sheryl Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 I may be "overstepping" here, but my compassion for this woman and her ordeals lead me to think "outside the box". Joanne and any other Texans close to you....gulp (this could be awkward....I hope not....forgive me please if it is)....is there anyone of you that could "take in" Joanne and her kids? A roof over their heads. It seems to me that if the opportunity came along, then maybe Joanne could work part-time or 2 part-time jobs - whatever she decides. Perhaps she and the other Mom could alterate kid sitting, etc. The other Mom may be able to do some light schooling until J can finish up during whatever time she can. On the other hand, J money would go further to pay someone room/board (rent). She should have a little money left over to start "saving" up. We're in NC so I'm sorry I can't help, Joanne. Truly, I do hope this is not taken the wrong way. My cousin and her 2 kids live with her mother after a divorce. She and her 2 toddler kids share the same bedroom which is about an 8 X 11 living quarter. If you can help, please pm Joanne! Joanne, I hope this was not offensive. Please know that is *not* my intent. I just believe people need to be creative and work together here. Prayers for you! Sheryl <>< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 (edited) What a sweet post! Can I direct the prayer focus more specifically? 1) That the children are served in their best interest during the psychological evaluation and with the professionals involved over the next months. 2) That DH get a job that matches his experience and ability. 3) That I be able to have the focus and energy to continue in my work, mothering, school and homeschool. 4) That I not have to put the kids in school and/or drop my own schooling. We waited 3 years for me to go to school trying to get the "right time". We finally decided that I neeed to just do it so that eventually, I can work for more than minimum wage. 5) That the hours between now and my first appointment with the Psychologist are not terribly draining. I have to prepare our "side", documetation, etc. 6) That we get the money to keep the house! It seems to me that if the opportunity came along, then maybe Joanne could work part-time or 2 part-time jobs - whatever she decides. Perhaps she and the other Mom could alterate kid sitting, etc. The other Mom may be able to do some light schooling until J can finish up during whatever time she can. FYI, I have 2 jobs. :) One is homeschooling other children, although one family is dropping in time and payment due to their own finanicial situation. I also run poker tournaments for a free league in the Houston area for $300 a week. I work 28 hours a week on this job. (Fortunately,I can do my school work and plan and grade for the homeschool during parts of it.) Edited December 26, 2009 by Joanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted December 26, 2009 Author Share Posted December 26, 2009 Joanne! Whichever way you feel "led".....keep us posted!! Sheryl <>< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 :grouphug: Praying Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest janainaz Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 Praying for you, Joanne. Your post last night was heavy on my heart. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PollyOR Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 Praying here too. :) :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 Praying and will write a pm later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted December 26, 2009 Author Share Posted December 26, 2009 Thanks all for your prayers for J. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
usetoschool Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 Praying for peace for you as the mom and wife - that you can be the eye of the storm and get your family through this. You seem like a strong, well grounded person and I am sure you can do this, I just pray that you will receive a sense of calm that everything will work out, that you will be OK and that you will know how to move forward and what to do next. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayle in Guatemala Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 I've been praying and will continue to pray. Now I can pray more specifically. I wish there was something more "tangible" I could do, but, not at this time. Blessings to you Joanne and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted December 26, 2009 Author Share Posted December 26, 2009 up, up on the list :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2abcd Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 :lurk5: Praying for you and your family, Joanne. God cares. I hope you feel the love of your brothers and sisters in Christ. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 Bumping this. I have spent the day preparing a notebook for the evaluator. Since our next court date isn't until nearly Summer, I had promised myself (for the sake of family, sanity, homeschool clients) that I would not dwell on this issue, let it consume me, etc. I've done quite well with it (really!) Today was unavoidable, though. I had to slog through emails, history, info on abuse, stuff from the deposition.....it was very difficult. The testing is tomorrow. The individual appointments start after that. XH has the kids this week, and I am guessing his appointment with the kids is this week. I told them when they talk with the Dr. by themselves to not tell him what I want to hear, or not what their Dad wants to hear but their truth. Looking through this stuff is unbelievable. It seems so glaringly insane (not on my part :lol:;)). I've got to trust that one Family Law Professional already evaluated the information in our favor and HE is the one who chose this Dr. (although he didn't think it was necessary). I still don't have the financial answers to my situation. I should add, however, that the courts insisted that xh pay for the psych eval. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jillian Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 praying for you and your family. i wish i could help but i'm in WA state Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 If I can help, dear friend, let me know. Your friends over on TeachingMom are also praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anne in CA Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 I have been praying since the Christmas post, and I will continue. These times in life are hard, but God does come through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 Back from testing. 4 hours of filling out questiionnaires on the kids are various forms of: 1) I sometimes feel numbness in my hands. 2) Sometimes I get so angry I want to smash something. 3) I have thoughts so bad I can't share them with anyone. 4) I am afraid of open spaces. 5) I usually do not offer my opinion on a topic when asked. :lol: 723 questions; variations on a theme. No aliens, but yes, I do feel someone is plotting against me. :auto: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 Still praying Joanne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauraGB Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 At least that's out of your way now. Forgive me if its obvious, but why in the world would they need to know if you have numbness in your hands? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asta Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 Back from testing. 4 hours of filling out questiionnaires on the kids are various forms of: 1) I sometimes feel numbness in my hands. 2) Sometimes I get so angry I want to smash something. 3) I have thoughts so bad I can't share them with anyone. 4) I am afraid of open spaces. 5) I usually do not offer my opinion on a topic when asked. :lol: 723 questions; variations on a theme. No aliens, but yes, I do feel someone is plotting against me. :auto: MMPI - a - rama! (if it makes you feel any better, the first and last time I ever took one, I answered all of the questions I knew the answer to, rather than just the ones which pertained to me -- I came out looking like Charles Manson... I'm sure you and your kids will come out smelling like roses). a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 I have no idea of the back story *been off line a bit* but I pray all goes as it should for you, Joanne! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Wife Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 Praying that 2010 brings you fewer challenges and more joy. Remember that God won't give you any cross too heavy to bear with His help! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean too Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 Praying for your family, Joanne. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 Joanne, I'm sorry for your hardships. I don't think I'm aware of all of them due to my sporadic attendance here the past month. I pray things turn around soon and God bless your family. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted December 28, 2009 Author Share Posted December 28, 2009 :grouphug: Joanne! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted December 28, 2009 Share Posted December 28, 2009 Here's a link for those who want the back story. http://www.welltrainedmind.com/forums/showthread.php?t=145334 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted December 29, 2009 Share Posted December 29, 2009 Thank you for the prayer. My first individual appt with the psychologist is Monday. I already submitted a very detailed notebook of information and documentation and have knowledegable people writing letters. I am still working on the money issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted December 29, 2009 Share Posted December 29, 2009 Thank you for the prayer. My first individual appt with the psychologist is Monday. I already submitted a very detailed notebook of information and documentation and have knowledegable people writing letters. I am still working on the money issue. :grouphug: Let us know how it goes on Monday. I am praying for you--both for the ugly custody battle and for the $$$. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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