Jenny in Florida Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 . . . I could really use some virtual hugs today. Last night, I got confronted with two things that are weighing me down badly today. The first is something that may, in fact, be serious problem. The second is just something that opened an old emotional wound that I keep thinking has healed. Unfortunately, I can't really talk about the specifics of either here. One might be construed as "spouse bashing," and the other has to do with something I would be wiser not to discuss in such a public forum. So, I can't ask for advice. At this point, the plan is to try and get through this day with my son and maintain as much normalcy as I can while I see how things shake out. But right now I'm sitting here alone and it's taking all of my will power not to cry. So, yeah, hugs would be nice. Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug: I hope that a good resolution comes quickly, and that the serious problem doesn't materialize. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmschoolmom22 Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 ((Hugs)) to you!! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in the Kootenays Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny in Atl Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug: Hope it all works out. Sending sunny happy thoughts down your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathleen in VA Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug:Jenny:grouphug::grouphug: I'll be praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LisaNY Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 (((Jenny))) I'm sorry you are hurting. :sad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa at Home Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Jenny, I'm sending you all my warmest wishes, heartfelt thoughts, and peaceful feelings and hope that soon you will have all the issues resolved. :grouphug: Peace, ~Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GailV Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Me Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug: Praying for you today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Once Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 I'm thinking of you too. Healing is hard work. Know it is worth it. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sleepy Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug: Jenny :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Academy of Jedi Arts Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Hang in there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TraceyS/FL Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam "SFSOM" in TN Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 . . . I could really use some virtual hugs today. Last night, I got confronted with two things that are weighing me down badly today. The first is something that may, in fact, be serious problem. The second is just something that opened an old emotional wound that I keep thinking has healed. Unfortunately, I can't really talk about the specifics of either here. One might be construed as "spouse bashing," and the other has to do with something I would be wiser not to discuss in such a public forum. So, I can't ask for advice. At this point, the plan is to try and get through this day with my son and maintain as much normalcy as I can while I see how things shake out. But right now I'm sitting here alone and it's taking all of my will power not to cry. So, yeah, hugs would be nice. Thanks. Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. I've been there. Get as much IRL help as you can muster up to heal and resolve this. The biggest gift that we give our children is a strong parental relationship to model and a strong model for resolving life's problems. Consider yourself hugged and cared for. And if you ever want an ear, just PM or email me. {{{{Jenny}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8filltheheart Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Praying for wisdom and peace for you. Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayle in Guatemala Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug:I'm sorry things seem so hard right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doran Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 I've been where you are. It's a lonely, painful place. It helps me to remember not to take things too personally (yeah, right, she's thinking!). So often, issues that loom large between people are as much about THE OTHER PERSON as they are about us. If you need more specific conversation, I'm willing to listen. Sending strength. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andie Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysticamethyst Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 I think many of us here are finding that we need hugs and support from our friends, and all of you here are my friends; so definately not pathetic. I am sorry that you are hurting :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I hope that you and your family make it through the next few days with strength. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmamainva Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missplacedalaskan Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 I'm sorry you are hurting, Jenny. I'll be praying for you today. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aggie Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug: Aggie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkle Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :Angel_anim: :grouphug: Not pathetic, very normal. Sorry you're feeling down. Remember you can always PM one of us. :001_wub: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom to Aly Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: and more :grouphug:. I'm sorry you are going through this, Jenny! I hope things improve quickly!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aubrey Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug: BTDT. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Katia Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Ahhhh, :grouphug: go ahead and cry if you need to. Sometimes that can make you feel better as well. :grouphug: It also helps to validate your feelings. :grouphug: (I use the bathroom for privacy) :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 I'm sorry. I truly understand. When we've been with our spouses many years it is inevitable that serious hurt will occur between us. It's hard when something happens to reopen those old wounds. Something like that happened a few months ago between hubby and I and it was hard for me to get over. PM me if you need to talk. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WTMindy Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Sending a prayer your way!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 I hope things work out for you. Best wishes, Laura Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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