Alenee Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 I've realized over the years that when I'm dealing with something I feel angry, sad, hurt, confused about, I clean. I just spent the last two hours cleaning because of feelings of unrest. Dh is not at peace with the decision to take the traveling position I posted about (3days on 4days off and vice versa in Utah, flying home for days off). He;s in such turmoil whenever he comes home from work. He begins going to Utah in a week. I think he wants to try for the job closer to home even with all it's imperfections. I just don't know how to encourage him. While I do not have peace over him taking the job closer to home I told him I'd support him if he wants to apply. I just know if he doesn't go through the process and something goes wrong with Utah, he's going to beat himself up and say, "I shoulda...." My cleaning frenzy now has me feeling drained. And now I have to cook. blech! I'm ready for a vacation!:glare: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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