So, yesterday, the neurologist told us that dd4's EEG showed very slow brain activity & that she is severely developmentally delayed. He also said that she will not be "functional" as a "normal" child. He also based his diagnosis on observing her and asking for our input. While this was not a surprise for us, the words are still painful and difficult to digest. When we adopted her, we were not aware of the significance of her delays...all we were told that was that she is visually impaired (which she is.) Right now I am feeling anger and sadness, in addition to just being plain overwhelmed. I love my daughter, but I feel like I've been blindsided. I am really struggling with this. Any advice and encouragement would be appreciated.