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  1. Update I brought up the dynamic with my son to her and such a big surprise! She reacted badly. She kept trying to argue why they should be able to talk to each other like that and said I was being a victim 🤣. I told her that it is now three times I have set a boundary with her regarding my son and three times she has reacted badly. I said having her there is negatively affecting my family and I'm going to choose them and she would have to find another place to live. She said, " so I guess being your mother counts for nothing." Then she brought up how hurtful it is when I go shop
  2. Dyshidrotic eczema would be my guess. I have that and it is always on the same couple of toes.
  3. Smoking explains a lot. She has also aged like the vegans I know. I wonder if she is. I have a Grand Canyon in between my eyebrows. Botox was tempting at first until talking to my friends whose faces don't move. No, thanks.
  4. Yep. That's why I thought he was cancelled. It's the disgusting wheelchair tweet, for me.
  5. I have at least 8 cast iron pieces. I use them for almost everything. I have a huge 15-in Lodge skillet that I cook one pan meals in all the way down to a butter melter. Last year, my son found a Vollrath griddle in a thrift store for $8 and it’s a favorite. I do have some problems with crusty flaking on the outside of a couple of my pans. Not sure what it is, maybe some one here will know how to fix it.
  6. You're right, diagnosis or not, I need to do what I need to do. I will say, though, if she doesn't have a cluster-B personality disorder, I would be shocked. She possesses so many of the traits.
  7. Oh, yes, she definitely would go to him and ask. He would say its fine because non-confrontational.
  8. Apparently I have lots of sisters here. 😀 I am sure I will be pegged as the evil one. Not looking forward to the suck but it already sucks now so. . . .
  9. Usually 6 months in CA. I’m guessing closed courts have pushed things back. It is definitely not over. Her order for temporary support just got resolved last month. There is a hearing in April that was supposed to be in February. She never contacts her attorney which is extremely frustrating. She keeps saying she cant wait until it is over. She is also the one who said she wanted a divorce but his kids filed on his behalf and now she is the unsuspecting victim telling her friends, “It just came out of nowhere!” Like I said, lots of backstory. They were both abusive to each other and she w
  10. When we have too many, I juice and freeze for marinades later.
  11. I don’t know. It was filed February, 2020 by my stepdad. So over a year now. Her attorney said it would be pretty much an accounting case. Not sure why it is taking so long.
  12. Oh, my gosh! They are twins. And I have seriously thought leaving to a hotel or air bnb if I need to! I am really sorry you lost so much but I’m happy you have peace now. Thank you for sharing.
  13. I’m sorry you had to go through this, as well. I have already determined that I will not be the devoted daughter who gives up everything to take care of her abusive mom. That’s not going to be my story. I’m in school and plan to have a career. My sister still has a baby at home and will be raising kids for another 20 years or more, but no way would I push my mom off her, either., to abuse her and her kids.
  14. Before he left the room he did say, “Come on _____. That’s not okay.” My sister wants to sit down with our husbands and her and talk about next steps when the time comes, We talked about that as being when the divorce is final. The time between that and her leaving is going to be pure hell.
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