lexi Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 I started feeling sick this weekend and called my midwife. My blood pressure is all over the place-extreme highs and lows. She took me to the hospital to her back up OB. After a miserable 24 hours of monitoring in the hospital and labwork, they are inducing me on Wed when I'm 37 weeks. I've had an induction in the past and it was pure misery and it did not go well. So, my plans for a homebirth like my last 2 births is out the window. I am so exhausted and upset. The dr sent him home to actually get sleep since I was getting a migraine. Please pray for me Wed. I am not ready for this... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moxie Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 How are they planning to induce you? I've had 4 inductions and 1 "regular" birth (all without pain meds)--my inductions were much easier. I never have pitocin. Was your induction with your first baby? IMO, first babies are almost always long, hard labors. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 I'm sorry to hear this. Prayers for you, I hope all goes smoothly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stayseeliz Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 I'm so sorry you're having trouble. I had two easy pregnancies then two very complicated pregnancies with high blood pressure, etc. High blood pressure isn't something you want to mess with! I had my last two babies at 37 and 36 weeks. Just remember in the end that a healthy baby is the MAIN goal!! Hang in there! Praying for an easy labor for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 Praying for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abbeyej Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 If I were you, in the meantime I would start taking magnesium, soaking in an Epsom salts bath (you can get them at any drugstore), eating plenty of protein and salt to taste, and drinking lots of water. Try to relax as much as you can in the next day. The better nourished, hydrated, and rested you are going into this, the better you'll be able to handle it (and the things above may help stabilize your BP a bit too, so you're less "all over the map"). Good luck to you! I know it's not what you've planned. But (having had both a hospital birth and a planned unassisted home birth) if I were in your position (BP uncontrolled and uncontrollable, symptoms of illness), I would do what you're doing too. I wouldn't be happy about it, but if they're seeing signs of pre-eclampsia, it's time to go on. I'm sorry. But it WILL be okay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
staceyobu Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 What # baby was the induction? Every birth is different. I would think having a couple of successful homebirths might make this induction easier. Your body will know what to expect with the whole labor thing. Sorry you are in the hospital! It's a rough way to end a pregnancy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted November 14, 2012 Share Posted November 14, 2012 Checking in to see how you are doing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jpoy85 Posted November 14, 2012 Share Posted November 14, 2012 I would make the best of the hospital birth- labor in the tub, get on the birthing ball, etc. It doesnt have to be bad. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanna Tomlinson Posted November 14, 2012 Share Posted November 14, 2012 :grouphug: I just went through almost this exact scenario and delivered my baby boy on 10/11/12 at 37 weeks 1 day. My water broke while we were trying to decide when to induce, so that decision was made for me. My delivery was great and my bp was fine during labor. I'll be praying for you. It is a good you are having a girl. My little guy was (and still is-5 weeks later) a very sluggish nurser. The pediatrician said most 37 week girls are "ready", but most 37 week boys act more like a preemie. One note of caution.....have your BP checked at 5-6 days postpartum. Apparently it is very common for BP to spike again at this time even if it's normal after delivery. No one told me this, but I felt horrible at 6 days postpartum. I checked my BP and it was 170/110 - higher than it had ever been during my pregnancy highs. I was put on meds to control it, and I've just been able to go off the meds this week. Praying :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexi Posted November 14, 2012 Author Share Posted November 14, 2012 I would make the best of the hospital birth- labor in the tub, get on the birthing ball, etc. It doesnt have to be bad. :grouphug: Ha! The hospitals around here don't have either. I'm taking my own ball. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexi Posted November 14, 2012 Author Share Posted November 14, 2012 Thank you everyone. My midwife came to check me tonight and the baby is doing well. I head in early in the morning to get started. But I'm having quite a few contractions tonight so I'm hoping I'll be in labor before then. My midwife will be checking on me multiple times after delivery so I'll stay on top of BP. Thanks! My first 2 deliveries were inductions and neither were pleasant. I had complications with both. Misery!!! I do hope this time is different. I'm glad my midwife is coming with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted November 14, 2012 Share Posted November 14, 2012 Thank you everyone. My midwife came to check me tonight and the baby is doing well. I head in early in the morning to get started. But I'm having quite a few contractions tonight so I'm hoping I'll be in labor before then. My midwife will be checking on me multiple times after delivery so I'll stay on top of BP. Thanks! My first 2 deliveries were inductions and neither were pleasant. I had complications with both. Misery!!! I do hope this time is different. I'm glad my midwife is coming with me. Praying those contractions pick up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amyrobynne Posted November 14, 2012 Share Posted November 14, 2012 FWIW, my 37w1d baby was the only one healthy enough NOT to need to spend time in the NICU. My first and second babies were born at home, overdue, and had breathing issues. My third was in the hospital, shocking us with his early arrival, and he was totally healthy. Not saying he was healthy because he was in the hospital, but it was a lovely change to go home with the baby after 2 days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexi Posted November 14, 2012 Author Share Posted November 14, 2012 Well while I've had some contractions and spotting, I'm not in active labor yet. We leave for the hospital in about an hour. Time to eat breakfast.... I can't wait to meet my little one but I'm so not looking forward to this. I just am not ready! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted November 14, 2012 Share Posted November 14, 2012 :grouphug: thinking of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexi Posted November 15, 2012 Author Share Posted November 15, 2012 Well after a horrific labor and delivery with bleeding, a partial abruption, a baby with a crashing heart rate, and threats of a C-section, our little one is here. She's been released from the NICU finally and we are in our room. We are both ok and it's truly a miracle. Thanks for your prayers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyhomemaker25 Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 Glad she is here safe and sound. Sorry for the trauma. Praying for peace for you both tonight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanna Tomlinson Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 Well after a horrific labor and delivery with bleeding, a partial abruption, a baby with a crashing heart rate, and threats of a C-section, our little one is here. She's been released from the NICU finally and we are in our room. We are both ok and it's truly a miracle. Thanks for your prayers! :grouphug: I'm so sorry things were so difficult, but I'm glad you are both OK now. BTW- It's OK and normal if you need to cry a little about how things didn't go well. It doesn't mean you aren't completely thankful for a healthy baby. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 Well after a horrific labor and delivery with bleeding, a partial abruption, a baby with a crashing heart rate, and threats of a C-section, our little one is here. She's been released from the NICU finally and we are in our room. We are both ok and it's truly a miracle. Thanks for your prayers! :grouphug: Oh, dear Lexi. . . . . praying for a smooth babymoon as you recover from such a tough delivery. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
texasmama Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 Congratulations! Sorry things went so wrong. You'll have to post photos this weekend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 Yikes! I'm glad all are ok. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 :grouphug:I'm so sorry things were so difficult, but I'm glad you are both OK now. BTW- It's OK and normal if you need to cry a little about how things didn't go well. It doesn't mean you aren't completely thankful for a healthy baby. :grouphug: :iagree: Well said. I am so thankful you are both okay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali in OR Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 Congratulations! What a special Thanksgiving for you all to have your "December" arrival here safe and sound. Blessings to you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barb_ Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 Goodness! Was reading your thread for the first time and it certainly escalated quickly! Congratulations on your little one. Please be gentle with yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugarfoot Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 I'm glad you're both okay! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirch Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 :grouphug: I'm sure that was scary. I'm so glad you're both okay! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ILiveInFlipFlops Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Congratulations! Enjoy your precious new arrival, mama, no matter how she got here! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I am sorry you had a rough time, I am glad everyone is ok. BP can be scary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted November 15, 2012 Share Posted November 15, 2012 Sorry it was a rough one! Glad you are both okay and heading home! Congrats!!!! :party: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewe Mama Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 Congratulations on your sweet baby. May you heal quickly, emotionally and physically. Hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bzymom Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 Congratulations on your healthy little girl! So sorry to hear it was such a scary delivery--rest and heal! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 I'm very sorry things didn't go smoothly. I'm glad your LO is out of the NICU, and you're together as a family. Hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 I'm sorry your daughter's birth didn't go very well. I hope you can get beyond the disappointment and enjoy your little nursling. :grouphug: Can't wait to see photos of your little one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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