I am in that boat with you. I will be 40 this year. I have a 13, a 6 and a 10 week old. C/sections for all three. #3 was a surprise after 6 years of no prevention.
During the last delivery the Doc looked over the drape and said no more. Too much scar tissue. I am having a hard time with it. Although, with it taking years for me to get pregnant it is unlikely I would have another anyway.
Hubby is done. He was done after 2. So I get no empathy there. I just feel so sad. Praying for all our mother's hearts that long for more.