I just got over the hump with my ds.
Instead of asking, we just went every hour or so. I was trained not him, but it was better than diapers.
For poop, we had a hard time with that, cleaning out poopy pants every day for 6 months. He finally got to where he would tell me, but was too scared to go on the toilet. Finally when he said he had to go, I'd put him on the toilet. nothing. So instead of putting drawers back on him, I'd put him in the tub. For whatever reason he would not poop in the tub and finally would yell "mom, I need to poop!" Then I'd plop him on the commode and he'd finally go.
Don't know if that helps but believe me , I've been there. I hate potty training!!!!!