I have yelled at him more times than I care to admit today. He is fixing to be 14, and already thinks he knows it all. On top of that, he has no respect for ANYONE other than his father. He is very selfish and immature. Can you tell I am at the end of my line?
If he doesn't get his way, he screams and throws a fit. He sat on my 3yo "naughty step" for TWO hours today. I told him if he was going to act like a toddler, I would treat him like one. He started out with 15 minutes on the step and every time he made a snide comment (this isn't fair, you just don't like me, I shouldn't have to sit here, etc) he got 15 minutes added. After a while, he got the point.
He is extremely obnoxious and loud and NO ONE likes being around him. My DH took the 3yp out on the lake tonight and he said he didn't want to come home because of Wyatt. I hear it all day "Wyatt, Wyatt, Wyatt".
Let me explain this: Wyatt is his father's "golden child". Let's him do whatever he wants, caters to his whims, lets him rule the roost so to say. Even his grandmother (Ex-H Mom) treats Wyatt like that. So, he has this sense of entitlement. THAT DOES NOT FLY AT MY HOUSE. Everyone has the same expectations, the same treatment, and the same consequences.
I have nothing to ground him from as he has nothing he cares about. I have made him do extra chores and it doesn't seem to phase him. He is making us ALL miserable.
They are here until the end of June, and then they go back out on the road to Rodeo. So, counseling is not possible. We need a QUICK fix before we are all crazy.
Anyone???