fairfarmhand Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 I posted awhile back about my decisions to stop being a grumpy Christmas lady. Umm. Something weird is happening. I bought a tree the Monday after Thanksgiving. In the past, I'd always waited because we do a real tree and that's a long time to keep it alive. That meant that in the two weeks before Christmas, when we have 2 birthdays, I was also trying to shop, celebrate birthdays, and buy and decorate a tree. So I thought if I get it done early, maybe it wouldn't be so bad. So I bought the tree and put it up in the sun room (this makes me happy because it's not hogging up major space in the corner of my living room. ) We took our time decorating the tree. It's a big tree and it took 3 days to finish but that's okay. We worked a little at a time. I found Christmas music that I didn't hate before Thanksgiving. This is big. It includes lots of Pentatonix, and Piano guys. Instrumental is good. I also prefer Christmas music about the religious aspects over other more cultural celebrations. No I do not want to Rock around the Christmas tree, nor do I want a Hippopotamus for Christmas. I figured out several nice gifts for my dh. I also found some simple gifts for my dad and brother. Each year, I stress out looking for the PERFECT gift when I just need to find something nice that says I thought of you. My kids are NOT IN THE HANDBELL CHOIR this year. I had no idea how running back and forth to rehearsals and performances was sapping my joy. I also declined to participate in our church Christmas program. The last few months have had some major stressors (not related to holidays) and I just don't have the energy for it. All that to say, I'm not dreading the holidays. At least not entirely. Yes, there are still aspects that I won't enjoy, but I'm digging deep to find joy in some stuff. So yesterday, it was icy and cold since we got some freezing rain. We were looking out the window at the ice and it began snowing, large fluffy flakes. I said. "Oh look! Snow. How pretty!" My dd looked at me and I clapped a hand over my mouth. I said. "What just came out of my mouth!" Dd said "You don't sound like yourself. What in the world? What's the matter with you?" So my Joyful Christmas Project is doing something. Strange things are happening around here. 48 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkTulip Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 This is a great post - something we should all strive for! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 Wonderful 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 That makes me happy! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 45 minutes ago, fairfarmhand said: I posted awhile back about my decisions to stop being a grumpy Christmas lady. Umm. Something weird is happening. I bought a tree the Monday after Thanksgiving. In the past, I'd always waited because we do a real tree and that's a long time to keep it alive. That meant that in the two weeks before Christmas, when we have 2 birthdays, I was also trying to shop, celebrate birthdays, and buy and decorate a tree. So I thought if I get it done early, maybe it wouldn't be so bad. So I bought the tree and put it up in the sun room (this makes me happy because it's not hogging up major space in the corner of my living room. ) We took our time decorating the tree. It's a big tree and it took 3 days to finish but that's okay. We worked a little at a time. I found Christmas music that I didn't hate before Thanksgiving. This is big. It includes lots of Pentatonix, and Piano guys. Instrumental is good. I also prefer Christmas music about the religious aspects over other more cultural celebrations. No I do not want to Rock around the Christmas tree, nor do I want a Hippopotamus for Christmas. I figured out several nice gifts for my dh. I also found some simple gifts for my dad and brother. Each year, I stress out looking for the PERFECT gift when I just need to find something nice that says I thought of you. My kids are NOT IN THE HANDBELL CHOIR this year. I had no idea how running back and forth to rehearsals and performances was sapping my joy. I also declined to participate in our church Christmas program. The last few months have had some major stressors (not related to holidays) and I just don't have the energy for it. All that to say, I'm not dreading the holidays. At least not entirely. Yes, there are still aspects that I won't enjoy, but I'm digging deep to find joy in some stuff. So yesterday, it was icy and cold since we got some freezing rain. We were looking out the window at the ice and it began snowing, large fluffy flakes. I said. "Oh look! Snow. How pretty!" My dd looked at me and I clapped a hand over my mouth. I said. "What just came out of my mouth!" Dd said "You don't sound like yourself. What in the world? What's the matter with you?" So my Joyful Christmas Project is doing something. Strange things are happening around here. First, I'm so glad for you that Christmas this year is more joyful. I have the same Christmas musical taste as you. How/where did you find your music?. I'm pretty inept when it comes to streaming music. I've only found "Choral Christmas music" channel on Pandora. I'd love some instrumental stuff. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann.without.an.e Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 I love this! I am happy for you. I am sure that nixing some of the busy activities that zapped your joy has helped as well! ❤️ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted December 10, 2018 Author Share Posted December 10, 2018 6 minutes ago, PrincessMommy said: First, I'm so glad for you that Christmas this year is more joyful. I have the same Christmas musical taste as you. How/where did you find your music?. I'm pretty inept when it comes to streaming music. I've only found "Choral Christmas music" channel on Pandora. I'd love some instrumental stuff. this is wonderful. and I also find groups on YouTube and look at the suggested videos that go alongside. And while I’m not Mormon, BYU puts out great music. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 14 minutes ago, fairfarmhand said: this is wonderful. and I also find groups on YouTube and look at the suggested videos that go alongside. And while I’m not Mormon, BYU puts out great music. Thanks!! I will listen to this now. I agree about BYU and the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. I sung choral music most of my life and it's what I truly prefer to listen to Christmas or otherwise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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kbutton Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 Yay! I dread the holidays for about 6 months of the year. This is year three of trying to dig out of that. I am so, so happy for you! I would nix 90% of all Christmas programs if I had the ability to do so. I hear you on the music--someone needs to write dozens more songs (that aren't obnoxious) if they are going to play them 24/7 for a month or more. We simplified the tree to a plain wooden tree that my Dad made. It's like a 3D tree silhouette. I miss my ornaments, but maybe someday I'll have that kind of tree again. Do you make snowflakes? That's my happy place at Christmas, lol! I didn't watch with sound, but this is similar to how I fold mine, and the end result is the same. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KungFuPanda Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 My Christmas album of choice is Kathy Matea’s Good News. I don’t know why, but that’s my Christmas cookie jam. Maybe because it’s religious without being played out. I don’t even listen to country music in my regular life. 😂 For you: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonhawk Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 (edited) I'm so happy to hear this! My DH's favorite Christmas music is the instrumentals on Vince Guaraldi Trio's Charlie Brown Christmas.It's more jazzy but in case you are ever in a jazzy mood 🙂 Edited December 10, 2018 by Moonhawk 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 1 hour ago, PrincessMommy said: First, I'm so glad for you that Christmas this year is more joyful. I have the same Christmas musical taste as you. How/where did you find your music?. I'm pretty inept when it comes to streaming music. I've only found "Choral Christmas music" channel on Pandora. I'd love some instrumental stuff. If you have Amazon Prime, download the music app and you can find instrumental and choral Christmas music. They have Christmas stations but I have created my own playlist of songs that I like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
May Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 I’m happy that you are able to find joy in this Christmas Season🎄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 I'm happy you are finding Christmas joy this season. I am working on finding mine. Perhaps I will be more into it after my finals tonight and tomorrow. I just hope I don't crash from adrenaline and then become all overwhelmed. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 My brother in law sent me a video of the St. Lucia service at the Lutheran Cathedral in Sweden. I don't understand any of the words and recognize only a few hymns but the music is very beautiful and peaceful. I thought of this thread and our conversation about Christmas music. It's about 50 mins long. While it is also beautiful to watch, I'm just keeping the audio going in the background. https://www.svtplay.se/video/20339194/lucia Enjoy. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2scouts Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Listening to Josh Groban's Christmas music is very relaxing. Traditional songs and that beautiful voice... I'll have to follow your lead and try to get more excited about the gift giving aspect of Christmas. Money is always tight this time of year and I have no idea what to get for my adult children and their significant others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura in CA Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 I picked up Blackwell's Carols from Oxford CD last week and can't get enough of it. Especially track 2, Coventry Carol, sung by the choir at Christ Church. I'm in heaven! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 On 12/10/2018 at 6:35 AM, PrincessMommy said: First, I'm so glad for you that Christmas this year is more joyful. I have the same Christmas musical taste as you. How/where did you find your music?. I'm pretty inept when it comes to streaming music. I've only found "Choral Christmas music" channel on Pandora. I'd love some instrumental stuff. I listen to piano guys on youtube. they have their own channel and all their songs are uploaded to it. I like Piano guys version of o come o come Emmanuel for an instrumental version. (it is one of my favorite christmas songs. I also really like this music video of o holy night by gentri I agree about I want to listen to music about Christ - not santa. I also really like king's college choir. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted December 15, 2018 Share Posted December 15, 2018 These albums have lovely traditional Christmas music: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Christmas-Box-Various-artists/dp/B00A2KV7XW https://www.amazon.com/Big-Christmas-Box-Various-artists/dp/B077GDS6G8/ref=pd_sim_340_1?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B077GDS6G8&pd_rd_r=63080573-007e-11e9-bba3-df00a3acce5e&pd_rd_w=WSQQT&pd_rd_wg=rfwkO&pf_rd_p=18bb0b78-4200-49b9-ac91-f141d61a1780&pf_rd_r=AKPWK2D77296HGWN9J26&psc=1&refRID=AKPWK2D77296HGWN9J26 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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