I know this may sound crazy, but would your husband go to some other church with you? For instance... Lutheran? or something?? I would bend on the church (and yes, I understand that going from Catholic to Lutheran or other is a big deal!) Anyway..... if my husband would go with me. What church would your husband be comfortable with??
And yes, I would insist that my children go... kindly... and with Scriptural backing... until they are 18 or so... or maybe while they are living at home...
Carrie:-)