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  1. https://a.co/d/3kwEnU7 We got this one years ago and have been happy with it. Edited to add that we are not serious users. The kids play with it and it has come in very useful a couple times to find lost objects.
  2. Exciting! Thanks for the update. I'm looking forward to following your progress!
  3. You can totally wear boots with those. You could also do socks with your current shoes...I think black socks would streamline the look. Here's one article for ideas: http://my9to5shoes.com/2020/01/21/what-to-wear-with-cropped-pants-to-avoid-cold-ankles/ Also this one: https://thestyletti.com/cropped-pants-dos-donts/
  4. Something like this fleece peacoat? https://poshmark.com/listing/LL-Bean-fleece-pea-coat-size-small-EUC-machine-washable-62bf2317e97e484626239537 I would search for knit coat, or sweater coat, or fleece coat...
  5. What was the closure like? Was it like a knit blazer or knit coat? Length?
  6. My point was to ask what you're effectively accomplishing by double-checking homework before it's graded by Derek Owens. Smoothing over the math experience for your DC (dear child) could be viewed as prioritizing progress in math over progress in emotional/psychological development because your DC doesn't have to deal with the distorted thinking about low scores. Some more questions: If your DC truly will be damaged now by imperfect scores, when do you think this situation would change? Why is this not a good time for your family to address this challenge? Is it possible you're catastrophizing the consequences to your DC (dear child) of receiving low(er) scores? By "saving" your DC, are you inadvertently prolonging their struggle with anxiety/perfectionism? Without realizing it, are you trying to make yourself feel less anxious when you try insulate your DC from emotional upset? When I look back at my own experience, it sure felt like I really needed to step in to help my oldest manage her emotions. It felt totally necessary and helpful...until I exhausted myself emotionally and I literally had to stop. We had a very hard year but she was able to eventually make some breakthroughs in thinking and managing herself. She will never be neurotypical but she has grown so much and is accomplishing her goals without me constantly acting as her emotional breaker switch. I hope you feel that I'm not judging your situation. Your posts just made me think of my own struggles and I may be projecting them onto you. RE: my last question about Derek Owens as a good fit- maybe use Derek Owen's half-price option that allows you to grade their work. Or I heard Mr. D's self-paced math classes has a lot of second chances in re-doing work.
  7. My oldest has a struggled with a lot of anxiety and EF skills. She's now a junior in college doing much better, but I provided a ton more scaffolding for her than my other kids. Two things I wonder about: 1) How anxious are you? I had a certain amount of difficulty letting go because I didn't realize how much anxiety I was feeling and not managing well. 2) If your child is 12 and accelerated in math, are you focused on the right priority by helping your child avoid low scores in Derek Owens? (Btw, we use and like DO too). IOW, is your approach helping your child along the path to learning how to manage their thoughts and feelings? Or are you just helping them avoid negative emotions altogether? Making progress in math at this stage may not be more important than making progress dealing with anxiety. Which will have a greater impact on them being able to find peace and fulfillment later in life? Generally sending you ((hugs)). I think I know how hard this is...wanting so badly to help but not knowing exactly how... Edited to add: maybe DO is not a good fit right now?
  8. I think if you call LLBean (or chat online with them), they can tell you the detailed product dimensions. HTH
  9. I found a local printing shop that made a shirt for my DD's birthday in 15 minutes for $20-25 (can't remember exactly). The graphics have lasted 2 years and still look decent. Do you have any local places?
  10. DH got it back within 3-4 weeks. A good friend of mine still doesn't have hers back 1.5 years later.
  11. Thanks for the review. Now I know to avoid it. My favorite is still the 1995 movie. 😊
  12. I have this one and I'm happy with it: amazon link
  13. My older two have taken AP Comp Govt through PA Homeschoolers but we want to try another provider for this class. I'm signing up my third DD for one on Outschool (link). Has anyone else tried this class?
  14. I'm really sorry you're struggling. I agree with many posters that it would be helpful if you could assume a more mature parental role of not taking what your DS says personally. Vent to friends, vent here, keep pursuing your own personal development, etc...but keep trying with him just for him (not for you to feel better after interactions with him). I kind of understand why your son believes your XH's narrative. Do you truly understand how hurtful your statement was? Your DS thinks that deep down you wish he and his sister didn't exist, that you resent having this link to your XH. For his immature heart and mind, I'm not sure that an explanation that you didn't mean that exactly is going to heal that wound.
  15. When I was considering one, I looked at the Yamaha Avantgrand series. They have a "baby grand" style that was around 15k when I looked a couple years ago. Lots of good reviews. But I think Catwoman brings up a good point about getting a used acoustic grand if $$ is an issue. Lots of piano dealers will have used ones available. What level of player is your friend?
  16. I think it would work. Also, you could find throw pillows or decorative accents (sculpture, colorful tray, etc) that have the same navy color to help it feel more cohesive.
  17. Heartbreaking...Praying for her
  18. I'm so so sorry. ((hugs)) and prayers
  19. How about this? https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077MHFKJZ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_ZSBGJ3HA8YSNXEPWZQMN?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 You could also add a sparkly stretchy belt under her bust to dress it up. Edited to add belt ex.: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075KYJKF2/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_3YY7XRRZWF5KBQ8Y8D53?psc=1
  20. This is mine: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0050EN8M8/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1. It works great, is easy to clean, and the spray head retracts well.
  21. How about Emerald Green Arborvitae? It will grow to 10-15ft and doesn't take up too much horizontal space.
  22. We live on a golf course. I love my house and, in an expensive area with tiny yards, it's a way to have more privacy from neighbors and a green view I don't have to maintain. The golfers aren't loud, can't come into my yard (fenced), and the club is old and very established. We do get golf balls in the yard and we had to replace the outer pane of glass of one window a couple years ago. It was the right choice for us...but ymmv
  23. Lurker here! RE: bras, I took my DD to a bra store and bought a couple of expensive bras in her hard to find size. Then I went to eBay and found more at least half off retail. If you know the specific bra and size that works, maybe eBay could help keep costs down. Edited to add: they were new with tags on ebay
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