Krista in LA Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 I'm a mess. It's prostate cancer, which I know has a pretty good cure rate, and they said it hasn't spread. But, my dad's brother just died of lung cancer a few months ago, and my dad is the same age that my dad's dad was when he died of pancreatic cancer. It's just a bit more than I can handle right now. Besides my dh and my kids, my dad is the most important person in the world to me and I can't imagine not having him around. Please pray for him, and me too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 :grouphug:Big hug and prayers for the two of you.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tree House Academy Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 I sure will say a prayer. I know a man who was diagnosed with prostate cancer 6 years ago now - and it also had not spread. After 6 weeks, he was back to work, never had to take chemo, and is in complete remission. I pray for the same outcome for your dad! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 {{Krista}} My prayers go out to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacqui in mo Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 (edited) My FIL was diagnosed with prostate cancer pretty far along about 7 years ago,. But He's doing well (other than worrying about it too much). That is hard having had several cancer deaths in your father's family. My dad just died of a quick spreading cancer that we don't know the origin of. Cancer just stinks. Prayed for you. (()) Jacqui Edited February 7, 2009 by jacqui in mo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gretchen in NJ Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 I'm a mess. It's prostate cancer, which I know has a pretty good cure rate, and they said it hasn't spread. But, my dad's brother just died of lung cancer a few months ago, and my dad is the same age that my dad's dad was when he died of pancreatic cancer. It's just a bit more than I can handle right now. Besides my dh and my kids, my dad is the most important person in the world to me and I can't imagine not having him around. Please pray for him, and me too. Krista :grouphug: I am so very sorry to hear about your father. My father had prostate cancer 11 years ago. He is still here minus his prostate. If you would like to PM me to chat, please feel free. It is hard to hear that your father has cancer.:grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanga Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 I will be praying for you both. My Dad had prostrate cancer and had to have surgery. He has now been cancer free for 8 years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyof4ks Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 :grouphug: Cancer stinks. Hopefully all will go well with your father's treatment. My FIL had his prostate removed 4 years ago and is doing well, my husband's grandfather was 'seeded' 3 years ago and doing well, and my grandmother's friend was 'seeded' 6 years ago and doing well. The prognosis is good, but it does not make it any less scary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andie Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 I'm very sorry. I will pray! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ria Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 Hang in there, Krista. Prostate cancer is treatable...very much so. The initial cancer diagnosis in a parent is horrible. I well remember when my dad - vibrant, healthy, and, like your dad is to you, one of the most important people in my life - was diagnosed with leukemia 15 years ago. You know what? He's still vibrant, healthy, and doing great. His leukemia is very slow to progress, and has never been treated (there's really no treatment for his type of leukemia). He's 72 now and doing great. I can think about it now without gulping for breath like I did in the first weeks of his diagnosis. We always imagine the worst, you know? I wish you and your dad the best. I'll pray for you. Ria Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamnkats Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 My father's urologist says that each and every man on earth dies with prostate cancer in his body. it is inevitable. The cancer, however, does not kill them. My dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer in (thinking hard) 2006. Last year he was diagnosed with bladder cancer. So far, both are under control. He had radiation and has Lupron shots (for the prostate cancer) and has been doing an oral chemo pill for the bladder cancer. Both cancers are very manageable for him. His doctor says he will die of old age. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jackie in NE Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 ((Krista)) So sorry to hear this. It is HARD to hear this about a parent (or anyone close to us). But I hope you're encouraged by all the stories of success that have been posted here. Hang in there. Praying for you, your Dad, and all your family..... Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 :grouphug::grouphug: Boy, do I understand the fear!! My dad was diagnosed with bladder cancer two years ago. They removed the tumor and did no follow up treatment except that he has to have scans every three months. He's has a couple small tumors removed since. But, he's still vibrant and healthy. I know prostate cancer is different, but both are VERY treatable. Do they know your dad's treatment yet? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Alfred Academy Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 :grouphug: I am sorry to hear this :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wide eyes & laughter Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 :grouphug: Cheryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiguirre Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 Just another voice for being hopeful. My dad was seeded 3 years ago and is doing fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aubrey Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 ((Krista)) Praying for peace for you & health for your dad. And that this thing that should be awful works out to be only good--good time together that you *both* can remember fondly for YEARS to come. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. I have a good friend who had prostate cancer and has fully recovered. Have hope! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tutor Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 I'm sorry. Prayed here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peela Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 A year ago I was in the same position- my dad phoned me to tell me he had prostate cancer. I cried and realised, even though I rarely see him, I would really miss his not being in my life if he died. His had apparently spread a little but hormone therapy is apparently keeping it right in check. And meanwhile, he and his wife are travelling and enjoying their lives to the max. I think it was a wake up call. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sahamamama Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 :grouphug: There aren't any words that can really help at times like this. Hold onto hope and tell your dad how important he is to you. Hang in there! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krista in LA Posted February 8, 2009 Author Share Posted February 8, 2009 Thank you for all the prayers and kind words. I'm very comforted by all of the survival stories and I know statistically his chances are very good. It just hit me exceptionally hard since my uncle died of cancer so recently. My dad hasn't told my siblings or other family yet - I guess he can only handle telling one person a day as he said he was going to call my brother tomorrow, so I didn't really have anyone to talk to besides dh. You all have helped tremendously. Thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garga Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 I can't imagine how you must feel. Pretty low, I guess. Big hugs to you. Wish we could all be with you and give you a shoulder to cry on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenKitty Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 Praying for you and your families. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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