JudoMom Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 I posted last week that Maggie (our nearly 12 year old American Eskimo) had lost weight and was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. Given her age, the fact that she has hip pain/problems, and that she's going blind, we decided we wouldn't medicate her to possibly prolong her life. She's gone downhill quickly. She won't eat and she's unable to move much at all. My dh will be taking her to the vet in about 1.5 hours to be put to sleep; we know it's the right thing to do, but it's so hard and I can't stop crying. We got her as a pup while I was pregnant with my oldest. She's been a wonderful dog (though they are called Pesky Eskies for a reason), and has never snapped at or been grumpy with the boys (even though she had to put up with all of them through the baby/toddler years). She's been faithful and loyal, even when she hasn't gotten all the attention she deserved. She has always loved to be outside, running around the yard or just simply taking her "Hank the Cowdog" position on the back patio, and she made friends with the deer that come in our yard, and she made peace with the coyote that come to our back fence. Simply put, she's a good dog. She's going to be missed by our family, and by her half-brother, Chewy (our nearly 10 year old Eskie). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wendybird Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simka2 Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: I'm sorry. Love to you and your family!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 She sounds like she is such a terrific dog. I know how much you'll miss her. I think putting down an animal is the hardest thing I've ever done. I somehow felt responsible for ending their life, like I was being mean, but it was done in love. Putting your suffering dog down is the most loving thing you can do for her. Once they've stopped eating, THEY have given up. I'm so sorry. Your post has me teary eyed. It's SO hard and it's SO sad. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Maggie sounds wonderful. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: to you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
susancollins Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 Hi, I am so sorry losing a pet is like losing a family member. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathleen in VA Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug:I'm very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gingersmom Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so, so sorry. Cat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whereneverever Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug:So, so sorry. I know she knows she's loved.:grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astrid Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 I"m so sorry....I know how hard it is. Sending good thoughts your way, and sharing in your sorrow. Hugs, astrid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen in PA Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaAkins Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 I'm so sorry. May your family be comforted by many happy memories of Maggie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim in Appalachia Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nukeswife Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: and more :grouphug: I went through a similar situation in Feb. My dog was even the same age as yours. It's so hard to say goodbye even when you know deep down it's the right thing to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StacyinKS Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 I am so very Sorry. I went through this about a year ago and I KNOW how hard it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nakia Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garga Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 I've held four beloved cats in my arms while they died. :grouphug: to you. You know intellectually that it's the merciful and kindest thing to do, but it still feels just plain rotten. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Country Mouse Posted September 13, 2010 Share Posted September 13, 2010 :grouphug: So sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted September 14, 2010 Author Share Posted September 14, 2010 Thanks for all the hugs and understanding. My brain says "she's just a dog", but my heart disagrees. Today was hard; tomorrow will be better. We'll continue to miss her, but knowing that she enjoyed her life and that she didn't suffer at the end (even just 2 weeks ago she was still being puppy-like a lot of times) makes the pain easier. Chewy is confused and not eating much (they've been inseparable for the last 10 years), but I suspect he'll eat more as time goes by. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sagira Posted September 14, 2010 Share Posted September 14, 2010 Hugs to you.. So sorry for your loss. I know how hard losing a pet can be. Sending my thoughts to your children as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remudamom Posted September 14, 2010 Share Posted September 14, 2010 I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkInTheBlue Posted September 14, 2010 Share Posted September 14, 2010 Oh no, I missed this this morning. I'm so sorry!! :grouphug: I can't imagine how your family is feeling. Again, I'm so sorry! :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted September 14, 2010 Share Posted September 14, 2010 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. As a former 'schmo owner, I know that Eskie personalities are strong! Thinking of your family tonight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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