MOCA Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 for under $40? I need gift ideas as the couple is not registered, lives out of town and aren't saying what they might need.... Thanks! Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 House hold tools. Hammer, screw drivers, tape measure, various picture-hanging hardware, utility knife, duct tape. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natalieclare Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 Well, we were poor young students at the time of our wedding, so cold hard cash was our favorite gift. :D And we really did value the thoughtful cards with a personal story of early married life or a memory associated with us. :) for under $40? I need gift ideas as the couple is not registered, live out of town and aren't saying what they might need.... Thanks! Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Darn. I was all set to type 'down payment for a house' and then I saw the whole $40 bit. Hmmmm.....Well, some folks are against cash for gifts....but it has never once offended me. :) Probably depends on how well you know them. I don't usually gift cash only to close friends or relatives. If I don't know them well, and dont' want to give cash, I find crystal wine glasses are always a hit. Or beautiful picture frames.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christy B Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Pitchers (for water, iced tea, etc) Casual silverware We registered for china, crystal, nicer silverware -- but we totally forgot to think about everyday silverware or pitchers. So, those thoughtful folks who gave us those items, even though we had neglected to register for them, are remembered to this day. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy in Orlando Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 1. Cash 2. Home Depot or some similar gift card 3. Picture frames - you always need those Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KristineIN Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 One thing that I love that we got was just a nice plain large mirror. I now find a nice mirror and give that as a gift. It's something useful that people don't think about buying, or a nice wall hanging. Kristine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura K (NC) Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 My parents told folks who asked that we had no furniture and we could use cash. Many didn't ask and we got some things that were really personally chosen, instead of just picked off a list. We very much loved the cash, though. We didn't take a honeymoon, and it was a small wedding. I don't know why cash wouldn't be appreciated. I thought that custom of dancing with the bride for a buck was supposed to raise some cash. Horrid custom, by the way, :rolleyes: , but the need for money is real, and it certainly is the easiest thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdWTMer Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 I would say that a gift certificate to Amazon might be nice. They have the grocery thing too now. I don't know what I would have preferred as a wedding gift. Hmmm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cin Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Measuring cups & spoons. ALthough if they are out of town, maybe just a gift card to Linen's and Things, Bed Bath adn Beyond, or Target. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalicoKat Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 1. A really good cookbook that has the basics covered in plain english. I didn't know how to cook. :rolleyes: Like how to boil potatoes, cook rice, bake a chicken, make a white sauce, etc. 2. 2nd set of sheets 3. cash Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy in Orlando Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Candlesticks. Pretty candles. I had a friend tell everyone to get me things of beauty; she told them I would get what I needed for myself but that I wouldn't buy beautiful things. I was so glad for her telling them that. I've been married 26 years now, and when I pull out one of the beautiful things I got, I think of the person who gave it. But I've long-ago tossed the measuring cups and slotted spoons. Excellent advice! And very true. I have some candlesticks that just thrill me to death when I have a chance to use the. Same with a pair of ridiculously expensive wine goblets what we use 2-3 times a year. There is much to be said for beauty - even when it doesn't seem practical. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Candlesticks. Pretty candles. I had a friend tell everyone to get me things of beauty; she told them I would get what I needed for myself but that I wouldn't buy beautiful things. I was so glad for her telling them that. I've been married 26 years now, and when I pull out one of the beautiful things I got, I think of the person who gave it. But I've long-ago tossed the measuring cups and slotted spoons. I was all set for agreeing with the measuring spoons, cookbooks, etc. However, this is a very good point. My crystal pieces that I received as a wedding gift are things I still own and I *do* think about those people, some of whom are no longer with us. Of course, I bought my best friend a fish cookie jar that she still owns but I knew she would love it. So, yes, things that are lasting that will make a connection, I love that idea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdWTMer Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Aaah. But seriously can you get really nice ones for under 40 dollars? I do agree with Patty Joanna by the way. That would have been really nice to have! I do love the vase that a friend got us from Europe. It is beautiful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MOCA Posted March 7, 2008 Author Share Posted March 7, 2008 All of these ideas are excellent! Thanks so much for helping me find a wedding gift that will truly be appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plaid Dad Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Cash or gift cards to practical stores (Target) were much appreciated when we were starting out. (Heck, we still like 'em!) :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynn Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 steak knife set, A nice set of cassarole dishes with lids, Pampered Chef's cooking stone, a nice mantel clock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snickerdoodle Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 How about a really nice pasta bowl or a really nice bread basket? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AudreyTN Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 One of my friends got married about 2 years after I did. I got her a clothes hamper filled with: paper towels, dish soap, laundry detergent... there was more but this was a long time ago :) Stuff like that. Things you don't normally get and NEED to buy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KristineIN Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Do you have a Hobby Lobby? They have lovely decor type stuff. That's where I always get a mirror, when they are 50% off I can get a NICE mirror for about $20.00 Have fun! Kristine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danestress Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 for under $40? I need gift ideas as the couple is not registered, lives out of town and aren't saying what they might need.... Thanks! Janet One thing I have loved for years has been a "Christmas Memory" book. It had pages on which to record 20 Christmases - who was there, how we celebrated, what we ate, special presents, a family photo, the card we sent out. I love it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacey in MA Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 My mom is attending a bridal shower this week and is giving a good stick blender. I think it was around $50, but she had the 20% off coupon for Linens and Things (which is always floating around somewhere online or in the mailbox). So it was right around that $40 mark. She is big fan of these recently - awesome for making soups and such, making smoothies, mixing sauces, etc. She bought me one for my birthday and I really like it! I also second any other kitchen gagetry! We've been married 10 years and there's so many things we've picked up for ourselves along the way that would have made life easier right from the start - 15"x10" baking pan with lid (use it all the time!), 2 crock pots, bundt cake pan and round cake carrier, tons of utensils like bread knives, measuring cups/spoons, etc. Hey, maybe a Pampered Chef gift or certificate? Let me know if you want the name a PC person - my friend sells it. Anyway, have fun and GL! Let us know what you decide on! :-) - Stacey in MA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwen in TX Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 We received an ice chest with blue "freezer thingies", and a few picnic items (plastic containers that fit in the ice chest, 2 bamboo plate holders to put the paper plates in, 2 plastic cups). We used that for years. We received a lovely photo album. The person happened to be a one of my wedding showers, so she filled the first few pages with photos from that shower. We received a lovely glass pitcher (from the potteries near Williamsburg). 28 years later, I still use 2 of these, and remember the person who gave them. What I give now (dh works at a college, and we get invited to everyone's wedding) - a set of 11 X 13 casserole (Pyrex type) dishes with some of my favorite recipes on recipe cards for the young bride to make. Usually if we go to a wedding, the kids have been to our home for several visits and know some of my favorites are worth trying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MOCA Posted March 7, 2008 Author Share Posted March 7, 2008 One thing I have loved for years has been a "Christmas Memory" book. Do you happen to know where these are sold or who the publisher is? Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cin Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 I think what you give depends on teh couple. We were literally starting from scratch, both of us lived at home until we got married....We got some crystal vases, candlesticks and beautiful Picture Frames, and 7 electic skillets (we did not register for one at all!). While the stuff was nice, at that time we had NO use for it at all. We returned it and finished out our flatware and every day dish set, and bought some other needed items. (curtains, bed pillows, knife set, etc). But again, we were 22, young and naive (and really didn't have refined taste!) I do have a couple of friends who were older when they got married. They had lived on their own and were not in the survival mode that we were in. They received some crystal, picture frames and such, and displayed them beautifully. (I still don't know what I would do with candelsticks, I've tried different types a couple of times and it just doesn't work for us!!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. H. Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Well, if the people getting married have lived alone, or are older than 'still living at home' age, I would get them something beautiful, like crystal, china, or a nice wall hanging. If the couple is young or they have been living at home, I would get a gift card to Target, Wal-Mart, Linens n' Things, etc. The reason I say this is because I was 18 and dh was 24 when we got married, and we had both been living at home. There were tons of basic things we needed and didn't have...we actually had to go to Wal-Mart and buy shower curtains, trash cans, bath mats, etc. the night we came home from our honeymoon, because we hadn't even considered needing them. Young people often find out they need things through trial and error, and starting out from scratch can be very expensive when you're both young and in college. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mamagistra Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Of course, I bought my best friend a fish cookie jar that she still owns but I knew she would love it. :D I, too, bought a cookie jar for a friend who married...it was Marvin the Martian! (The jar, not the friend. LOL) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy in NH Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 a really nice, hardcover cookbook Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom2jnb Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 I received a "completed scrapbook" no pictures but highlighted holidays and events of the year so all I had to do was add pictures. We loved that. I also received a ton of various shapes, sizes and styles of picture frames...it was super cool. A large crockpot with recipes for slow cooker meals....IMO, Everyone could use a crockpot and if they didn't register they may not get one. You could do a laundry basket with laundry detergent, stain remover, softener, bleach, etc. A mixer with baking items. A big vase with beautiful flowers and maybe a gift card to a florist for another bouquet of flowers. A cleaning basket with household cleaners. Or a pail with items in it. My sister always cross stitches a sampler with the last name on it...it is always appreciated. Good luck, Alison Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K&Rs Mom Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 I've given a few couples a picnic set - it comes in a basket or backpack and has the plates, cups, silverware, etc already inside. Some even include a picnic blanket. You can find them at places like Target or Bed Bath & Beyond, but they're seasonal so I'm not sure exactly when they're out. Or if they like coffee, you could put together a basket with mugs, a grinder & a few packages of really good coffee (or tea). A small fondue set and fondue cookbook was one of my favorite gifts, even though we rarely use it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyAberlin Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 No picture frames. I can't tell you how many picture frames I got at mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacia Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Nice windchime for outside. Galileo thermometer -- these used to be super-expensive, but I think you can get a nice one these days for $30-$40. One of the most unique things we got as a wedding gift was an assortment of movie videos (from a movie-buff coworker) -- kind of fun & unique. Or, you could send some music cds as a variation on this. I'd say no on picture frames & vases too. We just got way too many of them. Someone mentioned a very basic cookbook -- Fannie Farmer's cookbook is great for that (my mom gave me one, lol). I won't admit how many times I had to look up how long to boil an egg before I finally remembered! Anyway, it's been useful (but I still don't like to cook). If they have a fireplace or live somewhere where it has cooler weather, maybe a nice mantle box w/ long matches, etc... (?) Another thing we got (but never used) was a backpack picnic set. Could be a nice idea for the right couple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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