this is very good advice. I have the book you mentioned. Some kids take longer to come around, especially if they have had years to build up into the behaviour habits. Sometime time out has to be enforced by mom forcefully holding the child in their laps. (Can you sit in timeout by yourself, or do you need mom's help?) And you know what? I have had time periods where I let EVERYTHING in the house go except the child training. It didn't matter what I was doing, I would immediately drop it for a "child training boot camp."