up again in a couple of hours. This is me exactly. :iagree::iagree: I HATE bedtime now (do I sound like a toddler? :lol:) I totally understand,:grouphug: this has been happening to me for years. It started midway through menopause. Sleep has become a precious thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sleepymommy Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 I've had your same problem for years. It still occurs maybe once or twice a week so not completely resolved, but what really helped me was sleeping on the floor (sounds crazy but it has down wonders for my back pain and nixed the tossing and turning), taking Vit.D (turns out my levels were really low and I think getting them normal was the most helpful), taking long epsom salt baths before bed, and having a bedtime routine. I wash my face and apply my moisturizer, brush my teeth and either read for 30 min (either a non fiction book or on the IPad, can't do fiction before bed or I'll stay up all night wanting to finish it). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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