Ann.without.an.e Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 I did. I wrestled with whether to tell him, but I did. He didn't over-react or take it bad at all. DH told me not to go without him unless I knew it was Hunky's day off. He said, "that completely explains my interaction with him. It was very, very weird. I couldn't imagine anyone running a large business and being so awkward and nervous with a customer". We kind of laughed about it a little. He also told me that several guys at work have clued him in to the fact that the CFO has a crush on him. He said he simply avoids said CFO like the plague and I should do the same. It was a good conversation. Now, if I can just NOT dwell on the fact that DH is working with a young, beautiful, successful, ivy league educated woman who has a crush on him we'll be good. :unsure: Thank ya'll for your support. I am really impressed that a post could have such a crazy amount of views and not get nasty. For the most part, everyone played nice.. So thank you! :hurray: ** I had the original post deleted so if you missed it...sorry, I am not going to hash it all out here again. I just don't want to "go there". :ph34r: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Thanks for the update. Best wishes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrixieB Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Maybe someone should introduce Hunky Joe to CFO. That might solve everyone's problems. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Awesome update, sounds like everything went wonderfully. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poppy Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 What a good marriage you have. Thanks for the update. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexigail Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 I'm really glad it went well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiramisu Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Very happy for you and dh! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Critterfixer Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 I think that was a good call. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrairieSong Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 I'm glad your talk with your dh went so well! I would have done the same thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrairieSong Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Maybe someone should introduce Hunky Joe to CFO. That might solve everyone's problems. Haha...or maybe not. Hunky Joe's wife would probably not be too thrilled. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 So when you play your game of Hunky Joe the Manager and the Saucy Wench who Steals Fruit, you can follow up with a game of Ivy League CFO and the Naughty Expense Report Filer... :D Fun! Glad you talked to your DH. Bet you feel better about the whole thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saddlemomma Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 So glad everything worked out for you! :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1GirlTwinBoys Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Maybe someone should introduce Hunky Joe to CFO. That might solve everyone's problems. Hilarious! :lol: Glad you talked about it with DH and both were able to share what's going on. These situations can get out of control so easily sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Glad it worked out well for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Maybe someone should introduce Hunky Joe to CFO. That might solve everyone's problems. Well...if I remember correctly Hunky Joe is married... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Thanks for the update -- I'm sure you're feeling a lot better about the whole thing now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Grace Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 This post made me tear up a little. I'm so glad you made that decision! Nasty stuff grows in the dark. You and dh just threw open the blinds and I honestly think the results will be nothing but joy and health for your marriage. Phew!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plain jane Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Well...if I remember correctly Hunky Joe is married... Was Hunky Joe married or was it just implied because the OP mentioned his kids. I don't recall reading that he was married. I assumed he was divorced with kids. Not that it really matters... But could make him a better fit for sexy CFO. LOL OP- I'm so glad things worked out for you! We were away during your original thread and Internet was too flighty to post although I did read through some of the responses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slache Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Was Hunky Joe married or was it just implied because the OP mentioned his kids. I don't recall reading that he was married. I assumed he was divorced with kids. Not that it really matters... But could make him a better fit for sexy CFO. LOL OP- I'm so glad things worked out for you! We were away during your original thread and Internet was too flighty to post although I did read through some of the responses. He was married. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plain jane Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 He was married. Ewwwww. Ick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnnE-girl Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 I didn't comment on your first post because I felt weird as the newbie, but I read along. (Does that make me sound like a creepy lurker? I hope not!) I'm so glad it worked out for you. It sounds like quite a cloud has lifted. In my humble opinion, I think it's best for spouses to be very open with each other. It makes you more of a team. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann.without.an.e Posted July 17, 2014 Author Share Posted July 17, 2014 Thanks for the encouragement. It was an awkward situation but I feel good about it now. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trulycrabby Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 That's wonderful that everything turned out well. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolatechip Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 Wonderful. It must be such a relief! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucy Posted July 17, 2014 Share Posted July 17, 2014 I'm glad it worked out so well! Thanks for the happy update! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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