My 13yo daughter was very destructive when she was that age. It was never in a malicious way, she just got absorbed in something and before you could snap your fingers she had destroyed something (a wall, the carpet, furniture). My problem at the time was that when she was 4, I also had a 1yo and a 2yo, along with three older kids. Basically, the house we lived in at the time looked horrible (at least to me). I lived through it and she outgrew it.
I have to say, that same child still has more interests than I could ever juggle. She has you-tube channels doing make-up with many subscribers, she has an ebay business, she cooks better than I do, she dances, taught herself piano, she takes tennis lessons, etc. She is a very bright, accomplished girl. She is no longer destructive, but still very creative. Hang in there. This stage will not last forever. :001_smile: