I do most of my shopping on-line. Books are easy and well received, as are a number of gift cards, flowers and specialty food gifts.
The on-line shopping has blessed me with a break from shopping, wrapping, packing, boxing, and then mailing to extended family.
Delegate...My my dd loves wrapping the gifts here at the house, and my ds will help if asked.
I'm willing to go out of my way not to stress during the winter. I've even gone so far as to refuse to drive up to the in-laws...They are welcome here, but would never consider driving during football season! LOL They really think I'm a stinker about this.;)