:grouphug: prayers :grouphug:

OP...If you haven't read the book BOUNDARIES by Cloud and Townsend... You should read it; it would help you whether you choose to go or stay away. Many libraries have a copy; I'd loan you mine if you were nearby. :grouphug:

Being the better person does not mean you have to subject yourself to disrespect and more abuse. The whole situation just makes me sad. On whether I would go or not, the fact that your family had plans with you and then changed them without consulting you...That would make me feel unvalued, loved, respected; and it would be a big reality check / heads up that this is how they will treat you and expect you to take it because they place your sisters feelings and love above yours. (My impression from reading is that your (mean-sister isn't the one wanting to makeup, but that your family wants to pretend everything is all good for the holiday.) I should probably delete this post, but I think you should only go if it's what you really want, while realizing that things are going to be the way they are. :grouphug:

:grouphug: I would also call your midwife or Dr. My sister stopped two with the help of her doctor. It's been a long time, but I remember an IV with meds, then a daily progesterone and baby aspirin. My thoughts and prayers are with you. :grouphug:

Our local Walmart's do keep a list at customer service. This past week I left behind a nightlight and two lightbulbs. I called, they checked the binder...said the items were there and to come in with my receipt anytime. No big deal, no special trip.

:grouphug: I think people generally feel empathy, wish they could find a way to help or some words to comfort, but other than listening there isn't really anything they can do in many situations. It's easy to say the wrong thing even when your heart wants to help. I have also grown to understand that anger is an easier emotion to deal with than helpless fear and worry. That could be why some of the comments cut so deeply and we react to them by getting angry with people who can't find the right words to comfort.

Hope your recovery is swift and complete. Btw...add 5 more stars

Just read your latest update...I'll just continue to pray here.

Ignore... (Disclaimer, I don't use FB.)

:grouphug: Just read your op and update. I'll keep your ds in my prayers, and the rest of you including his medical team. :grouphug:

She is just in a pretty normal panic mode; remind her that it is temporary and she needs qualified people to care for her and speed her recovery. I agree with seeing if they have a social worker or patient advocate and getting a new roommate or a single room if possible.

:grouphug: No real knowledge, but I hope it goes well.

I missed the original thread you posted. Very strange, I've never heard of that.

You mention not doing well under pressure... You might jot down your questions and a few answers for those asked of you. Remember you can always end the call at anytime. Let us know how it goes. :grouphug:

Late reading this, but hoping it turns out to be one of those paper-work-pitas and not a tragedy for the kiddos. :grouphug:

:smash: I know, I know why. Waving my hand madly! :smash: They are doing it for the same reason you are...It's easier, prep, no clean up a true time saver. Purchase the big bags and have them bag them in the serving sizes; it could save your sanity.

:grouphug: Luanne :grouphug: sending prayers for you.

Congratulations to you all. :hurray:

:grouphug: I'm sorry :crying: . :grouphug:

Dog abuse and neglect should be reported imo.

Why don't you just say that :thumbup1: ?

Imofwiw, you need to let it go. He isn't going to convince you and you sure aren't going to convince him. You don't need convincing reasons to disagree; it's your business. Agree to disagree...

Since you are sort of on speaking terms, I would want to go over there and (hear) what she is complaining about. My vote is something else in her home needs attention and might be an easy remedy and relief for both of you. It sounds a bit nutty for regular kid/people sound to jump from one single-family home to the next one. You might suggest she invest in sound proofing as your family is simply living in your home. Btw...her pounding on the door would drive me batty.

:grouphug: That stinks for the kids.

:iagree: Op, I agree it is irritating, and will be 100 times worse when the plows are out and the plow-driver avoids clearing your walking / parking / available clear road space and of course getting out safely. Blocking the mailbox would bug me a lot esp. in the winter or raining days, when I sometimes pick up the mail from my car window on the way home. I think you parking :auto: there is an easy way to let them find another spot to park in and hopefully they will develop the habit of parking somewhere else permanently.