I have always told my dd that we expect her to go to college even if she wants to stay home with her children. One of the posters said that she has advised her daughter to go into nursing. This is exactly what I have told my dd. If she needs to add a little income herself, she can do it working part time. I started this thread because I have heard both sides from other women. I have heard women (women that do stay at home) say that the money they are still paying 5,10,15 years later, was a waste. I can understand that. However, as others have posted, I think it is important for women to have something to fall back on in case of divorce, death, or husbands losing thier jobs. Thanks for the great responses!