I agree, but I think the problem here is that the dd doesn’t know her mom doesn’t want her to work on the puzzle unless they’re working on it together. The dd is probably just having fun, and she thinks she’s helping Mom with the puzzle. I don’t think the OP can expect her dd to be a mindreader.

I noticed you posted in another thread, so I'm giving this thread a bump in the hope that you'll let us know how you're feeling today. I hope you're okay! :grouphug:

If you think it's your hormones talking, let it go for now and see how you feel in another day or two. But how about telling your dd that you've decided it would be more fun to do the puzzle as a team rather than separately, and asking her when she will be available to work on it with you? That might give her the hint that you don't want her to do it alone, without making it seem like you're annoyed. Maybe phrase it more like, "I love this puzzle you gave me, and I'm hoping we can do the whole thing together." (Edited for typo)

We were posting at the same time! :) The only problem I can see with emailing her is that she will respond by saying she will mail you a check, and then she will forget to mail it to you, and then things will be even more awkward when you have to remind her again.

If that's the case, I like Regentrude's idea of bringing it up to your son and having him remind her to pay you.

Double post -- sorry!!!

I wouldn't do it via email. I would speak with her directly. It's too easy for people to misinterpret emails and perhaps get offended when no offense was intended.

I think you're being overly sensitive. Have you asked your dd not to work on the puzzle without you? Maybe you could phrase it as wanting to do it together so it doesn't sound like you're annoyed that she has been working on the fun parts on her own.

Honestly, I think your dh is being incredibly inconsiderate. Why isn't he coming home to keep an eye on you tonight? Concussions are serious! And he thinks you should go to work tomorrow??? :svengo: No. Just no. I'm so sorry. :grouphug:

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I was thinking the same thing. I do remember being concerned for goldberry's dd in the past because the boyfriend's mother wasn't welcoming toward her, and I seem to recall it having been upsetting for goldberry's dd that the boyfriend wasn't supportive or helpful when it came to defending her to his family, and that he was unwilling to get involved in the problems between her and his mom. If that is still the case, I find it very worrisome because if she marries this guy, she needs to know he is willing to stand up for her, and that has not seemed to be the case in past incidents. I'm not saying goldberry should not pay for the wedding or that she shouldn't try to remain as close as she can to her dd no matter what happens, but I would definitely be sure her dd knew what concerns she has about existing problems and issues within the relationship, and to suggest that perhaps the dd might want to consider a long engagement before rushing into marriage.

I hope you have fun at your party, no matter how many people show up. How rude of people to not bother to respond, though!!!

I would wrap it all. But I'm a lunatic. :)

I'm glad she backed down -- I would guess that your son had something to do with it, which I think is a good thing. It sounds like this gf is testing you to see how much she can get away with, and that could be a big problem in the future because it will get harder and harder to stand your ground when there is a history of you giving in all the time. I think it's a good idea to talk to her about it to let her know you like her dog and weren't trying to be mean to him by not letting him come to your house for Christmas. I also like the previously posted idea of getting a little present for her to bring home to her dog.

Well, it IS your house and your choice. Your son's gf is being unreasonable. Will your son come to your house for Christmas on his own?

How does your son feel about the situation?

I hope your wish comes true!!! Praying for a positive test!!!

You're not being petty at all, Jenny. :grouphug: I hope your kids are eventually able to work out their differences, but right now I know you're so scared about your cat, and I hope he comes home today. Have you called the local pound, animal rescue organizations, and local veterinarians so they can be on the lookout for him? Also, post on places like Craigslist and go door to door and ask neighbors if you can check places like under their decks, as well as in and under backyard sheds and boats.

When you see the GP, you can ask him about the two programs you mentioned. Hopefully, he will know more about them and will be able to tell you which one of them would be the best option for your dss -- or if he has better ideas of his own. Ultimately, your dss has to really want to lose the weight. You can do everything in the world to help him, but if he's going to constantly sabotage himself by eating all of the junky foods at school every day, there's nothing you can do about that. You can help him get the best possible treatment and advice, but ultimately he is still the one who has to follow the recommendations. It's not like he's a little kid who is at home with you all day and you can control what he eats and how much he exercises. (Edited for typo!)

Sending you lots of hugs. I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time. :( :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

She doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. :glare: I suspect she makes a nice profit if you order from her preferred supplier. Trying to talk you into choosing cabinets you don't like just so she can make more money is not what a friend would do. Has she known all along that you wanted white cabinets? It would seem to me that the color scheme would have come up pretty early in your discussions with her. I hate to say this, Moxie, but I think your "friend" is pulling a fast one. Stand your ground and get what you want. You'll probably have that kitchen for a lot longer than you'll have that friend.

I like the idea of the keychain weapons. If you bought yours online, do you have a link for them?

:party: Congratulations!!!

My son has tried several VR options when they have been demonstrated at Best Buy, and he hasn't liked any of them.

Grape juice seems to have worked for me, as well -- just standard Welch's grape juice.