ILiveInFlipFlops Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 There's a tween in our lives who got her first period about 3 months ago (age 11). It was a real, full period. Since then, she's had one or two instances of spotting--rarely enough to make it to the undies, but enough to show on toilet paper. Sometimes the instances of spotting only come a couple of weeks apart, and sometimes they can last on and off for 10-12 days without turning into a full period. I don't remember anything like this from my own childhood (I was also 11 when I had my first period), and my oldest DD was like clockwork for her first year (she was also 11), so I'm not sure whether this is in the range of normal. Does this sound like something for which one should call the GYN? We're worried about missing something important vs. scaring the heck out of a young girl for no reason. Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink and Green Mom Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 I got my period at 11, and had a full period the first time, and then spotting like you are explaining for about 4-6 months (can't remember exactly, except it was never regular) until I got my second full period. I then turned fairly regular IIRC. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SparklyUnicorn Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Normal. I was older, but it was kinda weird like that for awhile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alice Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Very normal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Totally normal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winterbaby Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 It's normal. The system is gradually ramping up to full function. Does she have any of the common "about your body" books for this age, such as Care and Keeping of You? A book that explains all this might put your and her minds at ease. There's also the classic Our Bodies, Our Selves, which is a bit of a tome, but explains everything. It might be a good read for yourself, and for the girls in your life as they get older. But just in case you ever have occasion to take her to the doctor for anything like this, it shouldn't be a gynecologist. Just take her to the pediatrician to talk. It would be an extremely unusual situation that would cause them to proceed to an internal exam. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Normal! Seconding the rec for the Care and Keeping of You. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Normal for at least a year or two. She should see a gyno if she bleeds heavily for more than 10 days out of 30, or if she has debilitating pain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali in OR Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Normal. I have one dd who is very regular now (more than I ever was), but she didn't get her second period until about 10-11 months after the first one. I just wouldn't worry about irregularity or spotting at all for the first year or two. If it was excessive bleeding I would be more inclined to see a doctor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carrie12345 Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Normal, according to my 4th grade health teacher! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JFSinIL Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Normal. Annoying, having to perhaps wear a minipad and carry supplies all the time, but normal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ILiveInFlipFlops Posted August 1, 2017 Author Share Posted August 1, 2017 (edited) Whew! That is a weight off my mind, and it will go a long way toward making her feel less concerned. She's had her own copy of the Care and Keeping of You book for a couple of years now, but I'm not sure what she remembers or even if she actually read it. I'll remind her today and see if she wants to take another pass through it. Thank you all! Edited August 1, 2017 by ILiveInFlipFlops Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caclcoca Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Another vote for normal. I think it took my dd a full year to get "regular." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Completely Normal! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SebastianCat Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Sounds exactly like what happened with my DD. When the next "real" period came after 3 months of irregular spotting, however, it was a doozy. I think it was 11 or 12 days and extremely heavy. Along with reassuring her that this is completely normal, you may want to prepare her that it might show up "heavier than normal" so she doesn't think she's bleeding to death. After that monster of a period, DD became very regular for about a year, then this summer has become more irregular again. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Nyssa Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Sorry, does not sound normal to me. I would take her to a Dr for reassurance. A good doctor is going to be very unlikely to do a GYN exam on such a young person unless really necessary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
displace Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 (edited) It is normal to have irregular cycles at least the first year after starting periods. ETA - the acog (American college of gyn), does recommend an evaluation if no period after 90 days even in adolescence, but it's unlikely to be anything except an anovulatory cycle. I bet their recommendations are to pick up big problems, like pregnancy, hormone disorders, etc, that are unlikely at that age just to make sure. Edited August 1, 2017 by displace 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoutingmom Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Normal. And as mentioned, the next may be very heavy (or might not). And a certain percentage of the population never become clockwork regular until after having a pregnancy... hopefully not the case for her. (I am/was. And I was 35 when my oldest was born.....) Sent from my SM-G903W using Tapatalk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngieW in Texas Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 My oldest had spotty periods for her first couple after the initial period with cycles ranging from 6-10 weeks. My middle dd had regular monthly periods starting from the very first one. My youngest is 19yo and has had irregular periods the whole time. Even now, there will sometimes be several months between them. My periods were very irregular all the way up until I had my first child. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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