Tammi K Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 So sorry this is happening to you. I don't have anything extra to add to the advice you've already received. But, as you can tell, lots of other women have shared your pain. Just know that there are lots of us thinking of you and hoping and praying for peace for you.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El... Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 I'm so sorry. I'm praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Element Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Danielle, I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sbgrace Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. The further along you are the worse the cramping can be. I have had painless misses with little bleeding to very painful ones. One thing though, I hemorrhaged with one miss and had no pain whatsoever. You definitely want to pay attention to the amount of bleeding, and if it is that painful, then going to the ER may help with that. :grouphug: Please let yourself grieve. :grouphug: again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StaceyinLA Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 I agree that a call to the dr. or trip to the ER is in order. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyhomemaker25 Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 I was only about 4-5 weeks with mine, but it was horrible pain. I took a pain pill, sat in a recliner with a heating pad and netflix on my Kindle. I am so sorry! At 10w I would probably make sure to follow up with a Dr and make sure everything came out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 I'm sorry Danielle -- is your mom there? Have they moved out there yet?:grouphug: The same thing happened to me a long time ago when dd33 was only 6 or 7 mos old. I was ten wks pg, and started spotting -- the blood was brown, which the OB said meant it was 'old' blood, but he was totally honest and told me I was threatening to miscarry. During the night, I woke with horrendous cramping -- worse than labor as there was no pattern to it and the cramps were just as strong as labor -- I was bleeding bright red blood - we went to the ER. My ob did a d and c, I went home a few days later. I waited through two good cycles and then tried again. DD will be 32 in one month.:001_smile: Be kind to yourself, rest, dtay off your feet, and grieve as you need to. Love and prayers.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Peach Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
********* Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Thinking of you this morning, Danielle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danybug Posted June 11, 2012 Author Share Posted June 11, 2012 Thank you everyone for all of your prayers and concern! It means a lot to have a great group of ladies supporting me!!! I went in and had blood work drawn this morning and when the results come back they said they would decide what to do this afternoon. I know so many ladies on here have been through this and most even multiple times. I truly can't imagine. When I was walking in to get the blood work two new moms were being wheeled out of the hospital with their new precious babes. It hit me then how disappointed I am. I know I must keep all my trust in the Lord and His greater plan for our family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. I'm glad you are able to view this as part of God's plan, but that doesn't mean that you're not entitled to grieve this loss, and to feel sad and angry and everything in between. And whatever you do, please don't look for reasons to blame yourself for what happened, because there is nothing you could have done to prevent this from happening. Praying for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Thank you everyone for all of your prayers and concern! It means a lot to have a great group of ladies supporting me!!! I went in and had blood work drawn this morning and when the results come back they said they would decide what to do this afternoon. I know so many ladies on here have been through this and most even multiple times. I truly can't imagine. When I was walking in to get the blood work two new moms were being wheeled out of the hospital with their new precious babes. It hit me then how disappointed I am. I know I must keep all my trust in the Lord and His greater plan for our family! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KidsHappen Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluechicken Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 Been thinking about you all day. Hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mama2Many4 Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 I'm very sorry. I had a pregnancy a few months ago that was a chemical pregnancy. It was very hard for me even though I was not far along like you. It hurts. You're in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zoo Keeper Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anoncalhan Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Nyssa Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 Just sending more :grouphug: in your direction. As was already said... you're right that God has a wonderful plan for your family, but even knowing that... it's okay, and even healthy, to grieve the loss. Thinking of you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LucyStoner Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 I am so sorry. I had several mc which completed on their own, followed by a D&C for a missed mc (where the embryo or fetus has died but a mc doesn't start) and then last year, I had another missed mc. I did not want to deal with another D&C or wait any longer and just have it happen suddenly anywhere I might happen to be so my midwife prescribed misoprostol and I was able to be at home in private. That is an option for completing a miscarriage if someone does not want to have surgery. Again, I am so sorry. This is not an easy thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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