Just to clarify, my DH is not squeamish and is incredibly supportive. He'd do anything I need. Anything. But I can't allow that kind of intimacy. Is that intimacy? I suppose if I was completely desperate. But otherwise...ugh. No.
So, Scarlett said she didn't let her husband help her in the bathroom when she was sick after 2 weeks of marriage. I said I wouldn't let DH now, after 17 years of marriage. Where does everyone else stand on these things? How private are you about poop? I came from a family where bodily functions were pretty shameful, and while I have done better with my kids, I am still insanely private about myself. Is this normal?
Yes: birth certificates, social security cards, C19 vax cards, medical information, life insurance info, adoption paperwork, last physicals for kids, POAs, etc
It actually is considered pica. Here's an article from Mayo Clinic:
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/iron-deficiency-anemia/expert-answers/chewing-ice/faq-20057982#:~:text=Doctors use the term "pica,although the reason is unclear.
And one from National Library of Medicine:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30215844/
My son and I talk openly about it and my daughter read about it in one of her growing up books and asked if it was required. (lol) I told her no but that most people do like to try it. She hasn't asked anything more about it but we talk about everything else all the time.
All those things are things to think about. But you can be old enough and know what you want and STILL end up being abused or cheated on and get a divorce. Young love isn't really any less "safe" than any other relationship. JMO of course.
My parents got married at 18 and just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. Not from a religious family. I don't think it's a new thing or a new trend. Sometimes people do...and sometimes people don't.