Ok, I am one of the my table, my rules people. My ds can be quite picky. His choice is eat what I prepared or you are free to make a sandwich, some yogurt, or cereal. No one has to starve or eat something they find revolting. However, you are not allowed to complain about what has been prepared. I find that to be rude and ungrateful after someone took the time to prepare a meal for you to enjoy.