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Oh man. I find four year olds are the biggest jerks even as they're adorable and awesome. It's all the things all at once. Five is like a magical age in this house where they turn back into somewhat predictable, normal human beings again :D

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I havea and a four, plus a baby. They aren't bad, but I'm exhausted. So many questions. So much touching. So much working through emotions. So much shrill laughter. They really are great, but out ours so much. I have to constantly remind myself not to overreact to that one more question that tries to tip me over the edge.

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Yep. And my 3yo is by far the easiest of my three children. And my other two weren't even difficult.

 

And on top of the normal 3yo volume control issues and hair-pulling stubbornness, he has a mouth on him! He rolls his eyes and says stuff like, "Whatever, mom, you're being ridiculous," when I won't give him what he wants.

 

Like, can we get through the shoe-refusal and must-have-the-red-bowl before the snotty remarks start?

 

Oh, the questions. I don't want to be asked (or non-asked, that drives me insane too) anything else today. And he has a cold which amplifies everything and makes me feel guilty about wanting to run screaming down the street.

 

I have a teeth-gritting headache from today.

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When DD was three, I had to remind her brothers, "we don't argue with 3 year olds" . But then it turned into 4 year olds, and now it's just "we don't argue with sister". 😂 She's a bit on the sassy and dramatic side.

 

But, yeah, three years olds are the most adorably terrifying creatures on earth.

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I can't wait for 3. Dd2 is my most challenging child and I am less patient in general with that kind of challenge than I was when the older kids were little. Every so often she reaches a new level of reasonableness, and I think we are going to make it. I enjoy her so much more now than I did six months ago. Of course, we had a bath during school hours today because she got into the peanut butter and got it all over herself the bathroom. I can't wait for 3.

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2 was so easy. I had a weirdly agreeable two year old this time. 3 is all "I do it myself!" and going from being a ridiculously good sleeper to fighting it. She's an easy kid, I can't complain. And four and five will be questions, questions, answering a million questions a day. That gets exhausting.

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Four is not better, though she has stopped biting. Still not sleeping through the night. I'm so worn out. The talking. The touching. Add to that an actual teenager (who's become just bat crap nuts), a toddler, and a tween boy (who better not turn to the dark side or I will cry)... I want quiet. And a nap.

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