What a b*tch. Like everyone has said already, SHE is the one with a problem, definitely NOT you. Do not give her the CD or any photos. Try your hardest to find contact details for Molly and/or NJ and send a few of the best photos.
I just can't get over the fact that while you were CRYING from what she was saying, she still thought it appropiate to further belittle you. What a cruel, manipulative heartless b*tch and I agree with a previous poster, pity her poor husband!!