NCMom Posted September 15, 2014 Author Share Posted September 15, 2014 Agreeing with others... I can't believe the drs. are hounding her about this. It is her choice. This makes me mad. The doctor is bordering on being cruel. I know it is too soon as things are raw...but I highly, highly recommend that everyone read "How We Die". The author (a doctor) discusses his own personal epiphany (after some horrible experiences) that doctors often do more harm than good at the end of life. This is in part because they themselves are hounded by the hospital admins. if they lose a patient. Anyway, I can't emphasize it enough.. it's a very helpful book as we all face these issues with our loved ones. Be your mom's advocate... and love her. It can't be easy to say no in the face of such promises. :grouphug: edited to add the book link. Forgot to say thank you for the book recommendation. I am ordering for me and one for each sister. It looks very helpful. Georgia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reefgazer Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 I'm glad to hear you found doctors who are treating you and your mom with more respect. I am still sorry for your troubles and her condition, but at least she has respectful doctors now. Good luck to you both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FloridaLisa Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Georgia, Your mom is so fortunate to have you looking out and advocating for her. Best wishes during this time with her. :grouphug: Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 I'm sorry that you are losing your mom, and also glad that her end-of-life wishes are going to be respected. I know it's a difficult time, but if you can manage it, I would definitely consider writing letters to the state medical board, the hospital, and his practice (assuming he's in a group and not solo). It may prevent him from treating other patients this way in the future. ((Hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCMom Posted December 11, 2014 Author Share Posted December 11, 2014 Well here we are in the Hospice House. She has had some issues at home but managed to bounce back each time. She was up and about yesterday but took a turn for the worse last night. We are probably looking at the end or close to it. I just wanted to thank you ladies for the reassurances, especially about Hospice. They have been the most amazing organization. Her three months since diagnosis have been good and this has been due mostly to the Hospice staff. What a blessing they have been. Georgia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 ((Georgia)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsinkable Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 Georgia, You and your family will be in my thoughts. Love and hugs as you travel through these days with your lovely mom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsuga Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 I am sorry but I hope my kids stand up for me like you stood up for her. Your family and mom especially are in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurie4b Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 I am glad that you and your mother have had the support that you have needed. Grace and peace to you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PuddleJumper1 Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Thinking of you as you walk this path with your mom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luckymama Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seasider Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 Edited Georgia, I posted before realizing this was updated. Praying for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 :grouphug: I will keep you all in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reefgazer Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 I'm glad hospice has helped you. I hope this transition is peaceful for you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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