This has been my strategy for my kids as well. Coming from the perspective now of a mom with teens, I can tell you it has paid off. I had 16 teenagers in my house for Superbowl. I never know how many boys will come up from my basement for breakfast on Saturdays. I know my teenagers friends very well, and many of them have come to me for "heart-to-hearts" when they need to talk to an adult. Yes, the boys play video games late into the night on Friday nights, but they are good kids, I know who my kids are hanging out with, and they are home a lot more than most teens I know.