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1 hour ago, KrissiK said:

Ok, so this is an interesting observation on the English language.  Here is a line from a book I am reading,

”I mean, the person wore a fisherman’s raincoat and hat, but I suppose it could’ve been a woman. I couldn’t see exactly what they were doing, but that was almost certainly a shovel they were holding.”

The antecedent for the pronoun they was third person-singular, but the prounoun they is third person plural. It is so natural to use that construction that I have never noticed it, but for some reason I did. I think it is because the neuter third person singular pronoun is “it”, which is not used with people, only things.

It is proper to use "he" when you don't know the gender. I know that "they" is commonly used, but it is incorrect. In this excerpt, I would have reworded it somehow if I didn't want to use "he."

I don't think "it" is a neuter third person singular pronoun.

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9 hours ago, Jean in Newcastle said:

“They” is often used now as a third person singular instead of saying “he or she”. 

 

8 hours ago, Ellie said:

It is proper to use "he" when you don't know the gender. I know that "they" is commonly used, but it is incorrect. In this excerpt, I would have reworded it somehow if I didn't want to use "he."

I don't think "it" is a neuter third person singular pronoun.

Yes, I agree it is grammatically incorrect. I think the author may have used this construct a) because it was in conversation and/or b) to emphasize that the gender is unknown or not imply a specific gender. This is a murder mystery (not a great one, but it is lightweight and I need that right now) and the person digging holes was very suspicious and it was important that the detectives not know if it was a man or a woman. We have since found that it was a woman.

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Buenos dias.

With the Mooies situation I think we're staying home. It will be a nice way to avoid the haircut comments. Wow, it's shorter than most women keep it. Did you mean for it to look like that? You are so brave.

Warning: Lotterypo. People are weird. Before I got married MIL told me that if she wins the lottery she will give us $20,000 and if we win we're to do the same. It didn't seem to matter how much we win or what the life situation was, $20,000 was the magic number. SIL said the other day that if she wins the lottery she will not give anything to anybody. If she wins a billion she will not share one cent. I do not understand either of those mentalities.

I dreamt I climbed Mount St Helens and couldn't remember it afterwards and there was something about the hotel having no counters and a chocolate fountain. It was very odd.

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7 minutes ago, Susan in TN said:

I burned my bagel.  I sense a pattern developing here.

Slachey, we want to see your hair!  You feeling OK this morning?  If your MIL wins $1000 in the lottery, will she still give you $20,000?

(((Bagel))) Feeling good. Mary's good. I think everyone is good. Matt and I were sick last night and Babiness is off. I think everyone is fine, but the baby would be miserable in church and I don't want anyone throwing up on the carpet.

I wouldn't tell anyone if I won $1,000, but I think if I won $40,000 she'd expect $20,000.

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10 hours ago, Jean in Newcastle said:

I am speaking to the women of about six small churches in three weeks. I guess I had better start preparing. Anyone want to write out my message?  

"Women: We make things go! Go make things go! And then stop and rest. Love you."

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13 hours ago, Jean in Newcastle said:

“They” is often used now as a third person singular instead of saying “he or she”. 

My college professors would kill me if I ever used they instead of some form of he or she. FWIW, they also highly disliked defaulting to he. It was considered sexist. You either used he or she or you could sometimes use he and sometimes use she. One was frowned upon as pretentious.

4 hours ago, KrissiK said:

 

Yes, I agree it is grammatically incorrect. I think the author may have used this construct a) because it was in conversation and/or b) to emphasize that the gender is unknown or not imply a specific gender. This is a murder mystery (not a great one, but it is lightweight and I need that right now) and the person digging holes was very suspicious and it was important that the detectives not know if it was a man or a woman. We have since found that it was a woman.

I bet she used the construct because she's bad at grammaring. 

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Baby slept for 12+ hours last night. I was convinced he must be sick but he's not. He's suddenly kicked his separation anxiety up to a 1000 on a scale of 1-10. That also convinced me he was getting sick yesterday, but when nobody else was home today, because he slept in, he was fine and happy, and when people came back and I tried to get him to play with anyone else he became insanely clingy again. He just loves his mama. :wub:

I still have hickies all over my forehead. I was happy to skip church while Baby slept. :laugh:

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2 hours ago, Slache said:

 

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What the carp?!?  YOU did that?  Get over here right now and make MY hair look good!!  (i.e. Love it! How do you get that nice swoopiness?)

It's the Gorgeous Slache Booya!


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21 minutes ago, Susan in TN said:

What the carp?!?  YOU did that?  Get over here right now and make MY hair look good!!  (i.e. Love it! How do you get that nice swoopiness?)

It's the Gorgeous Slache Booya!

:wub:

My hair just does that. My hair does whatever it wants. I have no say. The down side is that it always looks the same, but I'll take that in exchange for it always looking somewhere between reasonable and fabulous.

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The girls and I went to the Big City for a shopping trip. I love shopping with my girls. They are so pleasant. Oldest DD has very good taste in clothes, too. She’s a natural.

We had lunch at In n Out.  When we have the ITT Convention in California, i’ll Have them cater. We sat by a group of college kids and this one blow hard was waxing eloquently about the Borgias and late 15th Century Italy and the Pope and I’m like, “What? Seriously?”

 

Well, my COFFEE~Dis ready.

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